Congrats Wem, and that's a beautiful name. I had an awful experience. Just got back frm hosp 2day :(
I called my mw at 11pm, she came out at 11.30 and I was 2 cm and she said she would come back when I was worse. She said, you probs won't even be 4-5 cm by 4-5 am, but if I feel I can't cope, to ring. It got to 3am and i was in agony. didn't want to get in pool until I was at least 5cm in case I stopped/slowed labour so hung round for ages when husb. tried to get in touch with mat. ass. unit at North tyneside hosp. 30 mins before anyone answered. He said he would ring mw straight away and get her to ring me.
1 hr passed and still nothing. By this point I was in that much pain, I was in the pool. He tried to ring the mat. ass. unit again to say she hadn't called, but again, no answer. I had to ring my dad who has terminal lung cancer to take me to the hosp. at stoopid o clock in morning as the RVI had an hr wait on ambulances.
Got there and my bp was ridiculously high,and I was 8cm dilated. So much for not even 4 or 5 so I couldn't have any entonox until they knew what was going on with bp. Eventually got it:) They asked if I wanted the birth pool, but by this point of hrs in agony with no entonox, I was exhausted and just wanted to sleep so got an epidral.
A lot of talk of possible assisted delivery/ cs as the rim of my cervix wouldn'y move out the way, and my bp was ridiculously high. Vontouse delivery needed in end but mam and baby Taylor are both doing well now. He was born at 5.50pm and weighed a rather hefty 8lb 8oz haha.
I know I would have needed to go to hosp. anyway, but to get to 8cm with not so much as a phonecall off mw, I was disgusted. When I arrived at RVI, the mw there said her superior had been told what had happened and had already rang North Tyneside hosp. to complain. I could have had a calm first half of labour, if only I had entonox but instead in agony, high bp, and worrying about pain and whether I was doing the right thing getting in the pool or not.
I have to say though, the RVI were absolutely amazing and all the mw's doctors, well just everyone were awesome. I'm really glad I chose that hosp over the one on my doorstep and would recommend it to everyone who lives in area.
Thank you for all the well wishes everyone, and again Wem, glad things worked out well for you :)