I'm so sorry for your loss steph x
I had a emergency csection April 2016, came off birth control in February and fell pregnant straight away although had a very very early mc (chemical pregnancy) but fell pregnant again in march, I was told by a consultant the day after giving birth by emergencycs that they recommend waiting a year before getting pregnant again, I didn't expect it to happen so quickly after struggling to get pregnant for a few years so thought I would just see what happens, so I was just under their year recommendation.
When I had my booking in appointment with my midwife she didn't seem concerned about the gap, she did however say that she would be referring me to a consultant which I think is pretty standard if you've had a previous cs, she did say that as it hasn't been a long time since I had dd it may be suggested to have another csection, I haven't had my appointment yet but I'm happy to come back and update when I have (not sure when that will be) I'm on the fence whether to ask for a elective csection this time rather than risk another emergency one. Also agree with munchy that they won't refuse you a csection after what has happened to you.
I have a friend who fell pregnant almost straight after her second dd (she'd already had 2 cs) this was a number of years ago now, and she was absolutely fine, baby was a bit of a surprise, they did keep a close eye on her but they never said that they were concerned, she then went on to have a third cs.
How was your healing after your cs? Did you have any complications?