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'Anyone trying...... and want to talk about it No6'!!!!!

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quackers · 31/10/2003 14:20

Off we go, who will be first????

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JCHA · 02/11/2003 20:40

Hi all. Can anyone help? been trying for baby number 2 for a few months. My son is 14.5 months old. It's too early to do a preggers test as period not due till next week. is this a sign of pregnancy - my boobs are leaking a little! or is it just 'left over' from feeding my son (which I only did for 3 weeks.). Thanks!!

melliek · 02/11/2003 21:33

Hi all...It's been a month since i've had my d&c since the m/c. Have had my first period so I am ready to start trying again. My question is if I drink alcohol on the week-ends will this effect my becoming pregnant? I drank more often right after the m/c because I had a hard time to deal with it but now I am ok, but does the week-end drinking do any harm?? I am really anxious to get preg again!!

Podmog · 03/11/2003 07:08

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Helsbels · 03/11/2003 08:32

Morning, all! Hope you all had a good weekend - Fabcy him falling asleep when you'd got your tweezers ready, Quackers! Patiently explained ov to DH again so he was awake all weekend Better check my mail now and get the boss a cup of coffee xx

quackers · 03/11/2003 08:42

Mornin, Helsbels, sounds like you had some seriouse sessions. I only managed 1 but hope it's enough!!! It has been in the past but couldn't get my hopes up as it's hard to tell when I've ov'd now. Used to know my body inside out! Anyway, leaking boobs- yep, I got those about 10 days after conception!!
Drinking booze Melliek - don't worry, I drink like a fish at the weekend too. Maybe just try and take it a little easier in the second half of your cycles?? It's never stopped me getting pg and how many peopel out there carry on normally until even 8 weeks or more without knowing they're pg!!!
So it's a waiting game for a few of us now. I'm not confident this time so will probably be back to square one next month but only month one so can't complain! Just feel like I've been ttc for a year cos of the 2 losses. Wish it could be my turn to see that heartbeat on the scan and all be ok!!! Good luck all!!!!!

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Helsbels · 03/11/2003 08:56

Only a couple, Quackers but fingers crossed! Agree about the beer - just take it easy after ov (or at least easier!)In tears this morning after dropping ds off at nursery as his little friends mum was dropping her new baby off in baby room first - still, never mind - I would love to be able to wrao up a positive stick for DHs christmas pressie though....

Jemma7 · 03/11/2003 09:06

Morning everyone, Thanks Egypt and Bunny for your messages

Still getting the cramps but since saturday have had the feel that AF is going to arrive, really, really sore boobs and aching tummy!
Boobs were so sore yesterday that when i took my bra off i let out a big gasp - DP asked what was wrong - they have never hurt this much before!

Anyway, fingers crossed - not long to wait now!
Quacks, hopefully that will be enough - it only takes once sometimes and that's when accidents happen - good luck

Jemma7 · 03/11/2003 15:25

Am sure AF is going to arrive any minute - have had to keep going to the loo to "Check"!

Have the most horrendous period pains

quackers · 03/11/2003 15:48

Oh Jems, bugger, bugger. You sure? Thought you ahd a bit of time yet before you;re due. I know you're cycles can be diff .

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Helsbels · 03/11/2003 15:49

Thinking about you, Jems - keep in touch. It's so awful, that wait. {{{{}}}}

Jemma7 · 03/11/2003 16:12

I just don't know what to think.

I have got horrible period pains but they are not constant like they usually - i just get and ache that last for about 5 minutes every couple of hours - usually when af arrives i get pains constantly for 3-4 days before.
I sometimes get tender boobs before af but my boobs are actually hurting and feel like they have grown........ordered a new bra from the catalogue last week and my boobs keep falling out today! (DP will be pleased )

I'M SO CONFUSED!!

Can't stand this waiting now - oh i hope AF doesn't arrive.........please, please, please!!!!!

CountessDracula · 03/11/2003 16:13

Fingers crossed for you Jems. Will do anti-AF dance in the garden to ward off the old bag.

Helsbels · 03/11/2003 16:14

When is AF due to arrive, Jems? Sorry - I didn't have a lot to do with the last thread. Are you like me and each month is different?

Jemma7 · 03/11/2003 16:28

Get dancing CoutessD I'll join you when i get home!

Well from coming off the pill 11 months ago my periods are really irregular - they have gone:
35
26
38
34
34
38 (with bleed on days 19, 20 & 21)
36
33
Now on day 35 and counting - not looking good is it????

God, never realised how much i wrote in my diary - wonder if anyone else would figure out what it means?

Helsbels · 03/11/2003 16:42

Wow! I've gone 32, 33, 33,31, 45 (I think or 44)now on 28 (I think) my calender has blown up temporarily so a bit vague and confused!

No wonder we don't know what to do, when to bd, when to test etc. It's all too complicated. Hang in there - if not this month, theres always next - I know it's no help but at least it's true.

quackers · 03/11/2003 16:43

I get it Jems. It;s great you keep a log. Very useful! So it's quite late on , I'm really hoping this will be your month!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'll do anti AF dance too for all of us!!!

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Jemma7 · 03/11/2003 16:45

Well only 3 days til i will find out once and for all!

Will be sods law that this month my cycles is 39 days!

Make sure you chant something with your anti-af dance

quackers · 03/11/2003 16:48

Gosh I'd be so tempted if no AF tomoz!!!

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Helsbels · 03/11/2003 16:49

doing anti af chant now but getting funny looks off the guys I work with!!

quackers · 03/11/2003 16:56

Aunty Flo, off you go,
Bugger off away from me,
Aunty Flo, no, no, no,
As far , as far away can be!!!!!!

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Jemma7 · 03/11/2003 16:58

I am quacks but it would just be a waste when i've only got another 3 days to wait anyway!

I hate this bit every single month - i wish i could fall asleep and wake up when af is meant to arrive to see if the little bitch has paid a visit or not and just sleep through all the waiting and wondering ! !

Carry on Helsbels - i can't quite hear you yet

Jemma7 · 03/11/2003 17:01

And you Quacks........louder, louder......
Aunty Flo, off you go,
Bugger off away from me,
Aunty Flo, no, no, no,
As far , as far away can be!!!!!!

AUNT FLO, OFF YOU GO
BUGGER OFF AWAY FROM ME,
AUNT FLO, NO, NO, NO
AS FAR, AS FAR CAN BE!!!!!!

At least you girls cheer me up!

quackers · 03/11/2003 17:03

ROFL !!! I just made that up, took me ooooh .... 2 mins!!!! Cheer talent - not!!!
Hope this bloody helps!! - oh no pun intended.

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Egypt · 03/11/2003 17:11

blimey, are you lot having a party!! you are funny. good luck Jems, sounds really really good to me!
Quacks, hope this is your month too and of course the rest of you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Jemma7 · 03/11/2003 17:25

I'm off now ladies - got internet access at home now so will try and log back in later!

Keep chanting - i will know if your not