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Naked in Childbirth????

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PinkArjuna · 27/10/2004 17:15

I know this seems really trite considering all that you will got through to actually get to the labour. However to me it is more abhorrant than the thought of all the pain blood and gore. I heard it is commen for the midwives to encourage you to take your clothes off. I can't think of anything worse or more humiliating than this. I have little of issue about bringing a baby into the world but find this modesty to be truly alarming and down right disgusting. Each to there own of course - no insult intended. but some people I have spoken to in my area say here they try to force you to be naked when you give birth. Also my understanding is most people do. Though I have never heard of this before. Of course I realise water birth would mean nakedness and that is why I am just not interested. I think anything that would make the mother distressed is bad for birth and if I have a midwife trying to rid me of my clothes as seems to be commen around here I am sorry but I count this as a total invasion of boundaries and would be deeply troubled. This is my number one concern. I understand the bottom half has to be free but I feel Nakedness too much. Way too much. I hate being touched and think it alarming that someone will physically try to remove my clothes in labour

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essbee · 07/11/2004 20:42

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Tommy · 07/11/2004 21:18

Pink - if you "Contact another talker" (from the list at the top of the page) you should be able to email pupuce HTH

Mosschops30 · 07/11/2004 21:25

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highlander · 10/11/2004 02:35

My birth plan was really a lengthy essay on my fear of being naked and a 'slab of meat' on the operating table (I had an elective CS). The nurses couldn't have been more supportive and helped me (whether they intended to or not) throw off my inhibitions.

So much so that on the Wednesday (CS on the Monday) when my boobs were engorged I was standing in front of the window, butt naked, absent mindidly massaging the boobs...... not realising a bus driver was looking at me

The OB cracked up laughing at my change of heart

Portree · 11/11/2004 14:14

Wore one of dh's tshirts, a white one at that! Remember being very hot but in the end I so wanted baby out that I would have given birth in Selfridges window.

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