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TTC after a miscarriage - Jingle Beans, Jingle Beans, Beanies all the way!!

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jinglediddle · 06/12/2005 14:37

A fresh new thread.

Lets hope this one is as successful as the last and we can help as many people as we can to come to terms with what has happened to them.
Lets spread some christmas support for everyone.

xxx

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mumsXMASwish · 09/12/2005 09:40

didds. Whats wrong darling? Is everything ok?

XmasAngelCrimboKat · 09/12/2005 09:43

Hiya all.
JD- {{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} aww hunny. if need a chat let me know hun.

Pigging out here on a Pastrami, lettuce, gouda cheese sarni (with mustard) on granary bread. mmmmmmmmmmm So hungry this morning. Technically this is brunch so I don't feel at all guilty.

mumsXMASwish · 09/12/2005 09:46

Work are sending out for bacon butties, I'm starving today as wel so can't wait!

What you got planned for today XACK?

FirstSaintNikkilass · 09/12/2005 09:56

Morning All hope you are all well and those testing at the weekend are being patient and those planning to BD - enjoy ,

diddle I hope your day gets better sweetie...x

mumsXMASwish · 09/12/2005 09:59

Has anyone noticed that ASH isnt on here as much for past couple of days. Do you think she'f worn herself out now that AF has gone?! lol

XmasAngelCrimboKat · 09/12/2005 09:59

Oh dear................Seemed I decided I needed pudding to follow that sarnie.................just ate a huge big bar of Lindor milk chocolate with hazelnuts! (ate the bloody lot too) Oh dear lord I can feel the pounds diving on me and it's not even crimbo yet

Not much planned today. Already been to Sainsburys, got the housework done so think i'll grab some sleep this afternoon. Managed a wonderful 3 and a 1/2 hrs last night.

Ohhhh i feel fat

mumsXMASwish · 09/12/2005 10:03

How come your not sleeping well XACK?

BTW, Sod the diet its xmas! (all of december and some of jan count as xmas)

Atomicstockinghanger · 09/12/2005 10:04

How do you manage it Xack!! And after your "early night" too hehee

I haven't been on much coz I've been so damn busy (not coz I'm BDing constantly unfortunately) Yesterday was manic and I am off to soft play this morning, so won't be on til lunch time-ish.

mumsXMASwish · 09/12/2005 10:06

aww ASH - I thought you'd be "sex & The city" style doing it. lol

Have fun at soft play. (whatever that is )

Atomicstockinghanger · 09/12/2005 10:07

Oh you'll discover soft play soon enough Mums Saviour of all mums!!

Right I will bid you al a good morning and I will be back after lunch

Keep smiling everyone

mumsXMASwish · 09/12/2005 10:11

see ya this afternoon.

XmasAngelCrimboKat · 09/12/2005 10:23

I could'nt help myself!!! The choc called me............"Eat me, yummmmmmmmm" and i had to oblige!

ASH- tell me about it! I was knackered aswell.
Right be back later, off to get ds2 to bed and going to join him.

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jinglediddle · 09/12/2005 10:27

thanks guys - i'm ok, having a sad day. nothing major happened all is well here. Just feeling low, for some reason. DH is away at the moment and i'm missing him, think i just need some loving!!

you're brunch sounds scrummy xack, i'm just gonna whip up some pancakes for me and the kids, yum
feeling better now, ahd a chat with a good mate, who made me calm down and smile again. will try and keep my smile pastered to my face all day

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Snowballstrike · 09/12/2005 10:32

Morning all. Congratulations Trix

All this talk of Chocholate has got me desperate. I've been searching the house for ages like an addict! I'm really looking forward to the joys of soft play oneday [sigh]

Chin up Diddle.....It's nearly Christmas!!!!

Snowballstrike · 09/12/2005 10:35

I hate those Low days Diddle, It's hard to pull yourself out of it. The best thing is not to try to hard to be happy, Accept that you're having an off day and enjoy (if that's possible) feeling grumpy. Either that or skip about like a mad woman and eat four tons of chocholate to cheer yourself up! Works for me!

slinksanta · 09/12/2005 10:56

morning all
can't stop as im so hungry i have to go out as my cuboards are bare!

big kisses diddles

FirstSaintNikkilass · 09/12/2005 11:17

ok... is it possible??

I believe it may be OV time already (done OV test 'cos I was feeling different and +ve) can this be I only mc 2wks ago and stopped bleeding at weekend.... or could this be due to my hormones still being all over the place?

mumsXMASwish · 09/12/2005 11:18

Didds - I join you on the crappy day front? Just got asked to get some folders from upstairs and bring them back. No problem. I get there and the box of folders weighs a ton (or at least more than I want to carry at the mo) so I ask one of the lads to bring it down for me. To boss' office. They do that for me, then I get a call from boss to go see her, where she goes nuts about not doing something I'd been asked to do and she doesnt want them in her office she wants them in the office down the hall can I take them down there. I say it's too heavy to which she huffs and calls the guy who's office I'm meant to be taking it to and complains about me to him, while I'm stood there. He comes and gets them, picks them up with one arm (i'm sure just to make me look stupid) and takes them to his office. She then looks at me and says they obviously arent that heavy. Then says can I take his box of paper to him (which is heavy enough when I'm not pg) I do that and I've pulled my back now putting them on his table for him.

I just feel like crying now. I seriously want to go home now.

mumsXMASwish · 09/12/2005 11:20

I don't know I'm afraid nikki. It could be an ov, or it could be hormones from the MC. BD anyway then if you are OV you got it!

FirstSaintNikkilass · 09/12/2005 11:23

to add to that I started mc/bleed 20/11

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jinglediddle · 09/12/2005 11:40

nikki - sounds like you could be, its not abnormal at all, youg onna start trying now??

mxw - i'd tell her you are pregnant if she's gonna be like that!! you have rights as a pregnant woman. make her treat you like you;re wrapped up in cotton wool.

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mumsXMASwish · 09/12/2005 11:44

Nikki - I would go for it. As long as you do want to ttc and arent too worried about your dates straight away go for it. They will be able to tel you how far along you are when you go for a dating scan.

Didds - I dont want to tell her. I esp don't want to tel her at the mo cos I've heard on a rumour mill that one of the girls at a different depot is sueing for wrongful dismissal or whatever it is, they fired her for being pg.

mygarland · 09/12/2005 12:24

Hello all,
not had time to read thru but i will say nikki - not too early to be ov'ing love!and diddle and mxw i'm sorry u're having a sh!tty day.
a friend rang me to go to soft play with 5 kids so been there all morning having chat. Was really nice of her and i feel that I'm starting to fit in down here and make friends. Girls' nativity at 2 so gonna have dinner and try to chat a bit more. but housework is desperate as said friend is coming round 2moro for a birthday curry and to show dh the website they bought their car from (as we'll need a bigger one with 4kids)

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jinglediddle · 09/12/2005 12:42

GOING4POTTY - you ok today? hows things going? we're still here if you want us.

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FirstSaintNikkilass · 09/12/2005 13:17

well...just spoke to DH and told him about OV'ing and I think I made him panic...thinks a little to early to try yet.. I understand his point so... roll on the AV! .... plus xmas and new year I can drink and not worry. if ttc i would prefer not to drink u c...