TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

[Diddle]

Well I think after all our chatting its about time we had a new thread, as the previous one was very lucky for us, lets hope this one remains just as lucky.

Remember ladies - Our time will come, but our bodies have to be ready, and we are all here to support each other.

For those new people please feel free to check out our Stats thread, to see some info about us and leave you details if you want to.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

Hiya all!
Mumswish- I agree with ch hun. My ds2 was conceived withing 8 weeks of ttc (not even proper ttc just hit and miss) and my last pg I conceived within 6 weeks. I've got really bad Endometriosis so should'nt be able to conceive easily let alone that quickly! We've been ttc for 6 mths now since the mc and nothing (well suspected early mc beginning of Aug but not concrete). It could take some time so try to be patient,
Ch- Shhhhhhh. Not getting my hopes up. I'm thinking that I can't be pg as i had af but yes everything's pointing to the pg direction. Ohhhhh buggeration!

OMG!!!!
Check out the childbirth section and thread about the 4th degree tear!!! the poor love! Wish I could do links.
Thing's us gals go through hey?

Also check out behaviour and devlopment thread. "What's the most disguting thing your child has ever eaten" was in fits!! Great story about a dog and a tampon there (gross but hilarious).
Be back tomorrow all take care xx

hellkat just going to check the threads out, really hope you're up the duff matey.

Mumswish - I agree with coathanger you can't set your sights on definitly conceiving the first time round, it can take a while. I would start counting your cycle days from the first day you start bleeding after coming off the pill, could take a few weeks for your cycle to regulate, but at least if you start counting from the start you will have an idea if your cycles are regular or not. hope that helps.

Hows everyone else???

lol to the person who's child tried to eat a ladybird, the tampon one is gross, but sooo funny my sides ache. yuk to cat poo and snails

Got to find those threads!!

CH have you got my email?

No - will look now!

Chocolatepeanut - How have you got on today, you've seen your friend haven't you, did ti go ok were you alright?

Aww, you are lovely, Dids! Of course I didn't mind! I know you're busy. Will chat later on

Which board is the kids eating stuff thread on??

gross thread

Thanks Diddle! that was gross!

HellKat - so what do you mean everythings pointing in the pg direction???? i am intriged sore boobs? sick? - really hope you are, you know about implantation bleeds right? maybe your af was not a real af.

i am with mumswish on the impatient thing - i will be dissapointed if i do not get pg this month but i guess thats because this is the first month of trying, i suppose its a bit of a emotional roller coaster for the people who have already been ttc for a while. i am desperate for it to be next week so i can test and i keep checking to see if my boobs hurt but nothing yet also though all the bding i reckon has given me thrush! anyone had that experience? sorry if tmi lol

slinkstah - I agree i am totally impatient too, think we're all just seeing it from different prospectives. I can honestly say it won't get any easier, i burst into tears the first few months i got my negatives, but unfortunatly you get used to it. I can't wait to test this month either, onyl 2 weeks and counting, oh i'm wishing away my life.
I hope you get your positives, i really do, i just don't want to build your hopes up i knwo what its like to fall. Everything crossed for you ladies, there is no reason why you can't get your positives this month

oops meant will get easier, you get used to it more, it can be upsetting at first, i hope you get your positives int he next few weeks, we need more good results to keep us all going, think this thread is getting quite lucky.

how long have you been ttc diddle? i reckon i am going to give it all i got energy wise this month and if it doesn't work i am going to try and chill out on the whole thing and start thinking it will happen when/if it happens- although maybe easier said than done lol but on the bright side if it doesn't happen straight away at least we don't need to think about contraception :O

slinkstah - we've been trying for 6 months since the last m/c, but that for me is only 4 cycles. I think you're right go for it, and relaxing after that will do you good, i think i'm too stressed about it, sex is more of a necessity now which just makes it more stressful. we must relax. i'm off to bed so night night all, speak to you tomorrow

Not lucky for me, yet, Diddle. AF turned up this evening. Oh well. CD1. Heave ho and off we go again.

I'm going to buy some OPK's and give them a go this month. My cycles are becoming erratic (certainly not erotic , BD'ing without much dancing)

Last month was 27 days and this month was 30. My last pregnancy was a twin Pg, which means that my ovulation is becoming hit, miss and double hit. I just hope I've got some eggs left.

Right, enough of my whinging. I'll try and check in during the day tomorrow to see how you're all doing.

XX

Morning all.
Were'nt those threads fab? Did you all see the one about the poor love who tore in childbirth? Ouch.
Slink- Got all my normal pg symptoms and suppose it could be implantation bleeding but really think it was just an easy af. Tmi: Bled really heavily for the first 3 days then eased off. More like a period.
Diddle- Thanks hun. I'm now starting to think it's endo playing tricks instead but still will test anyway tomorrow.
Bubble- Sorry about your bfn!
How's everyone?

morning hellkat - stay positive there is always hope.

bubble - have read a lot about you over the past few months on various threads, and i hope you get your positive next time. I am considering trying opk's next month too.

the thread about the tear made my jaw drop, ouch and double ouch.

Told you.
Bless her though, saying at the end it was all worth it and she'd go through it all again.

Morning!!

Bubble - sorry to here AF has arrived. Perhaps next month is your month, hun

HK - as Diddle says, don't give up hope yet, be positive And that thread was ouch. I thought I had a bad time of it with DS3 - I had 30 stitches inside and out after he was born. The midwives told me that he hadn't turned after his head was born so his shoulders came out width-ways rather than lond-ways IYSWIM! OUCH!

coathanger i hope you've done all your cleaning