Is there a January bus yet?!!

[Kt1991]

Hi everyone my AF appeared on 3rd December, so got kicked off the December bus pretty early! But couldn't see a January bus yet!! My stats are TTC #2 cycle 5 BFP due 8th Jan.

I just wonder what the pill really does to our bodies never taking that ever again because I don't believe that using that for 11 years done any good

Hello everyone! Just checking in, AF was due 1 Jan but no sign of her yet, POAS on the 1st and a few days before but all BFN.

Been away for a few days and home today, not sure if I should POAS tomorrow??? Today would be CD 33.

When AF arrives I have a bunch of opks and cheapie tests, more CBFM sticks and conception friendly lube ready to order!!!

TTC #1, Cycle 1, 2 days overdue and waiting...

Haha doctor it's typical isn't it?!

Zara, if you're late and your cycles are regular I'd test now!

Thanks GlitterLily11, going to have to start monitoring CM closely as I don't get many other symptoms mentioned - even my pre-menstrual symptoms are very low key. Thanks!

And yes DoctorDonnaNoble!

Morning everyone, BFN for me this morning AF not due till next week anyway so will hold out till then, as I have run out of tests too! More symptoms this month though!
Sorry to hear for those who got AF”s but at least you can still board this bus! Congrats to the BFPS! broody did you test again?! If so want me to add you to the BFP list?

Zara get testing again!

BFPS!
Lime19 TTC #1 cycle 4, BFP 30th DEC!
Punkypod TTC #2 cycle 2, BFP 2nd JAN!

Awaiting BFPS!
Toots123 TTC #1 cycle 1 BFP due 31st Dec
Pebble TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 31st Dec/1st Jan
Hopemummi TTC #1 cycle 10, BFP due 1st Jan
Zara1984 TTC #2 cycle 1, BFP due 1st Jan
Bumpbangbump TTC #2,BFP due 2nd Jan
Thefuturesupremerulersmum TTC #2 cycle 1, BFP due 3rd Jan
Nottalotta TTC #1 cycle 7, BFP due 3rd Jan
Saltyseabird TTC #2 cycle 6, BFP due anyday
Broodysnoopstie TTC #1 cycle 5, BFP due 4th Jan
Mum2kiss TTC #2, BFP due 5th Jan
Broodylicious TTC #2 cycle 1, BFP due 5th Jan
Wakeytryingagain TTC ? cycle 1, BFP due 5th Jan
Cherieblossom TTC #3 cycle 2, BFP due 6th Jan
HippyJess TTC #1 cycle 1 BFP due 6th Jan
Wondercat TTC #2 cycle 5, BFP due 6th Jan
Rockins20s TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 7th Jan
cybercat TTC #1, cycle 1 (following MC & poss chem). bfp 7th Jan
Laceylee TTC #1 cycle 1 mmc, BFP due 8th Jan
Nordicmum TTC #3 cycle 2, BFP due 8th Jan
Kitty TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 8th Jan
Bumpandgrind TTC #1 BFP due 8th Jan
Kt1991 TTC #2 cycle 5, BFP due 8th Jan
Blithereens TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 8th Jan
Findingme TTC #2 cycle 6, BFP due 9th Jan
Fairypants TTC #3 cycle 4 post mc, BFP due 9th Jan
Littlemissy1234 TTC #2 cycle 2, BFP due 9th Jan
PetiteChouette TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due 9th/10th Jan
Cosyteabags TTC #1 cycle 7, BFP due 9th.10th Jan
Cottonwool4brains TTC 2 cycle 10, BFP due 10th Jan
Mrskoala TTC #2 cycle 1, BFP due 10th Jan
RMumness TTC#2 Cycle 1 BFP due 10th Jan
Skybluegirl33 TTC #1 cycle 6, BFP due 10th Jan
Seasavage TTC #3 cycle 1,BFP due 10th Jan
Upnorth TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due 11th Jan
Sleepisf0rwimps TTC #2 cycle 4, BFP due 11th Jan
Glitterlily TTC #2 cycle 1, BFP due 11th Jan
Onlymydogunderstandsme TTC #2 cycle 1, BFP due 12th Jan
Jessica78 ttc#1, cycle 7, BFP due Jan 12
Mundaycakes85 TTC #1 cycle 6, BFP due 12th Jan
Angelicjen TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 12th Jan
Kitkat TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due 13th Jan
Akachan TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due 13th Jan
Scoffin- TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 14th Jan
Choccywoccydodah TTC #2 cycle 5, BFP due 14th Jan (2 chem)
Harry2007, TTC #3, BFP Due 15th January
Justmarriedbecca TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 15th Jan
Monstersauras TTC #2 cycle 3 BFP due 15th Jan
1974rach TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 15th Jan
Moffit TTC #2 cycle 3, BFP due 15th Jan
Tigsy TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 16th Jan
Rubyshoe TTC #2 cycle 4, BFP due 16th Jan
Mistyautumn TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 17th Jan
Becauseisaidso50 BFP due 17th Jan
Amy246 TTC #1 cycle 3, BFP due 17th Jan
Gingerpanther27 ??? bfp 18th jan
Spinninggirl10 TTC #2 cycle 2 post mc, BFP due 18th Jan
Jennyofoldstones TTC #1 cycle 5 BFP due 18th Jan
Thingsthatgohumpinthenight TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due 18th Jan
Honeybear30 TTC #1 cycle 3, BFP due 19th Jan
Imaginaryhat TTC #? cycle 8, BFP due 19th Jan
Doctordonnanoble TTC #1 cycle 1 post mc, BFP due 20th Jan
Barmybunting TTC #1 cycle 3, BFP due 22nd Jan
Treaclepie19 TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 23rd Jan
Reginafelange22 TTC #1 cycle 3, BFP due 23rd Jan
Kittyvoncatsington TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due 24th Jan
Sleepingstarsmommy TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due 24th Jan
Missmrsmummy,TTC#1, cycle 2, BFP due 24th Jan
Aisha18 TTC #1 cycle 4, BFP due 24th Jan
Hazelbrowneyes TTC #1 cycle 1/2, BFP due 25th Jan
Sazzlehopes TTC #2 cycle 14, BFP due 25th Jan
Charlie343 TTC #1 cycle 3, BFP due 25th Jan
Lottystar TTC #3 cycle 4, BFP due 26th Jan
Owlie84 TTC #1 cycle 1 or 8?, BFP due 26th Jan
Keeping TTC #1-cycle 7after MMC in July-BFP due 26th Jan
Knottyknitter TTC#1 cycle 2, BFP due between 26th and 4th Feb
Mama31 TTC #2 cycle 8, BFP due 27th Jan
Queenasanti3 TTC #2 cycle?, BFP due 27th Jan
Hollyben TTC#2 cycle 2 post mc, BFP due 29th Jan
Bellaboo88 TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 30th Jan
Bumpbangbump TTC #2 cycle 2, bfp due 30th Jan
Meezermum TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 31st Jan
Hazelbrowneyes TTC #1 cycle #1 BFP due 31st Jan
Englishgirlabroad TTC #1 cycle 4, cycle 1 post mc. BFP due ?
Ram19 TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due?
Somuchfruit TTC #2 cycle 1 post mc, BFP due?
Fivemoreminutesmummy TTC #3 BFP due? (coil removed 11th Dec)
Wineandchoccy TTC #1 cycle 6, BFP due?
MSvee TTC #2 cycle 3, BFP due?
Kittyrose TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due?
Mammy2be TTC #2 cycle 2, BFP due 3rd/4th week Jan poss?
Lorelie TTC #1 cycle 3/4, BFP due?
Lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout?
Puddingandhotmilk TTC #2, but still Bf'ing DD so no AF yet
Htbftm TTC#4 cycle 1, BFP due- no idea!
Mrsf2510 TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due end of Jan
LH1981 TTC #3 cycle 5, BFP due?
Missingbun TTC #1 cycle 4, BFP due?
Mattsmama TTC #3 cycle 3, BFP due end of Jan
Lovecuppy TTC #1 cycle 5, BFP due end of Jan
Princesscrystalx
Flukewoman BFP due anytime between 14th-21st Jan
Hibou7688- lurking
Stewietakestheworld-lurking
Jilljill2890 TTC #? cycle 7/8?, BFP due?

Hello everyone and all new ppl

DoctorDonna- yes absolutely!! For example, I went to the docs for something totally unrelated aged 28 and they wanted me to go on the coil... no thanks... Don't even ask if you might want a baby soon, are in a long term relationship etc. kinda wish I had been a young mum but feel like we were told that was the 'wrong' thing to do

LH - know how u feel I just had a 66 day cycle but that was after an mmc and I think my hormones were messed up, could u have any reasons for hormones being out of whack?

I'm on cd7 now, hoping for bfp around 24th jan but no idea what my cycle will be like now. I expect my fertile period to be just when I go back to work as well, great!

I've always wondered about what the pill/other contraception can do to your body! I feel like they don't really know the long term effects. No matter which way you look at it it's not what nature intended and is entirely man made...

My body has never responded fantastically to any type of contraception. I came off the pill at the beginning of December after having gained a stone in a year. I've always been a couple of stones over weight but when on the pill or any other contraception I can not shift an ounce and almost always gain weight when I'm on it.

When I conceived dd I had not been on any kind of contraceptive for 5 years and conceived the first month...lets see what happens this time!

Think we have a similar cycle LaceyLee.
I'm on cd9 now and hoping for BFP 23rd jan. My fertile period is when were back at work too :( typical!

Morning everyone, haven't had time to read back through all the posts yet but for those in limbo land hold on to your tickets, it's not over yet!
And to those AF got, I'm sorry. FX for the next cycle and lots of baby-making shenanigans!

I'm very excited today as I'm getting all of my hair cut off for charity! U've been very lucky in that lots of people have been generously sponsoring me. My hair is going to make a lovely blonde wig for a child who has had chemotherapy. I might post a photo later

Good luck to all those testing today x

Morning

LH and Ginger.....I can't believe you're still waiting!!!! So frustrating for you both.

Jilljill....you should poas

Mama.....good to see you, sorry af turned up super early!!

Sazzle....thanks. I'm counting myself out for this month but I'll hang around and cheer everyone on I've decided to up my exercise this month, I've slacked off a bit and need something other than ttc to focus on!!

Hi all Newbies! Welcome!
LH have you been to the doctors... 54 days is crazy!! really feel for you! Being in limbo sucks! At least if the bitch came you could crack on with the next cycle!! Hope either a bfp appears or she comes soon for you.

Munday.....what a kind and generous thing to do xx

OMG munday that's amazing!, yes post a before and after xx

Bella I was on microgynon too, I was panicking as I read so many others on previous buses were on it and not happy, but I fell month 3 and 4 so I just think it depends on your body.

I was on Yasmin last time I fell pg with ds and that was also month 3. I'd been in the pill for 16 years before that.

Doctor - I am very annoyed at the years trying not to get PG. Really wish I'd thrown caution to the wind and just gone for it now. Ah well...no point looking back, we can only influence the future.

Jilljill - eeek...well I would test...but understand why you want to wait a bit longer. Fingers crossed for you.

Sorry for all the limbos and BFNs. And big wave to all the newbies.

Oh Munday that is lovely! Goodluck!

Morning everyone. waves to newbies got a big fat not pregnant on cb digi today. CD42. Shall get a box of frer at some point in the next week or so. Just want to know where one or the other is.

Oh Ginger! Pfffff!!!

Lacey, not sure if the pill has messed me up. Came off cerazette in August, but after a 7 week wait for AF, things have been pretty regular since (slightly longer cycle at 37 days)

Had a chemical pregnancy so it could also be that but had a normal cycle since.

Just a waiting game!

Mundt that's amazing! Definitely post pics!! X

I ended up as an in limbo person in November which turned into my BFP there's always hope until AF turns up.

Munday definitely post a picture!

I was on microgynon to, can't remember who asked? I came off end of October and had a 28 day cycle followed by a 26. I think I was lucky having af come back so quickly having read others stories. I'm on cycle 3 now and hoping this will be my bfp. BUT convinced today is O day and cannot get dh to break away from work (he is at home) for a quick dtd. Guess it doesn't sound all that appealing when I put it like that though lol. It's so frustrating because I know my own body and he doesn't feel the same urgency that I do. It feels like it's such a small window of opportunity.

Also doctor, I am so annoyed at how careful I was before! And I wish I could tell some of my friends to come off thier contraception who I know will want kids in the near future. Especially when I hear them saying maybe I'll go onto the depo... I just want to shout no! But our TTC is top secret so they would wonder why I am suddenly so knowledgeable and interested.

Sorry to hear you are still both on limbo lh and ginger I have a 79 day wait for AF post MC. It was the pits. Hope you both get and answer soon.

bella I was on microgynon too. First time round it took me 8 cycles though I was working abroad at the time so not really a good example, think it was 3 cycles after I came home permanently before I got a BFP. This time I got BFP 2 cycle which sadly ended in MC

Thanks all for responding about microgynon....sorry for the non sticky beans but glad to hear you were still fertile. I agree, lack of research on it isn't good. My partners happy for me to stay off it & use other methods. I still had awful periods & mid-cycle bleeding.

Lh didn't realise youre in limbo, fx for you.

Just praying partners car isn't wrote off now, he might get abit money worried & panic.

Is there any part of this forum that talks about tax credits/maternity allowance etc? X

Bella if you do a search you should find something

Are you fellow limbo ladies living as normal or as if pregnant. Wondering if I'm allowed my third coffee of the day...

Not in limbo but if you want to save your sanity then you need to carry on as normal until you know for sure. So long as normal is not an outrageous amount of anything bad for you (which would be bad for TTC in any case!) then carry on as you were...