Smole - If you see this, wanted you to know that you have been very much in our thoughts, and it is wonderful news that Jesse is doing so well. Completely understand why you don't want to introduce Jesse with an epithet, as well! He will be just his own self, and any health or other problems will be part of that, not descriptive of it. I wish you so much luck and happiness.
weeonion - congratulations!!! look forward to hearing details.
Ellie - sorry you have been feeling down; don't let it go on, however: if you continue to feel bad (even where there is a tangible reason), then there are people you can talk to. Professionals, I mean.
It's my due date today, but nothing is happening (just as the midwife said it wouldn't). In fact, all my 'signs' have pretty much deserted their posts. So have eaten three mini-muffins so far, in a 'at least I can still do this' pathetic kind of way.
Vibes to the few of us left, floating around in the wasteland that is the ante-natal thread xx