TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

[Diddle]

Well I think after all our chatting its about time we had a new thread, as the previous one was very lucky for us, lets hope this one remains just as lucky.

Remember ladies - Our time will come, but our bodies have to be ready, and we are all here to support each other.

For those new people please feel free to check out our Stats thread, to see some info about us and leave you details if you want to.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

Your right Maddy - I would LURRRVE to be PG!!

Not sure when the deed would have been done as we are AT IT LIKE RABBITS!!! Hee-hee!! No not really but it does work back to about the time I should have OVed, so probably does work out!

I have mixed thoughts about this - I could be as it only takes 1 little tadpole, but then again, how likely is it!! Oh, I dunno! Like you said I'll just have to wait and test

Withdrawel does work well in most cases. But your dh cant help it if he dribbled a little bit

PMSL at dribbled a bit!!! Like an old man dribbles, or whilst your asleep!!!!!

I'm in a wierd frame of mind over this. Can't really decide if I could be or not. Odd. But I'm not getting my hopes up at all. What will be will be!

Thanks Maddy for your views How are you anyhow? Are you looking after yourself?? xxx

STILL no flippin AF.Get a few pains then just need to go to the loo for a poo

If its coming I want it soon as going on hols in 5 days....

Greetings from sunny Tenerife!!!

Having a great great time. Flight was superb, hotel is lovely. Weather was a littel overcast at the start of the day but ended up gorgeous, woring nicely on my tan! Sorry dont want to make any of yoû envious! Grin!!!( this keyboard is a nightmare, dont know how to get the fliipin symbols up!!, LOL)

DIDDLE Hey huni! Hope your ok? How are you? Sorry am so late posting! you will prob be in the land of nod now, i will come on bout 6pm tomo so if you can make sure your around! Missing you lots xxx

How is everyone? Havent had time to read any of the posts! DIDDLE, can you give me an update of anything i should know please?

CH, Hope you´re well huni? xxx

And to evryone else, big hugs and good luck to anyone testing while i´m away xxx

If anyone is on now, i will be aorund for a little whilr, if not..... sweet dreams everyone!

P.s Sorry for the typos but DP is waiting for me and need to get back to him!

Love to all xxxxxx

Diddle, just thought you´re off to Alton Towers tomo so u may not be on here. Text me when you´re back and i´ll come on here if i can. Hope you have a fab day! xx Much Love xx

Great to hear from you Lottie!! Glad your having a fabby time You lucky thing - working on your tan in October I hope you enjoy the rest of your holiday, Hun!

Well, still no sign of AF. I'm going to tell you someting now that might be a bit TMI so look away if you are of a nervous disposition!!

Still no AF but after sex last night (unproteted because I am due on next week!) I had a bleed. It was fresh red blood mixed with the "deposit"! I have got up this morning and the bleeding has stopped again. I'm really worried now. What if I've got something wrong with me. I'm afraid the smear results are going to come back with bad news What if the reason I'm bleeding like this is because I have something seriously wrong...

I have no AF pains or other symptoms, other than being a bit ratty but I've put that down to the stress I'm under at the moment.

Arrgghh!!! I just don't know what to think. What if there's something wrong with me??!! Why do I keep having these funny bleeds? The nurse who did my smear noticed blood around my cervix, I had a very light bleed a few days ago that lasted about a day, and now this !! What is going on!!!!

Do you think I should test to rule that out (not 100% sure when I'm due - last month I had very, very light bleeding starting a couple of days before I came on properly - do I count from the light bleeding or the day it got heavier?)

Morning girls. Having a nightmare, woke up and bleeding. Not loads but enough. Have got an appointment at epu 1.30 tomorrow. Will be 5+5 i think. Apparently common to bleed around now but not happened to me unless miscarriage. Im surprisling calm about it although i have had a little cry. There is nothing i can do i supose but wait and rest.

You're right Maddy, hunni, al you can do is wait, but in the mean time you can make sure you rest and keep activity to a minimum. Don't do too much and make sure you lay back and send lots of positive thought down to that beanie. I am thinking of you sweetheart. I hope everything is okay, I'm sure it is. Sending you lots and lots of {{{{HUGS}}}}, Chin up hun, and chill!

Aww, Maddy, I've just seen your other thread. Bleeding is REALLY common in pregnancy at any time. I had a big bleed with DS1 at 14 weeks and was convinced I had lost him, but he's here, causing mayhem!! I know I can't say anything that will stop you worrying, but please believe me when I say I am thinking of you, and praying for you and your little one. You must let us know how it goes tomorrow. Lots of love XXXX and {{{{HUGS}}}}

im so scared ch, i cant go through this again i just cant

Oh, Maddy, I wish I could be there with you. I don't know what to do or say. I know just how you feel. If the worst happens then you know I'm here - we're here for you. I will be on and off all day today so if you need to chat you must. Or find me on MSN or CAT me. I just wish I could do something. Please don't be scared by yourself. XXX

I know its a bit of an old fashioned view but are you able to get some bed rest today?

Thankyou ch yes i am. As soon as dp gets back from swimming with dd. In truth id rather sleep away the day then have to think about it. Im sure im loosing it. Its all too similar. I dont have any pain but then again i didnt with the last one not untill id been bleeding a couple of days. I dont have any symtoms either apart from the headaches.

Okay, Aunty Coathanger prescribes a day of rest and sleep in bed, lots of TLC from DH, and positive vibes.

I know its really hard but try to stay positive. It is so easy for me to say that but you must try. Try some relaxation techniques if you know any. Focus on your baby. I'll see if I can find any relaxation links for you...

Keep smiling sweetheart, be positive XXXX

Do you have an MP3 player?

Nope aorry can't find any free downloads! no wonder psyciatrists are loaded!!

Trying putting on some relaxing music, laying on your back, with you limbs loose and floppy, and starting from you head work your way down your body, making yourself aware of that part. Think of it relaxing and sinking deeper into the matress. Work yourway right down to your toes and when you get there you should be chilled and calm. You will probably fall asleep, which would be fantastic.

Foe example, stating with your head. Think of your head, heavy and relaxed, and as it becomes more relaxed feel how it seems to be sinkin ginto the pillow. Then move onto your neck and shoulders etc...

mads (((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))) fingers crossed for you honney. hope everything works out - is there no chance of u being seen today?

Maddy are you there? I hope you have gone for a lay down.

I'll pop on and off all day, so just shout if you need to chat. You don't have to do this alone. I know you have your DH, but you nnow you have us as well. BIG {{{{{HUGS}}}}} XXXX

Morning all.
Maddy- {{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Try and chill. Hard I know but not a lot else you can do my love. As Ch said, relax with some tunes, anything you take your mind off of what's happening. If you need us we're here. xx
Ch- You may have a cervical erosion. I had it until it was cauterised. Painless and causes slight bleeds after sex. Basically it means that some cells inside your cevix have turned to face the outside, hence any "Friction" either through sex or using tampax, can irritate them causing them to bleed. If it is that, it's so easy to treat. You also bleed after sex when you have endometriosis but you'd be having major pain with it (trust me it kills).
How exciting that you might be testing too!!! Wahhooooo. You do realise that it's no longer 6mths you have to wait now. Got to be around 4 lol.

Maddy- If you need me cat me. I'm back and forth on the net all day. Ch and I are here if you need us.

maddy (((((((((huge hugs)))))))) take care of yourself and i do hope everything will be ok for you.

HK - Thank you for putting my mnd at rest And as for how long it will be til we may be able to tts it must be about 4.5 months!! Can't remember exactly when me and DH had our "chat" might have to trawl old threads!!