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Childbirth

Share experiences and get support around labour, birth and recovery.

Does sex actually work?

27 replies

Chloelou31 · 23/12/2014 15:49

Hello again, just wanted to know people's opinions on if sex actually works to induce labour? Has it worked for anyone cause i'm sick of bouncing on a big ball and eating curries now!! Thinking about trying some nookie tonight no matter how uncomfortable - it's all in aid to meet my little womb monster :)

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fattycow · 23/12/2014 17:05

Only if you are ready, than it can give you this extra nudge towards going to labour. If you are not ready, it won't do anything.

AMerryScot · 23/12/2014 17:07

I am not really a fan of induction, whether medical or natural. I think you will have a much easier labour of the baby comes on its own timings.

Lovethebubbles · 23/12/2014 17:10

Didn't work for us when I was 4 days overdue. I tried everything! She eventually came in her own time 11 days after due date.

Chloelou31 · 23/12/2014 19:59

I'n 4 days overdue, had a sweep on Saturday which caused me to lose my plug .. But nothing else since; fingers crossed sex might give us an extra nudge then!!

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MotherOfInsomniacToddlers · 23/12/2014 20:02

No not with either of mine, but a sweep didGrin

Scoopmuckdizzy · 23/12/2014 20:03

I'm convinced that it did for both of mine.

ChippyTuesday · 23/12/2014 20:09

yes! I had curry for lunch, sex mid afternoon, curry for dinner, sex at 11pm, woke up in labour at 4am Grin

HolyTerror · 23/12/2014 20:14

No. Neither did ferociously hot curry, walking long distances (ten miles in hilly terrain at 40+5), raspberry leaf tea, blow jobs, living on my birthing ball, acupuncture, or a sweep. My Bishop score never went past 2. He was born by ELCS at 40+15.

whyhasmyheadgonenumb · 23/12/2014 20:18

Yep, definately with overdue DS. Was comedy sex though, ill never forget it :) worth it just for a laugh

PolkaDotSpots · 23/12/2014 20:27

Yes! Sex at 2am, first mild contraction at 4am. Dd was 5 days late.

Mrscog · 23/12/2014 20:43

We did it every night from 38+5. On 39+4 DH read that it needed to be... Ahem doggie style to be most effective, went into labour 18 hours later had DS early on 39+6.

Pg with dc2 now and will follow a similar regime in the hope of success again!

Chloelou31 · 24/12/2014 09:45

My Bishop Score was 4 on Saturday but i don't understand the gobbeldy gook the midwife has written in my notes! Had sex at 10:30pm last night and so far no changes, think i'm giving up for now - we all know my waters will break when the first mouthful of turkey goes in anyway haha!!

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OhMjh · 24/12/2014 11:08

Not for me! I tried it after two of my sweeps and all that came from it was sore boobs from all the motion ( Confused )

wickedlazy · 24/12/2014 11:11

Have you tried raspberry leaf tea? Worked for me

uurrghhhhhh · 24/12/2014 12:21

I drank 2 litres of asda pressed pineapple juice, (because i dont like eating pineapples, ) last night and low and behold my waters went this morning. ....

Mammanat222 · 24/12/2014 12:51

It's not the sex that helps, it's the sperm!

And you need a Hell of a lot of it for it to actually work.

Personally I'd just put my feet up and eat some cake Cake

Sex is far too much like hard work these day (I am only 36w!)

Chloelou31 · 24/12/2014 13:47

Might have to try raspberry leaf tea and pineapple juice then if they've been successful :) i'm getting some niggles and don't think i'm far off!!

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flowersinthegarden · 24/12/2014 15:37

Yes, sex at 10pm, first contrction at 1.30am, no idea if just coincidence. I was 39+1.

Chloelou31 · 24/12/2014 15:52

Is there a particular raspberry leaf tea? I've bought some twinings raspberry tea but dunno if that's just a flavoured tea bag?

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AskMeAnother · 24/12/2014 15:56

sex just after 9pm, baby born just before 9am following morning. first baby, three days short of my estimation of due date. in labour for just over four hours, had an episiotomy. it was a long time ago, such things were routine.

but I still think it was the Carlsberg special that did it.
told you it was a long time ago.

berrypicking · 04/01/2015 14:54

For us it worked! Went into labour that day Smile

GotToBeInItToWinIt · 04/01/2015 15:19

We had sex for the first time in weeks when I was 6 days overdue. Went into labour about 4 hours later. However at 6 days overdue labour was probably imminent anyway!

Tranquilitybaby · 04/01/2015 23:08

It can do if you're ready to go into labour anyway.

Nipple twiddling is a proven one though!

Bellerina2 · 04/01/2015 23:34

Yes it worked! In fact from about 30 weeks, sex set off Braxton Hicks for me.

weeblueberry · 06/01/2015 20:17

Had sex at half ten and waters went at midnight.

Still think it was coincidence though and doesn't actually work Grin

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