OK, back story... some of you might know already...
DTD1 was stillborn last year, DTD2 now 15 months and big and strong.
We ummmed and ahhed about TTC, and decided this month to go for it, despite being shit scared.
I just did a HPT (due on Monday, so 3 days early, 1st Response). Got a very faint line.
Called DH, who is pleased and terrified like me.
Showed my mother, who is here helping with DD as I've been poorly (mastitis after stopping breastfeeding suddenly- it started to hurt hmmm...) and a chest infection.
So anyway, I showed her the test, and her response was "OH my God NO! No! Oh thank God, it's negative! How could you do that to me? You can't mess me around like that, you know you can't have any more, you can't put me through that again!" I showed her that the line is there but very faint. She says it's "where the line should be, not a red line, it would be a bloody red line for God's sake, you're just making it up!"
Now, I'm pretty sure that a line is a line, but she won't entertain the thought, and now am I supposed to feel guilty for her feelings if I am pregnant?
I'm so cross. I've sent her to the park with DD so I can gather my thoughts.
Any thoughts anyone?
BTW, when I told her I was pregnant with twins before, one of her classics lines was "oh, I'm not sure you'll cope, could you get them aborted and try again?" - so not one for tact, really.
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