thanks, crace.
can i send my DH away too?
Today: what do you need me to do,?he asks. So I say that the following needs to be done: DS's bedroom tidied, dusted, bed made and vacuumed, same for our room, clean bathroom and wash floor, pack clothes away in our room and vacuum landing and stairs.
He looked at me, looked at the pc and carried on doing whatever he had been doing.
Thiry min later he asks for bathroom cleaner. i say it is upstairs. he goes to his van to get tile cleaner, goes up to bathroom and cleans tiles for an hour, says he has to go to Wickes. So off he goes for 20 min. Comes back with steel wool / wire wool and continues doing the tiles.
Since the time he asked me what needs doing, i have done DS's room as above, done our room as above, vacuumed landing, washed basin, and loo, put in a load of washing and moaned like a stuck pig about DS on MN to anyone who cares to read.
And DH: well, he is still cleaning tiles.
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