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If you were overdue on no.1, when did no.2 arrive?

34 replies

SqueezyB · 22/03/2010 09:25

Hi,

I was a week overdue with DD, and I'm wondering if it's likely to be the same this time. Any experiences? Do second babies usually come a bit earlier?

MIL has to come and stay to look after DD when I go into labour and she lives 6 hours away, so it's not like we can just call her when the contractions start. I don't want her hanging around for days though just waiting for me to give birth, I think that would drive me mad! So I'm thinking as I was late last time it would be ok for her to just arrange to come on my due date or the day before, or is that tempting fate?

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maddylou · 22/03/2010 09:31

1st -week late

2nd-9 and a half weeks early!

3rd -week late

SparkyMalarky · 22/03/2010 09:32

DS was 8 days late, DD was 5 days early - and have friends who were early with DC1 and late withDC2....so not much help I'm afraid! How long was your labour last time? - maybe give MIL a call as soon as you feel niggly?

Firawla · 22/03/2010 09:40

1st - induced after 9 days
2nd - came naturally on day 10

i think u have a fair liklihood of going overdue, but obviously cant guarentee it.
from wat i noticed some ppl either have a tendancy to go over or to come early & it happens with all their kids?

ask mil to come @ that time n c if u can get a local emergency back up plan if you did go early, like a neighbour or something?

ShinyAndNew · 22/03/2010 09:42

1st ten days late.
2nd was persueded to come out 10 days late after my waters broke and she still didn't budge. Lazy moo is still the same now. She in bed atm.

MrsTicklemouse · 22/03/2010 09:51

DS1 +2weeks exactly (induced)
DS2 +1week exactly (natural)

i'm almost tempted to have a third to see if it arrives on due date

i'd say get mil to come on your due date ish, also it might worth checking out if your hospital has a 24hr creche thing, i know our old one did! never used it but was v. impressed it was there!

ASecretLemonadeDrinker · 22/03/2010 09:55

DS1 +10 days
DS2 + 13 days

bumpybecky · 22/03/2010 09:57

dd1 40+11
dd2 40+8
dd3 40+3
ds 40+9

AlicesWonderland · 22/03/2010 09:58

ds1 induced at 11 days

dd1 7 days early

ds2 8 days early

don't think anything really follows, 1st birth lasted 2 days, other two much less painful and happened within a couple of hours of waters breaking

snickersnack · 22/03/2010 10:08

dd induced at 40+6 and definitely not ready to come out.
ds 14 days early (and I always suspected my due date should have been a week later so maybe 3 weeks early). I was not prepared!

SqueezyB · 22/03/2010 15:51

Hmm, oh dear, not as clear cut as I'd have hoped! I've got it in my head that I'll be late, but I guess I can't bank on it.

Maybe I'll still get her to come around due date, but ask a few friends to be back-up just in case baby comes early. I guess worse case scenario a friend would only have to look after DD for a few hours before MIL turned up. Just hope it's not the middle of the night...

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katechristie · 22/03/2010 16:00

DS 40 +11
DD 40 +5

Poshpaws · 22/03/2010 16:07

DS1: 10 days late

DS2: On due date

DS3: 1 day late

EggyAllenPoe · 22/03/2010 16:12

dd 40+5
DS 40+9

this time i will be very bolshy indeed if suggest induction just for dates, as i now realise how innaccurate even the best method of dating is (dating scan @ 10 weeks +- 10 days accuracy...) and that for my size person, 41 weeks is actually the average gestation.

although, i definitely recommend nipple stimulation to get labour going ! It's not bad, even if it doesn't always work (there is some clinical evidence that it does help though)

Tamlin · 22/03/2010 16:13

DS1: 40+10
DS2: 37

Good luck! I was fully prepared for another overdue baby too.

teasle · 22/03/2010 16:14

DC1 10 days over
DC2 -2 days over due date

hth

teasle · 22/03/2010 16:14

Forgot-DC3- 10 days over too...

Good luck on your birth

twosofar · 22/03/2010 18:48

DS1 +3 days (but labour started +2 days in the evening)
DS2 -5 days

BellasYummyMummy · 22/03/2010 21:33

DD1 5 days late

DD2 11 days late

vanimal · 22/03/2010 21:39

DD1 14 days late
DD2 17 days early

IwishIwasmoreorganised · 22/03/2010 21:40

ds1 42 +5 (induced)
ds2 - 40 weeks exactly (well edd anyway!)

oldenglishspangles · 22/03/2010 22:16

1st 10 days late, 2nd bang on due date.

muttimalzwei · 22/03/2010 22:18

DD 14 days overdue
DS 15 days overdue induced

CantSleepWontSleep · 22/03/2010 22:23

No 1 born 40+6
No 2 induction started 40+5, finally born 40+9

MegBusset · 22/03/2010 22:24

Both ten days late!

MeMyselfAndIt · 22/03/2010 22:29

Ds 10 days late
Dd on due date