A Time To Think

[BLKS7]

Good morning all,

Sadly my daughter passed away in 2019 and times like Christmas are hard for everyone who's lost a child or anyone else close to them.

People don't know what is the right thing to say or do to make it "better"

Nothing anyone can say or do can make anything any better because they can't bring the person you've lost back especially after this year it's been a hard year for everyone but many bereaved parents are struggling more then people realise. It's been a lonely year.

Please take the time to show a bereaved parent your thinking about them, show them people are still thinking about there child.

A lot off people don't think parents want there child mentioned but many parents like my self do want you to talk about them to relive some off the memories we had.

A little message means a great lot to most off us don't feel like we would be upset by a message most will feel the opposite.

If people have the time tonight can we please light a candle and post below for the heavens angels

Sleep tight Macy - you will never be forgotten. We miss you more then words can describe Mummy loves you millions xxxxxxxx

And to all the Heaven Angels - Merry Christmas we will be thinking about you all xxxxx

So sorry to hear this

💐

Thanks xx

Can you tell us a little bit about Macy OP?

I'm listening too, would love to hear about Macy

Thank you for asking about Macy.

Macy was such a beautiful little girl. She absolutely loved Peppa Pig she was obsessed. She also absolutely loved food!! Especially bananas and skips. She was always happy and smiley. Everyone loved her so much. She loved her brother and sister too she wouldn't leave them alone always giggling away with them both. Her last Christmas we had with her we got her a food truck and ice cream cart the memories we have off her shouting ice cream in her little cute voice 💔💔 someone got her a whoopi cushion she was so confused at the noise 😂😂

She will never ever be forgotten ever xxx

@BLKS7

I have a candle glowing softly for you and everyone who has lost a child.

Macy sounds like she was a sweetheart 💓 I bet she loved selling you ice-cream x

@lachy thank you ❤️

Oh OP that is so sad- Macy was one of our name choices it is a beautiful name and l am sure she was a beautiful girl inside and out. Do you have a special bauble you can hang on the tree so you feel like she is with you at Christmas?

I’m so sorry your daughter Macy died. I’m keeping you in my thoughts, and everyone else who has suffered such an awful loss.

@Fishfingersandwichplease we have a special love heart bauble filled with feathers with her name on ❤️ And an angel that looks a bit like her and a special Christmas tree with different decorations my other two children have done for her trying to keep her with her as much as possible because Christmas without her is such a struggle xxx

@piglet81 thank you xx

Heartbreaking ,thinking of you

I lit a candle for Macy. She sounds so wonderful and cheeky and full of love. And your tree with special decorations is such a clever way to keep her memory close, particularly for your other children.

Christmas must be so hard. Is this your second Christmas without her?

I have also lit a candle for you xxx

I love the thing that you said about your memory of her voice shouting 'ice cream', I imagine you can still hear that in your mind as if it were yesterday. I will light a candle for her x

Sending lots of love. She sounds like a lovely little character xx

Thinking of you OP. Macy sounds like a wonderful little girl

Got a candle burning for Macy tonight

I'm so sorry OP

Thank you everyone for your kind words and thoughts it really is very much appreciated ❤️❤️

There's a candle burning here for Macy too, OP. I just sent up a prayer to my lovely mum and MIL to keep an eye out for her up there xx

Lighting a candle here

Thank you so much xxxx