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Career advice to a young black male

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purpledagger · 09/05/2021 22:56

We've recently taken on a temp and he keeps talking about how ambitious he is and that he wants to progress in his career. He's not a brilliant performer, but I think if he focussed, he could probably do okay.

Performance aside, the bigger problem is that he just doesn't know how behave appropriately in a work environment and he'll never progress because of that.

Examples include - both verbal and written communications are littered with slang and wearing a hoodie (hood up) on a Skype call. To give you an idea, if Vicky Pollard and Ali G had a child, it would be him. We work in the public sector, so our office isn't highly corporate and we are very diverse, but this person is well outside of our tolerant norms.

I'm a black woman in her 40s who grew up locally to him, so I get it to a certain extent. The problem is that he had no self awareness as to how he comes across and this will hold him back.

He doesn't report to me, but we will be working on a project together soon. I just feel like I want to tell him why he's unlikely to progress.

What would you do?

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NurseButtercup · 06/07/2021 10:07

@purpledagger

Final update - he had left!!

He said he had another job (although he had told one colleague he has gone back to a former employer and another colleague that he he has a job in a different sector). It's probably for the best, as I think it was becoming obvious that it wasn't working.

He wanted to have a catch up before he left, but we didn't get the chance. I just hope he has taken on board some of the feedback we've given to him, but I suspect not.

Oh wow, upon reflection do you think his behaviour was because he was mentally checked out and had 'left'?
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