TTC after a miscarriage. Good Swimmers & Sticky Baby Dust a Must!!!!

[maddyd]

May this be a lucky lucky thread for us all. xxxx

Diddle & Lottie and Humphreys corner, leave your baby dust before exiting this thread please.

I suppose so.

Anyway, will bid u farewell and will chat tom. unless my hands are too sore to type anything.

Enjoy the solitaire....

Night Peepee! Nice to chat to you

Talk to you tomorrow - tell me all about training ! XX

Night ladies

What on earth does pikey mean ????????????????? Is it some country yokel speak?

Thinking of you carly82 ((xx))

See you all tomorrow.

xxx

Pikey = (in terms that don't cause too much offence) traditionally a traveller/gypsy but is now used more as an impolite term implying that one is rough as a dog, and a bit of a minger!! Shops in places such as Lidl or Aldi. Has morphed over recent years into the Chav!

Hehe!!

BTW, I shop in Lidl....

Hence the Catherine Tate phrase "you callin' me a pikey?"

Off to bed now everyone. Soo tired! And got heartburn - my oesophagus feels like the passage way to Hell right now! Who's got the Gaviscon??

Night night all XXXX

Carly - just seen your message. I really hope things are ok.Huge hugs.

CH - it ain't over til AF shows up. If you must test early at least wait til Sat, you loon!!

Won't have access to web til tonight.
Be good meantime all of you!

Pee pee - please tell your bloke that I am not usually such a crude cow (actually, I am but tell him I'm sorry, anyway!! BTW - hope the nipple plasters come off without too much pain!)

morning people,

how is everyone today then? I'm knackered. DF has got cold and like most blokes is dying. He also snores cos he cant breath properyl and I got no sleep last night at all

Morning all. Carly how are you doing?????

Big temp drop this morning so thin af on way. Just hope it takes a week or so so im fertile whilst on holiday. Boobs are really sore too.

Will test again anyway when post comes but i dont hold out any hope. I have my morning wee waiting so if its neg i have to believe it. I cant believe i let myself get excited yesterday.
Will i ever learn

well, I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you Maddyd. You're bound to get excited if there is a line. I just hope its right for you!

Morning ladies

carly82-how's things this morning-thinking of you hun. ((xx))

maddyd-hoping for a BFP for you hun. ((xx))

mumswish-when my DH gets 'man flu' he snores terrible so I really sympathise with you. ((xx))

Think I'm still in the doghouse as when I went to give DH a kiss goodbye this morning I got the cheek. Hmmm.

The question is-do I cook his favourite spag bol tonight like I was going to? Hmmm.

Hi to everyone else. Got to take DD to nursery so be back later.

xxx

HC - Cook the spag bol then he will love you again, you can also keep reminding him of the time you cooked him spag bol so he owes you one!

Mumswish, Thankyou honey

Humphreyscorner, what did you do to upset him??????

Morning ladies!!

HC - cook the spag bol and then make DH beg for it!! Hope DD went to nursery ok. Anything come of the ingnoring incident? XX

Maddyd - I've got everything crossed for you this morning. I hope that line reappears. XX

Carly - I hope things are okay this morning XX

Spub - I know I shouldn't test, but they it was only a 99p one from Savers - crap if you ask me! XX

Mumswish - Just keep digging your elbow into DF's ribs if he carries on snoring! hehe!! XX

Hello to everyone else! Hope you are all well and having a good morning! XX

I did test yesterday, byt as I said it was only a Cheapo one so not sure whether to take any notice. It was a resounding BFN, but I'm not due AF til Tuesday, and, perhaps Maddy could answer this one in her TEST Wisdom, it was a 25 mIU/ml so does that mean its a cr@ppy weak one?

Hmmm, has anyone heard from Diddle this morning? She's usually on first thing.....

Hi Ch, it depends when you ov'd really. I think a 25 one could detect it from 4 days before af is due as that is the same level at the early response one. They say around 10 days after ov, but you have to be sure when that was. Its only thurs so you still have time xxxxxxxx

Morning CH - Sorry to hear about your BFN but like you said its early yet.

I tested this morning and got a -tive so I dont know what is wrong with my body! LOL. I've given up to the fact that until I have an af I'm not gonna get pg. Therefore, if no af but next weekend I'm going back to docs.

Well, I think I might need some moral support here and plenty of tissues I am feeling really down now. I am 100% convinced I am not pG. And if that is the case, this month is my last chance. DH has got a medical condition which will probably render him infertile (can't go into detail as I promised I wouldn't on here) so my chance of ever having another baby have pretty much gone. He still wasn't keen so I think he is quite pleased he can't have any more.

I kind of feel numb today. I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to leave you all but as there is no chance of conceiving, what right have I got to be here.

And as far as testing goes, I won't be testing on Saturday. If AF is late then I might test, but we'll see, coz I just know AF will be here when she is due.

Sorry to bring a downer on today already...

oh CH - Dont worry about bringing a downer on stuff, you've as much right as anyone else to tell us how they're feeling, whether its good or bad, thats what we're here for.

You dont have to go, just cos you're not TTC unless you want to go.

I'm not gonna ask for any more details only this, have you spoke to him about it, can you not freeze some of them for now and use later if you both agree?

CH- How could I lurk without responding to that. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
I know exactly how you feel. Was'nt going to say but we've all but given up ttc. i was thinking of leaving this thread but decided to lurk instead. With all the "issues" going on with my body, the fact that I'm now the only one from the Due in Nov thread not to have conceived and with my due date next saturday (5th) it all became too much.
Hunny I so hope you are pg, keep on trucking girlie! You can do it! if any of us can, it's you! I'm always here for you hun! Loves ya xxxxxxxxxx

Oh Coathanger i didnt realise, so sorry. But as Mumswish says there is so much the doca can do nowadays. All is not lost. When and if you get your af you will have to bd like crazy to make sure it happens nect month and before he is fully infertile

No good freezing his swimmers - the damage will have already been done. I don't hold out any hope. I will stay around til AF is due and let you know if she arrives, but after that I might go.

HK - I emailed you whilst you posted so you ave answered my question already. Get in touch it would be nice to chat. XX

I dont know what else to say CH I'm really sorry. (((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))

No need to say your sorry, nobody's fault, just one of those things.

Sorry , does any one have a tissue?

I've got snotty toilet roll (Think I'm getting DF's Cold) any use?