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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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956 replies

justb01 · 14/08/2013 09:19

Hi, I'm a newbie here and ttc newbie as well! I'm looking for buddies to share experience. Who's with me?Experts tips always welcome
We've been ttc for fe months, before NTNP. However now I'm starting to feel the pressure for BFP.

OP posts:
woodwaj · 21/08/2013 12:05

Same here!! At least we are in this together! :s

VickyVix · 21/08/2013 20:22

Arrgghh, confused now. Bought myself another pack of the digi CB OPK sticks as I am about to finish the first 10. Have had the flashing smiley for 8 days now and am on cd21. but, i got tempted to test tonight (yes, stupid I know). So I used my last stick from the old pack and .....another flashing smiley. That would have been fine, BUT, then I decided to test again with the new pack, using the new digi bit and it was just a plain circle :( I POAC so it was the same thing I was testing.

think I read somewhere it has a faint circle every single time on the first use but now I'm a bit confused!! So shouldn't have bothered wasting two sticks. Hmmmm please fixed smiley fairy, may you bring us a fixed smiley tomorrow please, I am becoming obsessed! Hmm

Daisychain44 · 21/08/2013 20:37

Hi all, am a late joiner to the Aug bus - still trying to figure out all the acronyms! I'm 5 dpo and starting to get totally obsessed again and kicking myself for not turning down ALL our social engagements in the middle of the cycle to focus more on DTD! Crazy huh!
I had a month off opk's last month because the different brands / different rules / times of day thing was driving me Crazy! IMO the most expensive ones were the worst - I got about 10 days of flashing face then ran out of sticks and had to buy a different brand which just said "no" - so frustrating!
Good luck to us all - fingers crossed for this month!

VickyVix · 21/08/2013 20:49

Hi Daisy glad it's not just me finding the OPKs a minefield! Good luck on the August bus, I've been stalking that thread, think I'm on the September one, could be October at this rate lol :)

woodwaj · 21/08/2013 21:36

From what I read, the clearblue OPKS give you a blank circle on the first stick in a new pack and you then get flash or fixed smileys when your hormone increases but it takes your first reading as a sort of base line to test from... I think ill end up on the October bus...but for next year at this rate!!!

VickyVix · 22/08/2013 08:07

One thing to report, it's FIXED!!!!!! [Grin] the smiley face is fixed!! soooooo pleased, just need to DTD tonight.....lots, hope it won't be too late!

woodwaj really hoping you've got one today too have my fingers crossed for you :)

VickyVix · 22/08/2013 08:08

Ha my grin didn't work Grin

onelifeonechance · 22/08/2013 08:35

Woohoooooo!!! Grin

KedenTTC1Cycle2 · 22/08/2013 13:41

Good luck VickyVix!

VickyVix · 22/08/2013 14:43

Thanks Keden DH isn't going to know what's hit him Grin Grin

woodwaj · 22/08/2013 19:19

Thanks Vicky but no luck for me today I've got a flashing one again!! Good to know that it's still possible though!! ill keep you posted!! good luck and have fun!!

VickyVix · 22/08/2013 19:28

Ah, well good luck for tomorrow woodwaj hope it fixes for you, keep me posted. I definitely read about someone who had the flashy for 14 days so hang in there and it will come :)

onelifeonechance · 23/08/2013 10:41

Hello all, just calling in to see how everyone is doing?

Hope you managed lots of DTDeeding last night VickyVix Wink and i'm keeping my fingers crossed for you for a fixed smiley woodwaj, it'll happen Smile

Hi Daisychain44 (waving!) we are cycle buddies! I'm 7dpo so going through the 2ww (slowly).

There is always a glimmer of hope but it's weird because last month i was sure something was happening then was gutted when AF turned up...this month i really don't think anything has happened and just keep focusing on my next cycle. It'll be our first wedding anniversary during my fertile bit and we're away for that next month so hoping there will be lots of opportunity for DTD Grin (although if BFP fancies turning up before then that would be very much appreciated!)

VickyVix · 23/08/2013 13:48

Hi onelife yes, lots of DTDing last night Grin Will have another crack at it tonight too! Have joined the September bus as I actually have stats now. AF BDP due 4/5th September so we'll see, but I'll be on hols then do don't know whether to test before or after hols (if AF doesn't arrive of course). Might fancy a Wine or two on holiday.

Good luck this cycle, you never know it may happen before your anniversary trip, have my fingers crossed for you :)

VickyVix · 23/08/2013 13:50

er meant BFP!

woodwaj · 23/08/2013 17:41

Hi Vicky and onelife No fixed for me again!! But I like both of your positivity! Plus its a long weekend so no work for 3 days!!! Get some cheap tests and take them on holiday? Or hopefully it could be a nice surprise for when you come back?

VickyVix · 23/08/2013 20:46

Hi woodwaj sorry to hear it hasn't fixed yet, but hopefully fixed smiley will arrive over the long weekend and you'll have three days to DTD to your hearts content Grin

onelifeonechance · 26/08/2013 09:12

Happy bank hol ladies, hope you managed a lie in.

Vicky , have you decided when you're testing yet? how many dpo will you be before your hol?

VickyVix · 26/08/2013 10:57

Happy bank holiday to all.

Hi onelife my BFP is due on 5th but I'm away from 4th for a full 3 weeks so I will test on 4th I think and see what happens, if nothing i may take some tests with me in case AF doesn't show up ......but it's first cycle so I am fully expecting AF to arrive on 5th. BFP would be lovely though :)

How is the 2ww going for you? When are you due to test?

VickyVix · 26/08/2013 11:58

Sorry should have said, I'll be 13dpo on 4th

onelifeonechance · 26/08/2013 13:07

3 weeks holiday? How lovely, have fun Not at all jealous Sounds like a plan, but don't be disheartened if you get a BFN before you go as its not over til AF starts singing! On another thread diamonds got a BFP day 16dpo, but BFNs days 11&12 so early testing not always helpful but understand you wanting to do it before your hols. Will be keeping my fingers crossed for you Smile And if it doesnt go your way this month then sounds like you'll be on holiday for your fertile bit so lots more chance to dtd?

Af due Fri, was planning to wait til Mon to test but we're going to a festival this weekend so think I'd like to know if poss so unless af beats me to it i'm all set to poas on Fri! 2ww initially painfully slow but had lovely few days so feeling pretty chilled at mo.

Off out to enjoy this sunshine, have a lovely day everyone!

KedenTTC1Cycle2 · 26/08/2013 17:40

Hello Everyone.

OPK experts...would you be so kind to take a quick look at my profile pic and let me know if you think the OPK line is dark enough to be postive?

I don't think it is myself, but I've read through some threads that imply it could be! I am supposed to ovulate today (according to the app on my phone), but I don't think this OPK is positive. Granted I POAS at about 12PM my time. Will try again later in the day as well.

Just curious for now!

KedenTTC1Cycle2 · 26/08/2013 17:41

p.s. Tried to link the photo directly here but couldn't figure out how Confused

VickyVix · 26/08/2013 18:19

I know it's probably way too early to test on 4th but unless AF arrives before that I'm going to test before we leave for our holiday, mainly so I know if I can have cocktails on holiday or not! I will take some with me though as know 13 dpo will be super early....besides I am 99% certain AF will get me. But, you're right, we should be away over the fertile bit for next month so could be worse.

onelife you sound nice and chilled which is great, hope it's your month. I have my fingers crosses for you :)

Will be checking on Friday For an update!

keden for some reason I can't click on your profile to check out the pic, probably me being stupid sorry!

KedenTTC1Cycle2 · 26/08/2013 19:09

Vicky I couldn't either. Odd. Maybe this will worl?

www.mumsnet.com/Profile?nick=KedenTTC1Cycle2