Both were the same to start. 40wks, Pessary in at 4pm, period type pains from around 2am, contractions started about 4am.
1st time, mild contractions continued, taken to delivery suite at 7.30. Waters broken by midwife at 8.30. Contractions continued. Syntocin drip given at mid-day, lots of bouncing around on a ball, diamorphine at 5, started to push around then, baby arrived 6.10pm. 26 hrs pessary to baby.
2nd time. Contractions ramp up fast, had a bath at 5am and some paracetamol, had to buzz midwife to get out the bath as so painful. Down to delivery suite at 5.45am, more contractions, harder stronger, asked for diamorphine at 7 but didn’t get it. Strong urge to push at 7.05am, three pushes later baby arrived 7.12am. 15 hrs start to finish.
I was expecting no 2 to play out the same as no1 so I spent the first hour of their life saying ‘am I done? Really? Excellent!”