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Trying not to stress

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Knakard · 23/10/2012 00:05

Month 6 of ttc, have a regular 27/28 cycle both with coil and since it has been removed. On day 28 and no af and no signs what so ever no cramp pmt etc! However poas this morning and again in desperation about and hour ago and both bfn!
Both previous pregs (one mc) conceived whilst by surprise whilst still on contraception so I thought actually trying would mean it was a piece of cake (sad)
Please help me stay sane whilst I wait for af and not spend £££ on bloody tests ( no more in the house).

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Knakard · 19/11/2012 21:05

I caved Blush bfn!
Still not due for 4 days though. Started having some cramps today though so think unlikely Sad
Just feeling really frustrated, spent the weekend with my sister who is 32 weeks and felt so jelous! But I feel bad as it took them 1.5 years of ttc. I guess I just assumed with ds being an accident it would happen straight away again so it's sort of caught me off guard.

How are you feeling? x

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Clca · 19/11/2012 22:50

Ah I'm sorry. But at least, as you say, AF isn't even due yet.

I'm ok. Have no "symptoms" at all. AF due around Saturday... Am fully resigned to the fact I am week and will test before then!

Im ttc my first and stupidly just thought it would happen straight away. X

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Clca · 19/11/2012 22:50

*weak even!

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Knakard · 20/11/2012 23:51

Still no sign of af Grin
No more cramps either, keep it all crossed!
I can't imagine how it must be doing this with your first and all the unknowns.

TTC is bullshit!

There I feel better now Grin

Xx

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Knakard · 21/11/2012 00:24

Shit shit shit! Just has a night out on the piss, got home and something made me test ......BFP!!!! Grin

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Knakard · 21/11/2012 00:25

Oh dear I have pickled my bean already Sad

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duchesse · 21/11/2012 00:36

Yeay! And please try not to worry (although worrying and guilt are a major part of the life of most parents I'm afraid)

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Clca · 21/11/2012 10:26

Woooohoooo this is amazing news!!! Congratulations lovely!!! GrinGrinGrin xx

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Knakard · 22/11/2012 07:43

Thanks clca I can hardly believe it Grin

Any news for you? Xx

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Clca · 22/11/2012 12:34

No news for me. Don't feel very confident.Sad

Going to put of testing until Saturday though.

When are you going to the docs? X

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Knakard · 22/11/2012 13:52

No news is good news.

Docs booked for wed next week, it's really odd that nothing feels different and I keep forgetting. I didn't find out with ds till I was 17 week already Blush so I have a feeling these early days are going to feel like forever?

I was just thinking today do you have a stock pile of tests as I had 10 delivered today that I'd forgot about Blush just Internet cheapies but I could post them on to you.

Everything crossed for you x

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Clca · 22/11/2012 18:05

Eeek I think it will be most likely slow until you get to the 12 w scan then it will fly by! Smile Is your Dh excited?

Ah that's so sweet, thank you. If the dreaded AF arrives this month I'll defo take you up on that offer Smile

The count down the weekend is painfully slow. Have treated myself to a cb digital (yeah I know how to live!!!) to test this w/e

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Knakard · 24/11/2012 11:23

Sorry busy few days at work, dh looks a bit shell shocked tbh I did point out to him that he was there to Grin

So any news? x

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Clca · 25/11/2012 13:50

No AF but a BFN. Sad

Just want AF to arrive so we can get back to trying.

Literally everyone I know are announcing they're pregnant and it's making me want to scream!!

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Knakard · 25/11/2012 22:58

Have a very in mumsnetty hug and a glass on wine Smile

Hope your ok and have it all crossed for you xx

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Clca · 27/11/2012 08:38

Thank you!

Still no AF but another BFN. Ergh. Xx

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Knakard · 28/11/2012 22:25

How are you feeling? x

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LoveYouForeverMyBaby · 28/11/2012 22:59

knakard so sorry AF arrived...look at it this way, you're only 2 weeks away from ovulating and giving it another shot. Am either ov or 1dpo will be poas crazy in th next week or two no doubt.

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Clca · 29/11/2012 08:52

Knakard wwwwhhhhhaaattttt???? Your AF arrived??????!!!!!! Huh?

I'm ok still no AF! Think my cycle length must have decided to change to longer! Xx

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beckie90 · 29/11/2012 09:41

Clca... I feel your pain, I'm normally really regular but this month sure I ovulated 2/3 days later, my period based on my original cycle was due yest, I tested on Fri n sat both neg not thinking about my late ovulation signs. Tested again Monday still neg. I orderd some net cheapies, probs test tomorow when they arrive. But don't feel pregnant at all or anything so pretty sure I'm not. Just I normally get 2 days of spotting before af arrives, I havnt got that yet. It's so fustrating xx HUGE CONGRATS KNACKERD x

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Knakard · 29/11/2012 11:09

No no I think the poster before didn't read to the en of the thread, so far so good and still up duffed!

it must be driving you bonkers! What day of cycle are you on now?

Thanks becki super chuffed Smile

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LoveYouForeverMyBaby · 29/11/2012 11:38

SO sorry I didnt read the whole thread, apologises and congratulations!!

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Clca · 29/11/2012 12:48

Ah thank god for that!!! You had me worried! How did the doctors go?

I'm on day 33!!!! I am going insane. Will test again on Saturday if AF doesn't make an appearance before!

Xx

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Clca · 29/11/2012 17:01

Beckie90 - it's bloody annoying isnt it! I know I'm not pregnant but because AF hasnt arrived I cant help but hope I am. Ergh! X

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beckie90 · 29/11/2012 18:07

Yep so annoying only thing that I have is erring a lot but I seem to have that before af last few months arghh. My tests havnt come today here's hoping they here tomorow cause its driving me mad xxx

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