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[justb01]

Hi, I'm a newbie here and ttc newbie as well! I'm looking for buddies to share experience. Who's with me?Experts tips always welcome
We've been ttc for fe months, before NTNP. However now I'm starting to feel the pressure for BFP.

You will have to guess before your 20 week scan and see if your right. Bet that seems ages away! You decided that your going to find out didnt you?

20 weeks seems soooooo far away, I am struggling with the 2ww I have just begun for the 12 week scan! It seems the waiting just never stops.

Yep, we have decided that we will find out, but that we will keep it to ourselves (well keep quiet in RL, but i'll definitely share with you ladies!)

I'm totally off anything savoury and just keep going for sweet things, which I need to be really careful of!

Anyone else feeling festive yet? I have been sorting out all the tree decorations, can't wait until we can actually get the tree (but of course I must wait until December!)......arrgh something else I have to bloomin wait for!

I'm waiting for 1st Dec and tree is going up! :)

Oreos sound yummy... Vicky I'm like that all the time and I don't have pregnancy to blame!

You would love what I got in the post today!! Its an american candy selection! There was a warning about E numbers on the box!!

no AF yet broody?

Aah wood that sounds amazing!

I've ordered a bunch of candy canes for the Christmas tree this year, wondering how many will make it to Christmas day :)

Haha bet you have at least 1 a day! But that might be a good thing I bet they will last longer!! Ive got some too but I stick them on xmas pressies for the kiddies!

Just checking in no af here yet!

Looking good fx for you

Still no AF but lots of cramping all day like it's on it's way

Hope AF doesn't show up broody I have my fingers crossed for you!

Thank you both I feel so supported

AF is really teasing you broody!!

Hi guys,

Just popping my head in, lying low this month! Hope everyone is ok. Broody, sounds good! Fx for you.

Woodwaj, how are.you getting along? Glad your man is back and he sounds lovely bringing treats!!

V - loving the sweet tooth, you go girl! You're preggers at the right time, Christmas candy all over the place!!!

Im somewhere in 2ww, not counting days, distracting myself with chrimbo prep. Enjoy the festivities ladies

Hi one life its a good idea to chill out over xmas I wish I could do it!!

Im about half way through mine but again I'll just wait for AF.

my work have organised their own xmas markets today. Local supplier's are coming in you can pre order your xmas food and theres a hog roast. Think there are gifts too. Should be good!! No mention of mulled wine though

OMG Wood, that sounds amazing!!!! Are there any jobs going at your place?!?! Enjoy!

Hi one good to hear from you. I'm throwing myself into chrimbo prep too, bring on December! We are Christmas tree shopping this weekend :) Hoping DH doesn't realise what a fortune I have spent on new tree decorations....will have to cut all the labels off and take the 'what, this old thing?' approach

Sweet tooth still going strong, obsessed by fruit pastilles! But, pleased to report the candy canes arrived on Tuesday and the box is still sealed.

Good luck to you both, definitely think the laid back approach of not counting days will be good, I will have my fingers crossed for you.

wood your work sounds amazing! I would love a Christmas Market to come visit us. Hope you're enjoying the festivities.

broody hope AF has stayed away

hello ladies wood I want your job that sounds fab :) I asked my boss if we'd be decorating he just looked at me like I was an imbecile!

hi one nice to hear from you

still no af here vicky was going to test tomorrow but then again I might hold off I don't think I can bear the disappointment of a bfn

Its good and its bad, they pay me, but then I feel like im giving them all my money back as well!!

ooh fingers crossed broody, any more cramps etc?

Yep strange cramps/twinges all day boobs feel sore and swollen if I wasn't ttc I'm sure I'd just be thinking Oh it's been a while since last AF it'll be here any day... Instead I'm thinking Ok tomorrow is cd36 never had a cycle that long and it's 19dpo but surely I would of had a trace of a bfp at 14dpo.. aghhh!!!

I don't want you to test im lying and I think you should

im so nervous for you!

haha wood!!!!! you aren't helping me keep calm and rational!

Sorry :( I was thinking about myself and my promise to wait for AF But then I remembered last month when I was popping to the loo every 30 mins to see if it was there. Which torture is the least painful? ?

You are right I am totally on knickerwatch OF COURSE I desperately want to test but only for a bfp!

..I do have a frer in the drawer
eeeeeek what if it's bfn though like last week?at least every time there is no af I am positively suprised!

What would you do wood ?

broody 19dpo?!??! and you have tested?? beware I am a total POAS addict

This sounds super positive :)

Are you not joining the Friday POAS party?

BFN at 14dpo doesn't mean BFN at 19dpo.

Totally understand you wanting to wait for AF to show, but if you've got to 19dpo how long are you going to wait?? She might not how up for more than 9 months

Argh fat fingers, have = haven't