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Brooking No Argument that we'll get BFPs from our Easter Eggs

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BeedlesPineNeedles · 22/03/2013 11:17

Well done keep I hope its the first of many :o :o

Right who's next with the BFP???

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EverythingIsTicketyBoo · 06/04/2013 17:01

Ooh good luck Geek I'm sure whatever you have planned he will not be able to resist bad back or not!!

NoCupcakesOrCocktails · 07/04/2013 10:28

Hope you got lucky last night Geek Wink

Keep that article is quite interesting, I might get DH to read it. He's a bit of a science geek so I think he'll enjoy it more than all the other IVF stuff I've made him read. Plus it means more sff Grin

I have bought the zita west book on assisted conception, I figure I better seriously start getting ready plus I'm still a bit confused about some aspects of assisted conception.

GreenOlives · 07/04/2013 10:53

AF is with me today ladies (not fair! Sad )- but looking on the bright side that means theres now 2 grads keeping her busy so Im sure there's 2 bfps just round the corner! Grin

ControlGeek · 07/04/2013 18:10

Haha! He could not resist... unfortunately CBFM decided today is not my peak after all Sad Still, two more new sets of undies to entice him with Grin

olives sorry to hear you've been saddled with AF. It is very gracious of you to keep her entertained so that an undergrad can slip in a BFP!

cup how are you finding the book? Is it answering your questions?

EverythingIsTicketyBoo · 07/04/2013 18:13

Hehe good old seduction!! Love it Grin when does the monitor think O day is now??

SweetieTime · 07/04/2013 18:46

Olives sorry to hear you are sharing AF with Dino not good for you guys so soon after your LOs arrivals. At least it means some of us might get ours BFPs while she is busy Hmm

Geek you work those undies lovely, MrG won't know what is going on. Be careful you don't put his back out again Wink

Cup any questions we Brookers could help you with?

We managed a bit of SFF yesterday afternoon. I told DH about your research Keep too, he seemed interested so we may be on for more at the end of the week Grin

NoCupcakesOrCocktails · 07/04/2013 22:23

Well done on the sff and swi Sweetie and Geek Grin

I just bought the book today from eBay so it will be a while before it gets here. I'm driving myself crazy that I'll get OHSS, or we won't get any eggs or they won't fertilise and a million other crazy thoughts. I've been consulting Dr Google stupidly so I thought reading up on it properly would be more sensible Blush maybe I need a slap with that fish!

Olives and DinoBart sorry AF is visiting, AF is not due for me in about 5 days. Maybe if she's stuck with you guys I could get a miracle BFP. I've just booked a spa day for may so it would be terrible timing as I wouldn't be able to have the treatments I've booked Grin

keepitgoing · 08/04/2013 02:10

cup everyone mental about all those things... Does it help to maybe hope ivf might identify the issue even if not successful first time? I think you're unexplained like us, which is frustrating. I think you'll feel better once you start, and then can just focus on one step at a time. But I am brooking massively that you'll get that miracle. It does happen!

Also, just re ohss, if you do get it, which you won't, it tends to come after egg collection, so you can still make embys, they'd just 'freeze all', so it's not like the cycle's wasted.

Glad everyone's enjoying my research :)

sweetie EC tomorrow!! Am so excited for you!

GenericDietCola · 08/04/2013 06:58

Right, AF is with me too, so I expect this means we are on for another tripe whammy any day now...

keepitgoing · 08/04/2013 07:27

Good work, postgrads!

EverythingIsTicketyBoo · 08/04/2013 08:23

So AF is busy busy busy with the post grads eh?? I will clear off a few more spaces on grads then WinkWink

Sweetie ec tomorrow, that's fabulous!! When is transfer day??

Good morning all other brookers, hope m8 are all well, booking super hard for appointments and treatments so start immediately while AF is looking the other way Grin

SweetieTime · 08/04/2013 11:02

Can not believe AF has struck down so many Grads in one go. At least she is busy with you guys she can not darken our doors.

Cup as keep says everyone mentals about those sort of things. I think the first found of IVF is more fact finding so they know what is going on. I still think it is a very black art as all patients seems to react so different to the treatment, the meds and everything. Just take it in small steps and try not to look too far ahead, just concentrate on the bit you are doing at that time. We are always on stand by with the Brooking wet fish.

Boo clinic are gearing us up for a day 3 transfer on Fri but I was hoping to go to day 5 so we get the best possible chance. I think the fewer embies you get the sooner clinics like to put them back. They are worried the longer they grow them the higher risk of losing them and I suppose the fewer you have to start with the risk is that they will lose them all. We will just have to see how we get on later in the week. Plus we are using the embryoscope to monitor our embies 24 hours a day so hopefully this will give the embryologists the best possible knowledge what they are doing. It is all a waiting game.

So Boo how is booby? not long now until your sneeze. Can not wait to hear what flavour you get. I luffs a surprise.

EverythingIsTicketyBoo · 08/04/2013 11:14

Wow Sweetie has Mr S made his donation to the process or do they do they use a fresh sample from him when the ec takes place? Sorry I'm full of questions about the processes.

Booby seems quite comfortable and happy at the moment. We should get the eviction timetable when we go back to the clinic next Monday :) tis very exciting, I absolutely can't wait to find out the sex of this chunky monkey I think it's a boy though :):)

SweetieTime · 08/04/2013 11:52

MrS has to go tomorrow 10am to do his bit, fresh. He is really looking for forward to it NOT then I should get a call in the afternoon to let me know the grand total of eggs. I have to start on the progesterone bullets tomorrow afternoon too, 2pm sharp. Apparently this mimics the embie fertilisation so have to be very specific in timings. Then Wed a call to tell me embie count.

SweetieTime · 08/04/2013 11:53

Boo posted before I meant to then.

So eviction timetable does that mean it will be a forced eviction for poor booby? It is Very Very exciting times. Another Brooking baby soon to arrive.

EverythingIsTicketyBoo · 08/04/2013 11:59

Ooh I am so excited for you Sweetie, I will try not to spare a thought for Mr s tomorrow, don't want to put him off Grin

Yep booby is being evicted, they estimate birth weight at 38 weeks to be 8lb+ because of the gd, so they don't want me staying pregnant for too long. I'm at the clinic Monday I will be 37+3 weeks and they are going to try a stretch and sweep to start things off, if that doesn't shift it then I'm in the following week for a proper induction [eek]

keepitgoing · 08/04/2013 12:02

Sweetie maybe using that camera let's them choose the best ones by day 3, so best to get them back in. Wowee!!! Are you ok? Are you working most of the time this time? Know you were a bit stir crazy last time.

SweetieTime · 08/04/2013 12:25

keep i was off far too long last time. so this time have booked Friday and Monday off with lite touch working from home the rest of next week. I have quite a stressful job made worse at the moment by a couple of new starters and my boss being off. I am not sure about the impact of stress when embies go back but it is a fine line between work stress and ivf mental stress. Where is that wet fish?

keepitgoing · 08/04/2013 12:35

I think that sounds perfect. A couple of days after ET.

BeedlesPineNeedles · 08/04/2013 12:59

sweetie I hope everything goes well over the next few days. Will you be putting a link to the embryoscope on your facebook? Wink

I think its very kind of the post-grads to take AF so early, so a few of us can get our cycles in sync for another triple whammy :o

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ControlGeek · 08/04/2013 13:38

This is exciting stuff sweetie - brooking like mad for you! Embycam sounds fab - do you get to see it, or is it just for the embryologists' benefit? Would be awesome if you had a weblink to it!!!

I'm sorry for all the post-grads who are having to entertain AF, she's certainly spreading herself around this month.

A wee bit of confusion in the geek household today. Temp has gone skyhigh this morning, so it's possible that I may have stealth-ov'd yesterday Confused SWI-o-meter is looking good, but I had expected to have to wait at least another two days. On the plus side, this will be my first 28-day-cycle in years

GreenOlives · 08/04/2013 13:39

Talking of which beedles I posted the FRER this very morning in preparation for your bfp! They should be winging their way to Sweden as we speak! Grin

Solars · 08/04/2013 16:31

Right, finally sometime to myself so I can catch up with you all.

Sweetie that is amazing that it's all come around. Will you also be at the clinic at the same time with DH? The embycam sounds very exciting. I'm so excited for you. Brooking loads!

Cups It was great to have the time off thanks and I would highly recommend some time off after your ivf result, a nice chance for both of you to reflect on what's happened with whatever outcome you get. In terms of appointments DH has his repeat soap free sample to produce a week on thursday and I may be going in sometime this week when af arrives to start my monitoring cycle so hopefully things will start to move for us too although the last month has been nice not paying too much attention to all things ttc related.

Geek glad to hear your'e healing nicely, but sorry to hear you've been having to work weekends. Yay for a 28 day cycle!!

Can't believe af has darkened so many post-grads doors at the moment, I am not due af end of this week but I think it will be nothing short of a miracle if I get a bfp.

Hope everyone else is good, nice to finally have some sunshine around too...

SweetieTime · 08/04/2013 20:30

Solars lovely to see you, seems ages since we last heard from you. Good luck to MrS when the time comes, we don't want a repeat of SoapGate Wink What does your monitoring cycle entail?

Grin at pee sticks wizzing their way over to Sweden. I wonder if they scan mail coming into the country? Olives did you have to state what was in the package?

Geek no one has said if we get to see embiecam but I presume not live anyway. I know other ladies have been given the DVD of their embies but not sure if this is available at our clinic. I would love to watch it live though that would be very interesting even though I wouldn't have a clue what I was looking at

Does anyone know the success rates for different day embie transfers? I am not sure if I should accept day 3 transfer or push for day 5. I have read this article (beware it is negative towards day 3 transfers) and am now confused. I might ask DH to ask the clinic for their info when he goes tomorrow. Does anyone else have any links I can review go mental worrying about options ?

keepitgoing · 09/04/2013 03:32

sweetie masses of good luck and love for today. I read that article and think that man has a bee in his bonnet. He also says he does assisted hatching on all.

My clinic here say that 30% of embryos will be chromosomally normal on day 3; 70% on day 5. So basically better to wait to day 5 to weed out the bad ones. But, if you have few embryos there's no point waiting so might as well put them back in the best environment (its thought the lab environment may kill some healthy embryos).

this article suggests no difference in pregnancy rates, and is a RCT. Most just compare preg rates which isn't fair as patients have already been self selected to day 5 transfer, ie those with lots of embryos etc.

I would say two things - firstly I think you ultimately need to go with your Colin CC'd recommendation, as each lab is different and you want them to do what you do best. Second, you are having this camera thing, which may negate the argument of not knowing which the good 'uns are on day 3.

Wait to talk to them, and see what your fertilisation numbers are like.

Good luck good luck good luck x