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TTC3, 2ww anyone want to join me??

529 replies

DGLLB · 26/01/2014 11:48

Hi all,

DH & I are TTC DC3, we have DD 4 & DS 2, AF due 6th feb....

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tiffs · 03/08/2014 22:01

:( I know what you mean sweep I was trying for a long time before I found out I was having my ds. I went to the dr and did diet, vitamins, pregnancy books but I did eventually get my bfp and it was well worth all the waiting :) xx

SweepTheHalls · 04/08/2014 07:33

AF this morng.

Passthebiscuitspls · 04/08/2014 13:42

So sorry sweep.Sad
Big virtual hugs coming your way. Xx
oif sorry your leaving! I hope things work out for you. Xx

Welcome to Sarah & tiffs! I hope it's not a long wait for you. Xx

jazzyjenbo · 04/08/2014 18:45

Ohh sweep hugs Hmm

Tiffs, welcome

My ds is 4 in oct and dd was 2 last week. 21 mth gap and this will now b my longest wait!! Would of been 25 months between dd and #3 but that wasnt to b so gudness knows when elusive #3 will stick!!

tiffs · 04/08/2014 22:20

so sorry sweeps. Hope your ok xx

Hi all. Hope everyone else is ok. Whose in the 2ww. I remeber that so well from my dd and ds .... Not looking forward to that part again xx

jazzyjenbo · 04/08/2014 23:35

I'm in my fertile window so should soon b back in the 2ww club. I think i may of ovulated slightly earlier this month, i hav just been tracking signs and symptoms and cf this month after over doing the opks last month.
I always used to feel cramping but havn't felt that for awhile but i felt abit of cramping today and hav had a slight bit of spotting which on cd15 can be linked to ov spotting apparently!!
Neway lets hope!.. Sarah and tiff ru in the ttc club now or starting trying soon?
Looks like we're aiming for may babies x

tiffs · 05/08/2014 22:10

Oh good luck Jazzyhenbo :)

I will be in the ttc club in the next week or so, My hubby has just had spinal surgery so no intimate relations for a about two weeks. We had decided to start trying then he got took in hospital ... his first op didnt work so he had a second a month later then the wound didnt heal so he had his last operation on Saturday. So we both cant wait.

In the meantime we are trying to get into a healthy living regime and just cut down on things.

How long has everyone been trying? xxxx

jazzyjenbo · 05/08/2014 23:31

Hope the dh soon gets better from his ops, sounds like hes been through it!!

This will be my 7th cycle since my mmc in january, we started trying again straight away but tbh my first few cycles were wtf cycles., longest was 40days.

This is the longest i've actually been ttc, ds was 5 months and dd and mmc were just not prevented!

Sarahsun · 06/08/2014 12:39

Hi all, sorry about af sweep. I've been having problems logging on for some reason! I don't have any children yet, I know the thread said ttc3 but it was the 2ww that got me! My af is due on thurs so I've been testing like crazy but all bfn. And of course I have every possible symptom of being pregnant (same as last month) although I'm spotting a bit today which is actually new for me so fingers crossed! xxx

jazzyjenbo · 06/08/2014 15:48

How long hav you been trying for sarah x

Sarahsun · 07/08/2014 17:20

Af here today and soooooo painful I'm on ibuprofen, paracetamol and tramadol Sad
Jen, been off pill for over a year, using CBFM for 6months. I had endometriosis removed last year tho so unsure of that's affecting things, although luckily for me the pain hasn't come back since surgery but doesn't mean the endo hasn't, sigh. Think a trip to doctors is in order but don't want more surgery as I've had 4ops on my tummy already. Really getting down with it all now
Sarahsun xxx

wiltingfast · 07/08/2014 20:47

So sorry about your af sweep, sneaky dam thing, catching you out at last minute :( hope you're not too down.

Welcome sarah and tiffs! And good luck with your (careful!) ttc efforts Grin

Am on hols here and enjoying the break from ttc worries. Not entirely sure I want to keep going but daren't say so to dh who's not at all keen really. Am just gone 40 now and really hoped I'd be pg by now. Trying since xmas and so sad after the mc in may. Have a few more days to think about it I guess! Met a friend for dinner and she was showing me pics of a 9wo, really upset me. She just looked so new! The baby that is, not the pal Grin. So really not sure what I want anymore. X

jazzyjenbo · 07/08/2014 22:13

Try and enjoy your holiday wilting. This ttc business does make you question yourself doesnt it? Try not to be to hard on yourself, your body is still recovering from the mc.. I think mine still is 7 mths later! I know alot of ppl who have had successful pregnancies well into their 40's so its by no means the end for u yet. I have my moments thinking why am i bothering, hubby keeps saying we should maybe stick with the 2 but i just have this niggle in my mind that i'm not 'done' yet... Do u know what i mean?
I was watching in the club the other night thinking yep i wanna b in the club again.. I should be 38 weeks now actually, my af will b due on what would of been my due date.
Sarah, the endo doesnt signal the end, a friend has this and has just had her dd2 last week although she did need ivf to conceive (her eggs/dh sperm).. They saw doc after 6 mths then had to document ttc for next year before ivf, it maybe worth seeing gp if you are worried the endo is affecting your fertility,
Sorry for epic post!Shock

jazzyjenbo · 11/08/2014 18:45

Alls gone quiet? All ok?

wiltingfast · 12/08/2014 22:25

All well here jazzy, thanks for your kind words :) What dpo are you now? Am coming up to the window now soon. Really enjoying the holiday tho I lost my internet for a while. The two dc have been great, keep wondering if I should stick with what I have instead of throwing the dice again but as you say, I have a niggle! Prob wing it this month and see what happens. Have sore boobs already, feck's sake

x

jazzyjenbo · 13/08/2014 13:48

I think i am 8-9 dpo. Stupidly poas this morning, of cause it was negative. Af not even due for another week. Feeling a little sick, but i sumtimes feel like this during lp, i also hav had some slightly different signs this month, i had spotting when i ovulated (never had that before) and hav been cramping on and off over the last few days. I'm really hoping it maybe implantation pains. Fx for us this month x

wiltingfast · 13/08/2014 23:23

Fx jazzy :)

Royalsteph · 15/08/2014 18:26

hope you don't mind me joining. me and OH are ttc #3 DS's are 3 and 6 x

tiffs · 15/08/2014 19:03

eeekkkkkk we officially started ttc last night for #3. Im a a huge amount excited and a bit nervous :) xxxx

jazzyjenbo · 16/08/2014 00:23

Welcome steph and tiffs gud luck with the shagging!!Smile

I'm still in 2ww, symptom spotting like usual, poas for fun!! Of course all bfn, never had a bfp before 7 days late so why should now b any different!

I'm on the august bus thread, its fab! Theres a september one you should join, lots of tips!!

If i dont get my bfp this month on the august bus i'll hop onto that thread instead.

wiltingfast · 18/08/2014 22:36

come on jazzy! must be time for poas'ing?!! Grin

This month for me, has been a disaster for ttc. Had my fertile window on the damn ferry coming home. Not much chance of dtd there...

jazzyjenbo · 18/08/2014 23:17

Hi wilting, app says af due tomorrow (cd30).
Hav taken afew tests over last few days and all bfn.
Last 3 cycles af has arrived on 22nd so i'm aiming for friday really.
Trying not to symptom spot but hav had afew.
Where abouts ru upto? Whens next af due.

wiltingfast · 19/08/2014 20:51

Next af due 31 aug. Am incredibly spotty which is making me cross. Stabby pains low down tonight, am at most 4 days dpo on a month where we only dtd twice on the first 2 days of the fertile period but that does that stop me thinking implantation???? Hell no! Grin so you spot away jazzy and tell us all about it.

Cd30, your cycles are fairly long then? I'm usually 28 days. Did you opk this month?

jazzyjenbo · 19/08/2014 21:18

No opk, i was trying to just listen to my own body.. Ov pains came when ovia said i was at peak, tracked cf, cd30 now, longest cycle recently was 32, shortest 28, thinking i'm still messed up since mmc.
No signs today apart from tiredness, (but this could be explained after long walk in forest hunting gruffalo yesterday)
If this isnt the month i'm going to start epo for 2 weeks and opk from end of af, i've never got a peak in the past so worried i'm getting signs of ovulation but not releasing egg. Also gona temp.

wiltingfast · 19/08/2014 21:33

Yeah, I used to think I could listen to my body but it has a lot to say since the mc and I can't make it out any more!

What's epo?

I've found opk'ing quite reliable, at least I get a clear surge. Never temped but is supposed to be the best indicator.