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How to stay awake during night feeds part 6 - all welcome to join us!

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funchum8am · 03/01/2013 14:05

Hi everyone, cannot believe we have exchanged over 5000 messages!

mrsn when we shared our locations on here a while back, heff, goat and I all turned out to live near Uxbridge so we met up having met on here. It is lovely, if you are ever down south let us know!

macaroons sounds like we are in the same boat Hmm I officially return to work on 15 Feb but that is actually the Friday before half term so only have that day and then another week off before full time return hits. I am lucky that DH is being a SAHD til 1st July so no drop offs, pick ups or worries about the childminder ringing me because babyfunch is ill etc, and she is in great hands with him, much as I have been critical of him til we talked it over recently. However I am worried about being at work on no sleep - I will get in a lot of trouble if I lose my rag with a pupil or indeed a member of my team (one of whom is a pain). I will have to perfect the art of letting some things go (eg uniform issues in the corridor as opposed to in my lessons - I spend a lot of time arguing with pupils about these and intend to stop save for the very worst!) and dealing with others by just reporting bad behaviour to heads of year rather than dealing with it myself. I am head of faculty so will focus just on what happens in lessons in my faculty rather than working quite so hard on having the best corridor behaviour in the school in my area - it is great having that but takes a lot of time, energy and conflict so it will just have to go n the back burner until I am getting proper sleep again. At this rate dd will be in year 7 by then herself and can help me!

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HenD19 · 09/01/2013 22:11

Hi all. Was intrigued by this link when browsing Mumsnet as I'll be joining in may as expecting baby no3. You are all scaring me as think I've got my rose tinted glasses back on and have definitely forgotten those horrendous sleep deprived nights. Not sure how I'm going to cope with two other dc? I suppose it's too late now though. Hope you all get some sleep tonight and I promise I won't complain if my dc wake me at 6.45

StitchAteMySleep · 09/01/2013 22:29

Oh marbles that sucks, dd1 had it as a baby at the same time as me and dh, if missmarbles has it just keep feeding breastmilk is great for rehydration and you will still be able to produce enough, just keep up your own fluids. Hope magically bypasses you both.

Hope you brother's open went well ameybee and that he has a swift recovery. This site might help you with regard to your dd.

Glad you had fun goat and funch, I am waiting for my kinect so I can zumba at home, can't wait.

MrsN hope your little one has a good night after his jabs. She might have been telling the truth, the gucci baby lady. Bet it will come back and bite her on the bum though, dd2 did sleep through until 6 months old, currently on feed two now and averaging 4 wakes a night.

Hope for a good night tonight.

StitchAteMySleep · 09/01/2013 22:35

Oh and welcome hen, hopefully your dc3 will be a sleeper :)

funchum8am · 09/01/2013 22:56

Hi hen, at least we may be reminding you to get what sleep you can now! though how much that is with 2 dc already I am not sure Smile

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Smallgreenone · 09/01/2013 22:58

First feed.
Hope your brother is ok amey
Agree Gucci woman is LYING. But also sleeping through is apparently counted as Amy 6 hour stretch so could be 7-1 or 1-7, baby small has slept through three times in his life wonder if he'll make it a fourth tonight Hmm
I'm at my parents mad house tonight as its mums birthday tomorrow. We've had bubbly wine and now I'm very sleepy can someone send me a sleepy mouse please????

MissingMyMarbles · 09/01/2013 23:18

Ah Small, if you're sleepy, you've already been bitten by a Sleepy MouseWink hopefully he'll but baby Small too.

Just done second feed. I think you're right, sleeping through is a 5 or 6 hour stretch I think. Bit odd to call it that though, don't you think? I would not be happy if Missmarbles 'slept through' and decided to get up at 1amHmm In those terms, she was sleeping through til 2, until the four month regression, and she hasn't slept through sinceSad There should be a sleepy emoticon on here!

MissingMyMarbles · 09/01/2013 23:19

Oops no -lying! First feed since she only settled at 8, due to all the sickly shinanigans!

HeffalumpsAndWoozles · 09/01/2013 23:36

Thoughts and prayers with you and your brother tonight amey

marbles really hope your DD is better soon, noro virus is horrible :( makes you wish you could have it for them when they're ill doesn't it.

Welcome hen hopefully as funch said you'll remember why you need to get lots of sleep in now! How old are your other DCs?

mrsn we're another in the injections club today, babylump was a little star and made barely a peep. We're lucky at our surgery they automatically book your next set for you when you're having the current set, so unless you're a dope like me and forget its usually nice and straightforward.

Got babylump weighed today too, she's such a porker! She's 14 weeks and weighs 16.8, DD1 didn't weigh that much until she was 28 weeks old. No wonder my back is so dodgy!

Had a nice quiet night in with midsomer murders and copious amounts if lucozade tonight, looking forward to Langley Park's legendary hot chocolate tomorrow and hoping for minimal toilet related outdoor accidents from DD1

Going for transfer, sleep well everyone xx

StuntNun · 09/01/2013 23:44

First feed here. Waking at 2, 4 and 6 would be fine please. Just no unconsolable screaming tonight pretty please baby J?

StitchAteMySleep · 09/01/2013 23:54

And she's up again, feed 3, gonna be one of those nights! Think either wind, needing to poo, or the beginning of another tooth getting ready to cut.

Crossing fingers for you to have a screaming free night stunning.

StitchAteMySleep · 09/01/2013 23:58

StuntNun, autocorrect luffs you!

Macaroons · 10/01/2013 00:03

Haven't been posting much, not because I haven't been up during the night. Just too tired. Hope everyone is well and getting some sleep!

Was going to wake baby mac up for late feed but he's so deeply asleep so I thought I'll let him sleep and see what time he wants to get up. Fingers crossed. (He went down at 8.30. We usually wake him at around 11.30)

Lots of catch up to do tmr! I'd better catch some sleep now! Good luck all

Susieloo · 10/01/2013 01:07

2nd feed of the night and babyloo is officially six months old and has been for 1 hour although he was born at 10am so still got 9 hours to go.

Hope it all goes well for your brother amey

Eyes not staying open-will be gutted if he wakes up in the 3-4 zone

GoatBongosAnonymous · 10/01/2013 01:23

Happy half-birthday, babyloo !

Kid just soaked through everything, cue complete change/scream/wide awakeness. We really have a nappy problem - he wees for Britain and even a nighttime nappy does not last even six hours, especially now he sleeps on his front (can't get him onto his back, he just rolls!) how we are ever going to sleep longer than five hours is beyond me!

funchum8am · 10/01/2013 02:23

amey I hope all goes well for your brother's op.

Fed at 10:45 and now and managed to delay this feed by half an hour using the dummy. If she can break this habit of waking hourly after 2 I will be delighted. Fingers crossed.

goat sorry to hear of flooding issues Sad

Hope everyone has been getting some sleep!

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StitchAteMySleep · 10/01/2013 02:27

Happy half year babyloo Thanks

Feed 4, stitch hot, managed to change nappy without her waking up, hoping transfer works.

Are you using disposables Goat?

MrsNPattz · 10/01/2013 03:30

First feed here, but I didn't get to sleep until about half 11.

Ah I didn't realise there was a secret meaning to sleeping through Wink

So glad you are feeling better heff

Our surgery booked the next jabs there and then too!

macaroons welcome back!

hen welcome - hopefully we won't see you too often come May hehe

I have a wide awake little monkey..........

funchum8am · 10/01/2013 04:02

Feeding again here after some dummy delay. If I want.to train her out of feeding so much at this time should I refuse to do it? or just keep trying to lengthen the gap between feeds? argh no idea what to do but I need this fixed before I go back to work!

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funchum8am · 10/01/2013 04:03

Sorry to hear you have an early riser today mrsn, it is awful when that happens...huge sympathySad

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MmmnoodlesoupIsDueXmasEve · 10/01/2013 04:10

New to this thread, hello fellow night feeders :)

1st feed since 12.30 so tonight has been more restful. Hoping babynoodle drifts off until 8pm after this Wink

larlemucker · 10/01/2013 04:19

Morning!
Hope your brothers op went ok amey.
Baby larle slept from 8 till 2 with a little bit of rocking inbetween! Most sleep I've had in ages!
Unfortunately had to feed at 2, transfer fail, fed again and now he is asleep on me and I'm wide awake :(

MrsNPattz · 10/01/2013 04:40

Oh dear, a huge spewnami resulting in me, little man, and bed needing changed when we have already been awake over an hour Sad

Thanks funch hoping this feed sends him off!

welcome noodles.

Susieloo · 10/01/2013 05:01

Welcome noodle Smile

In my sleep deprived haze I was convinced I last fed babyloo at 3 not 1 so when he stirred I put his projector on and decided he didn't need milk and then I retaliated he probably did!

He's quite awake unfortunately so is playing with the man in the moon. Horrible when they decide to wake up for an hour mrsn.

Attempting sleep....

StitchAteMySleep · 10/01/2013 05:01

Welcome mmmnoodle and congrats on your new little bundle Thanks

Well just got stitch to go down after an hour, she has terrible wind and just kept rolling around. I expecting a poo of mega proportions in the morning.

Morning Larle glad baby Larle is sleeping better, you deserved a good run after the newborn hourly feeding.

Funch dd1 was older than baby funch, but to train her to stop waking at night I offered water only on waking and she stopped bothering, warm chamomile tea another option if water not successful. Be prepared for tears at first (DH took over in our case) and increased morning appetite.

Now to try to get back to sleep before she wakes again.

Susieloo · 10/01/2013 05:23

Oh bollocks we're up, long day when it starts at twenty past five....

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