MamaG, I'm not blonde, dd is. I am however, 5ft 8, with brown hair and a size 12! Have you seen pictures or was that a guess?
Kay. it'll be fine. I had a new mindee last year for only 2 days a week, which is hard for them to bond quickly. When she first came, I couldn't even look at her without her crying! Now, she is wonderful, although I do wish she'd shut up talking about DH, she adores him!