I didn't know I was in labour. The prenatal ward told me. I was I was in hospital to be induced as my placenta was deteriorating. I was 2 weeks over.
Having been ill through my pregnancy as I was with all four of mine was why I was being closely monitored.
I had a show in the night. Told the nurses. They came to look at me and said i was in labour. All I had was chronic backache.
I was taken down to the delivery suite, where I was told I wouldn't give birth until later that day.
Wrong! 2 hours later, I screamed through the delivery quite, "I want to * push."
The nurses were making breakfast, I was told later, and had to drop everything to come into me. The ex was on the toilet, and he had to rush out.
Ten minutes, it was done. It was like chronic constipation, the last part. Two and a half hours. No pain relief was needed.
My third was my worst. My DiL was the same as me with her second.
Generally speaking, 2nds are easier, I've found and heard