So my best friend who I love spending time with keeps asking to get together for New Year’s Eve. By get together she means come round my house as she says hers is too small. And also she will expect to have a sleepover which would be fine except she has two children one 15 and one 12 (I have 10 years old twins). The 12 year old however has major behaviour problems and when hes been round mine in the past he’s goes snooping in my bedroom and my daughters messing with stuff he shouldn’t mess with. He also gets my son figures and bashes them on his furniture in his room and last time he came he decided to go in the craft room paint buzz light year with red paint then put it on my sons carpet getting paint everywhere. I have just decorated my son’s bedroom and feel if they are here I just won’t be able to relax and will be on edge all night. I just do not trust him and I certainly don’t want them sleeping over. I don’t feel like I can be completely honest with my friend, help!