JBM Oh tell her to "Cock Off" (am loving that phrase TA - never heard it before buy ROFL!).
Families are a pain in the arse. you can't please everyone, so I think you might as well do whatever you want and deal with the fall out rather than the build up to a fight.
We have had naming parties, which is basically a big pissy day in the garden to mark the occasion of the birth of our child. We have 'special people' in their lives. Not so much Godparents, but people who we want to be important to our children. As a rule, families aren't allowed as they are 'special' already (technically). I wanted to ask one of my sisters for DS2, but the other one got upset. Then I wanted to ask the other one for DD, but no 1 sis got upset. So neither of them got to do it. Bollocks to all that!
SFL - fuckittyfuck about tomorrow! Well, hope it all goes well and I'll be sending you positive vibes for a speedy induction, a relaxed labour and a quick birth xx
Glad you mentioned the pearl necklace holly, I did type a post saying "I'll probably get the offer of a pearl one" but deleted it, and I just knew you'd come up with the goods!!
sorry for the long post!