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LAST CHANCE! Closes today! MN Christmas appeal 2012 - Nominations and Donations thread

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RebeccaMumsnet · 08/10/2012 17:18

We've all seen the mini chocolate snowmen in the shops and the cries for all Christmas-based threads to be moved out of AIBU to the Christmas topic Grin - so that can only mean one thing! It's time for the MN Christmas Appeal.
Little bit of history for those who are new to the whole idea: in the past, Mumsnetters offered to donate gifts to other Mumsnetters in need over Christmas. And you also nominated Mumsnetters to receive these gifts. Each year, a particularly saintly Mumsnetter volunteered to match up the donors with the nominees and organise a mass posting of presents.

Two years ago, we felt the Appeal had grown so large that it was too much for one person to co-ordinate - so we moved it onto the MNHQ to-do list and this will be our third year.

Here's how it works.
You have until Monday 22 October to nominate a fellow MNetter who you think has gone over and above, offered you some lovely advice, might need a little help or someone who is generally an all round luffly person.

You can nominate here

You also have until Monday 22 October to pledge your donation for a fellow MNetter. Vouchers are easier to match but we have had all sorts in the past from Christmas trees to hampers and re-gifted items. Nothing is too small.

You can donate here

We then contact all of those nominated by the 29th October and ask them for their address and age/sex of their DC, this information will need to be back to us by Friday 9 November

Nominees and donors will then be matched and we will send those who donated, their matched nominees address by Friday 23 November so that gifts can be sent well before the final Christmas post. Parcels are addressed to the MNetter of the House (unless otherwise stated) to try to maintain anonymity.

This whole process is anonymous, we do not pass over RL or Talk names.

If you would like to get a gift for someone specific then it is better to arrange it with them directly. As much as we would love to facilitate all of your Christmas wishes, we simply don't have the brain power capacity

Donors and nominees are given a number to quote to say thank you to one another following the gifts being sent out.

Any questions about the frankly terribly confusing process, please do ask.

May we be the first to wish you a very Merry Christmas Grin

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Baaartimaeus · 10/10/2012 13:06

Can it be something bought off a website (e.g. Amazon) and sent directly to the receiver? I live abroad so would like to avoid wasting money on postage when it could be spent on pressies Smile

SchrodingersMew · 10/10/2012 13:18

Nominated and donated but I couldn't leave the "who is it for" bit blank but left a comment at the bottom. Is that okay?

MOSagain · 10/10/2012 13:46

Baaartimaues thats what I did the past few years when I lived in the ME (and the post took around 6 weeks!) You can buy and send to the recipient.

I love choosing for the children each year and my DC get involved and help choose too.

RichTeaAreCrap · 10/10/2012 15:09

I am so glad to see this. I have donated in past years, I haven't received ever (not that I have ever given to receive, I have always had a lovely warm feeling knowing I was making someone's Christmas a bit easier by sending a gift) but I couldn't do it last year - I had lost my job due to me being ill and was absolutely skint. I hated it and felt really bad about it and after Christmas realised that although I was skint, I had a lovely family around me so things were not so bad after all and there are plenty of people who don't even have that. I promised myself though that when things got better I would repay all the lovely help and the company that I get from MN. This year things are still shitty, my lovely dad has just started chemo and not expected to live long, however I do have a job and I am determined to make Christmas as nice for everyone as I can. If I can make one person happier by sending them a gift or something for their dc's then it will make me feel so much better. A small sacrifice can make such a difference to someone else.

I love that MN does this every year and I love reading the thank you thread after Christmas. I usually go out with my SDD's to do the Christmas shopping and love picking the pressies to send.

TapirBackRider · 10/10/2012 15:11

Offered to donate Smile

Baaartimaeus · 10/10/2012 15:17

Feel all warm inside. Donated and nominated Grin

madhairday · 10/10/2012 19:31

ooh I love this. off to fill in forms :)

FrothyOM · 10/10/2012 19:49

Can you just nominate?

I don't have any spare cash but can think of a few mumsnetters in bad situations.

everydayaschoolday · 10/10/2012 20:27

Yes Frothy just nominating is absolutely fine. I'd hate for my donation to go 'unanswered' if we had more donations than nominations Thanks

RebeccaMumsnet · 11/10/2012 10:49

@Kingcyrolophosarus

"Donors and nominees are given a number to quote to say thank you to one another following the gifts being sent out."

Last year, I was nominated, no idea who by or why, and I didn't have anyone to thank, no name or ref
I was truly touched.

And what happens if the person you nominate has namechanged? Can you track them?

Sorry for the silence, i will try and answer some Q's now.

Yes, we can trace NCs

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LolaDontCryOverSpiltBleach · 11/10/2012 10:55

Have offered to donate

somebody so sorry, had the same in may it is hard but good that you are distracting yourself, i must have wanked the dog a thousand times

LolaDontCryOverSpiltBleach · 11/10/2012 10:57

What is wrong with me?!

WALKED i WALKED the dog

that is the second time this week i have written wank by mistake

I am going to cancel my account if i don't start previewing message.

shabbatheGreek · 11/10/2012 10:58

Lola you just made me spit my brew over the keyboard because I laughed so much Grin

Lucky dog!!!

RebeccaMumsnet · 11/10/2012 11:03

@ScaryBOOAlot

Can you donate more than one thing? I've never donated before but am in a (slightly) better position this year and would like to. Should I write it all on one donation form?

Yes, you can.
It helps if it's all on one form but not essential, although you may get two mails when it comes to matching.

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RebeccaMumsnet · 11/10/2012 11:06

@skyebluesapphire

Does this thread get publicised elsewhere on the site? Just wondering how everybody finds out about it if they dont stumble across it like I did.

It is stickied in active and will go in the newsletter but do feel free to share the link on threads you are on Smile

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RebeccaMumsnet · 11/10/2012 11:13

@SchrodingersMew

Nominated and donated but I couldn't leave the "who is it for" bit blank but left a comment at the bottom. Is that okay?

That is fine.

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RebeccaMumsnet · 11/10/2012 11:16

LolaDontCryOverSpiltBleach Grin Grin Grin Typo just made my day!

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shabbatheGreek · 11/10/2012 11:18

ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha it is counjouring up disturbing pictures in my head Rebecca - when the thread starts that is titled 'typo's in MN threads' that will win the biggest gold medal ever made.....

RebeccaMumsnet · 11/10/2012 11:19
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aristocat · 11/10/2012 11:30

donated Smile

MOSagain · 11/10/2012 13:01

LOL and also spitting drinks over keyboard. Definitely one for MN classics

BigBroomstickBIWI · 11/10/2012 13:19

Why, MOS? I'm sure the dog wouldn't be complaining!

LolaDontCryOverSpiltBleach · 11/10/2012 13:42

That was horrific!, i think i a have wanking on my mind the other day i asked a poster to sing carols and hold my hand [wank] , i am getting a reputation.

pixiestix · 11/10/2012 14:21

Ooh, this gives me the warm fuzzies every year! I have made my nominations and am sitting here like this -> Grin

pixiestix · 11/10/2012 14:59

That is, smiling at the joy of Christmas and community, not at dog-wanking Hmm

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