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TTC after a miscarriage - Good Luck, Good Luck, Good Luck!

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Diddle · 08/10/2005 12:28

OK, Brand new thread time. here you go girsl thinks we've waited long enough for another thread.

Fingers crossed for all of you

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petunia · 14/10/2005 19:34

Thank you wannabump. You take care as well.

HumphreysCorner · 15/10/2005 08:41

Morning ladies

Have a lovely weekend.

Hugs

xxx

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Diddle · 15/10/2005 08:57

morning everyone
shelley/wannabump: Glad to hear you're considering ttc again. I knwo hwo you feel, i am so scared with this pregnancy, evry little ache and pain is making me wondewr whats going on, i won't be happy until my baby is in my arms. i hope you get your baby soon. good luck x x x

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mygirllolipop · 15/10/2005 12:10

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maddyd · 16/10/2005 07:44

Shelly so good to see you again i so hope it goes well for you this time. You are the strongest bravest mner ive ever known.

Im trying agin too as lost another all be it very early a few weekends ago, but i was fine and didnt bleed for long. Im sure ive ovulated aswell so who knows.

4 weeks and ill be away for 26 days so hopefully will come back from Florida Married and Pregnant.

How i will actually get through another pregnanacy without being a total wreck im not sure but the next one will be the last one we try for. The heart break is too much, as yoou well know Shelly.

So how are you feeling? Honestly? Its so good to have you back

Havnt been around for a few days as broke my dd's arm. Accidently of course

HumphreysCorner · 16/10/2005 10:23

Morning all

Nice and sunny here in Lincolnshire so going to make the most of it. Lots of washing to do-joy!

wannabump2006-hugs to you. ((xx))

Have a good day everyone.

Back soon.
xx

wannabump2006 · 16/10/2005 21:14

Hi ladies.xAnyone around?.x
Thanx for your lovely messages diddle and mads(maddy-you made me cry!.x)
Have been out and about maknig the most of this 'freaky' october weather!!!
Am still waiting for my AF to arrive,but its only been about 4 weeks since my m/c first started so i guess its not that long ago...i just want to feel normal again and monitor my cycles again.I'm so fed up letting everyone know that i've lost this pregnancy too,because so many people said to me,'ah shell,you'll be fine this time round',yet it didn't rule out havin a m/c,but after what i went through i guess that was the last thing on peoples minds huh?!
well girls i've certainly had my fill of bad luck,and i really hope it can only go 'up' from here!!!God only knows i've been to the lowest of the low in the last 6 months!
And at the same time i know i'm not alone on here in that we've all had losses along the way,some bring us hope(our diddle.x)and all those who are preggers,and the rest of us get to support one another and build faith and hope that one day we'll be the ones announcing our pregnancies.x(soz am waffling!)
I'll be happy to get preg around christmas,thats the plan anyway.x
Hope everyones doing ok?.x.x.x

wannabump2006 · 16/10/2005 21:22

mygirlolipop;you message was much appreciated as well....thank u.x.x.x

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Diddle · 17/10/2005 07:39

wannabump - your message had me filling up, we have all been through so much you're right, i hope we all have some good luck now.

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Diddle · 17/10/2005 07:40

morning everyone else

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HellKat · 17/10/2005 07:43

HC- Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Have posted on the other thread too!
Morning everyone!

mygirllolipop · 17/10/2005 09:11

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maddyd · 17/10/2005 09:37

I hadnt told anyone i was pregnant again, but i have told people i mc again to explain my miserable face. . I got peed off with someone saying cheer up love its not that bad.
I said well yes it is actually.

Wannabump, hopefully it wont take long for your af to turn up or mine. Im lucky to be very regular but the first mc it took 55 days for me to get a cycle. i wasted loads on tests i can tell you i was convinced i was pg and the tests were wrong

mumswish · 17/10/2005 11:44

GOODMORNING...

Took me ages to catch up on the reading this morning.

WannaBump - Your msgs have really got me going, I'm sooo sorry to hear about all your bad luck, I'm sure it'll sort itself out for you. You deserve it.

My Girl - sorry about your car. Hope they fix it soon for you.

Thought I'd tel you bout my weekend seeing as I havent been here since Thurs afternoon.

Went to the fair on Friday with my cousin and DF (darlin' FIANCE) we went bowling on Saturday. Stayed in bed all day Sunday

Had to call Docs on Thurs Aftenoon, They basically said that they cant explain why I havent had AF or the stomach cramps but will do a pg test just in case (even tho I've done 3 already that got neg) so basically I'm no better off than I was to begin with.
Although I've got really sore boobs yesterday and today which I had with my other pg so its promising but the 3 - tests say otherwise. Can you be pg even if tests say youre not?

Anyway hope everyone is great. Speak to you soon.

mumswish · 17/10/2005 11:58

I'm off for lunch now, Hope someone is online when I get back.

See ya soon

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Diddle · 17/10/2005 13:00

hi mumswish - i'm here, bet you've gone now. yes it is possible that you are pg, but still getting negatives, your HCG levels maybe too low to be detected by the tests yet, stay positive and look after yourself. your weekned sounds lovely.

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mumswish · 17/10/2005 13:06

ok I'm back from lunch!

Hey diddle - hope your feeling ok.

Surely HCG levels that low arent a good sign. There was one other thing thats worrying me aswel. Could the sharp pains in my belly (womb bit) be an ectopic? Hence the low HCG as well?

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Diddle · 17/10/2005 13:08

the hcg levels being low could be because of when you ovulated, if it was only recently, last couple of weeks then nothing will show up yet. could be nothing to worry about. If the doctor thought there was any chance of an ectopic you wouldn't be at work now. Have you had any shoulder pain? how sharp are the pains in your abdomen, liek cramps or worse or like an ache?

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mumswish · 17/10/2005 13:13

they're sharp pains, Theyre in the same place as cramps but really sharp instead of an ache. I havent had a bleed in 35 days now. But I've heard that it could be that my body just missed the withdrawal bleed and has gone to normal cycle so i could be anywhere from CD 1-35 (confused face) LOL

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Diddle · 17/10/2005 13:18

how annoying i bet you just want to know whats happening. when do you get the results for the pg test from the doc, or have you had them?

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mumswish · 17/10/2005 13:22

well, I have to go to docs tonight to get the pot to give a sample as they've been closed all weekend and we werent about on Friday to get it then. But apparently I should find out within 3 working days (I hate that term) so by end of week I hope.

I just hope its something good. I'm either not pg or am, I just dont want complicated stuff like needing a smear. (not had one yet and from the sounds of things I dont ever want one)

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Diddle · 17/10/2005 13:46

mumswish - our docs can do a test within 10 mins of you pay £5. maybe yours could do that to save you waiting. although smears aren't pleasent, they are very much an important part of a womans life, as soon as you're offered one, you shuld have one.

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mumswish · 17/10/2005 13:51

I'm mostly scared of the fact that someone is "down there" with smears. its not very nice. That was the bit I didnt like with being pg.

I dont mind the wait as long as it can sort itself out. If it hurts this bad for much longa tho, I may go in and demand that something is done right then and there.

HumphreysCorner · 17/10/2005 14:01

You need to get the the bottom of this mumswish-not at all nice for you. ((xx))

mumswish · 17/10/2005 14:03

Well, to top my day off I've now got the runs (TMI, Sorry) I'm having a great day today.

On the plus side I just bought 10 pg tests for £2.99 from Ebay.