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Should I feed the midwives at a home birth? And if so, what?

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FillyjonkisCALM · 04/02/2008 11:25

This is oddly niggling me

Last time I was transfered due to a Reason, but I DID get very worried that they might not be eating, also that they would think me rude if I ate in front of them and forgot to offer them food (yes I know this is a bit silly but I am odd at these times. I only polish my taps about once every 2 years-the week before I give birth...)

I expect they will bring sandwiches, but should I have biscuits in? And will they actually eat them, or just wave them away politely? Should I just leave them on a plate with a sign saying "please help yourself?" but then my MOTHER will eat them all...

Thoughts?

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Wisteria · 06/02/2008 13:14

yes, that's the bit.

Golly, you're quick aren't you...has your dp considered training in midwifery just in case?

FioFio · 06/02/2008 13:15

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Tutter · 06/02/2008 13:15

only on mn would soemone get anxious about what to feed someone when they are givign birth

Tutter · 06/02/2008 13:15

oder a pizza

mom2latinoboys · 06/02/2008 14:30

I think you should plan a 4 course sit down dinner. Figure if your in labor long enough it could be done.

seeker · 06/02/2008 14:34

Maybe if there's a few home births in your area that night, you could have a progressive dinner - 1st stage and starter at your house, transition and a little amuse bouche at another, second stage and main at a third.....

mom2latinoboys · 06/02/2008 14:43

Progressive dinners are so fun! But then wouldn't everyone give birth at the same house. I can see it. 10 women all holding hands while the midwife runs from one to the other as babies shoot out everywhere.

seeker · 06/02/2008 14:44

Worth it if there's a really delicious pudding......

FillyjonkisCALM · 06/02/2008 14:45
Grin
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