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June 2016 Babies

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nehagarg · 24/09/2015 11:35

Anyone else with a super faint BFP showing a due date for June 2016?

Got a barely there, second line on Sunday but has taken me this long (and 6 more tests Blush ) to accept that I am finally pregnant again after my mmc in April. Sooooooo excited. Anyone else on the preggers boat with me? :)

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bikingintherain · 04/10/2015 12:00

bootyroo DH and I were just this moment discussing that. His parents are coming over next weekend and I said we should tell them then. DH has a terrible memory and thinks before we told them after scan. We didn't it was about 6 weeks.

I kind of think that if something happened then I would want to talk to my DPs about it. And DH prob feels the same about his parents. So it seems to make sense to tell them.

AmIseeingRight · 04/10/2015 12:03

nehagrag haha nope I'm in Redbridge.

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nehagarg · 04/10/2015 13:31

Agree with tigress. We've told our parents and my best friend. Last time when I had a miscarriage, their support was in invaluable.

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mrsmugoo · 04/10/2015 13:34

We'll tell our parents the Friday after next when I'm 6 weeks.

I'm dreading telling my SIL - we have a strange relationship in that we're friends in the same circle but honestly if we weren't related I'm sure we wouldn't be friends because we have a very strained relationship. She is very attention seeking - made sure she was first in our circle to get engaged/married have first child etc do she could get all the attention on her. Absolutely hated it when I was only 9 weeks behind her first time round as I stole her thunder and takes every opportunity to remind me how her DD is older than my DS (like the tiny age gap makes a jot of difference!)

Currently undergoing IVF not because of infertility but because her DH has genetic disease and they are having their embryos screened. She will be absolutely seething because I am pregnant before her!!

Also my best friend has been TTC since my first pregnancy and is under a fertility clinic. I'm dreading telling her because I know how gutted she'll be. Of course she'll be pleased for us, but it will knock the wind out of her sails. I really had hoped she'd pip me to the post and am still hoping she might be sitting on good news of her own.

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nehagarg · 04/10/2015 16:02

Aaah. Yeah I know how both those can feel Mrsmugoo. I too have a strained relationship with SIL and she cant have kids. I dreaded telling them last time and this time even though I know she is very pleased for us. Sad

I really hope your best friend is sitting on some good news too.

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nehagarg · 04/10/2015 16:02

Aaah. Too bad AmISeeingRight. Would have been fun to be on the same ward having a screaming competition. Wink

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Violet88 · 04/10/2015 17:09

Hi everyone, I'm very tentatively joining you all, so nice to meet you!! Had a faint line on Friday confirmed with a strong second line on a FRER yesterday after 7 months trying. . This is my first pregnancy and estimated due date is 11th June 2016.

laughingGnomette · 04/10/2015 17:50

Hi ladies!
Got a digital BFP yesterday, AF isn't due until Tuesday but I feel soooo pregnant! I think my DD will be the 14th.
I had surgery for an ectopic pregnancy in July and I'm completely stunned that I got pregnant as soon as we were allowed to start trying. I'll have to go for an early scan in a week or so to confirm its in the right place as there is a high chance of a repeat ectopic. Quite nerve wracking times. No bleeding or pain so far so fingers crossed.
I have a three year old DS.
nehagarg - I'm also in London and at the Whittington! Hello neighbour! :)

bikingintherain · 04/10/2015 17:52

Welcome Violet88 and congratulations.

It's not an easy situation nehagarg and mrsmugoo, we also have to tell some people that I'm not looking forward to. And everybody is so different, some people don't want to be told face to face others do. I've got it right in the past but I've also got it oh so terribly wrong. Sad But each time I did the same thing. Here's hoping it goes better this time round.

mrsmugoo · 04/10/2015 18:22

Welcome to all the newbies!

JellyBaby26 · 04/10/2015 19:31

I'm actually having very annoying symptoms. I have such sore hips! I had this when I was pregnant with dd but much later, it's such a flipping pain! Dh is not looking forward to the dream genii coming out in a few months mwahaha

Hi violet!!

Cartooner · 04/10/2015 19:35

I had mild SPD on the last pregnancy and I am afraid of that again. I did an hour walk this evening, starting as I mean to go on because I need to stay active as long as I can while the evenings are mild and I've no sore hips! I've also done a year yoga which should help, although I am not doing it during the first trimester to be on the safe side, except for some stretching at home.

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nehagarg · 04/10/2015 19:54

Sore hips? Shock Hadnt known about that one. Sounds painful Cartooner and Jelly. Hope it dissapears soon.

Welcome Violet and Gnomette. Congrats. Smile

gnomette - we really are neighbours! How fun is this going to be. Smile

biking ... It can be horrible. I have never managed to do it right so far. This is such a sore spot. We'll have to take it very slowly if this bean sticks and it comes to the point where we are ready to tell the wprld at large. Good luck!

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Torfhinn · 04/10/2015 20:41

Hi all, wow this thread is moving fast now! Welcome to everyone who had joined us, congratulations on your bfp's Smile

I'm also south east (Sussex), crampy and on permenant knicker watch!

Had rubbish sleep over the weekend, signing to get off and then when i wake, i awake. Also DS had just starting walking so is a bit of a handful. I'm missing wine this evening Confused

I'm telling sine close family/friends and key people at work. Got my MIL to tell SIL as she has fertility problems, thought is best to hear the news without having to put on a happy face.

Torfhinn · 04/10/2015 20:43

Sorry for the typos... I'm soooo tired! I hope it generally makes sense Hmm

LittleTink76 · 04/10/2015 21:51

I think I'm miles away from everyone up here in the North West Smile

I keep checking the toilet paper every time I wipe. I am a bit of a worrier but I wasn't like this with DD, maybe because I was 5 years younger & it hadn't taken over 2.5 years to conceive her.

I had a rubbish nights sleep because of our neighbours, they regularly have friends round & they're just so noisy loud voices & banging about all night & I was in work at 8am.

We're not telling anyone until 12 week scan. OH seems a bit unenthusiastic, with DD he told loads of people after we found out at 6 weeks. He doesn't seem to want to talk about it either, it worries me a bit. I know he wants this because when I suggested giving up he was adamant that we weren't. On the hand he won't let me lift anything heavy & he keeps telling me to take it easy. It's just when I start making plans like needing a bigger car & about the new house we'll be getting as we're going to be moving house soon anyway, and I want one a bit bigger than the one we're in now we've a baby on the way.

mrsmugoo · 05/10/2015 07:02

Morning all! Did a clearblue digi this morning and it says 2-3 weeks yay Smile

Got one more to do next week and then we'll start to tell parents and one or two close friends.

Mrspopper · 05/10/2015 07:25

Morning ladies. I felt so sick last night. Went to bed at 7.30! I was pretty sick last time so hoping it's a boy (apparently less sickness!?)

MadrigalElectromotive · 05/10/2015 07:31

Morning everyone!

I did a CBD this morning too, which now says 3+ weeks, so it is time for me to step way from the pee sticks!

Sorry you are feeling so sick, Mrspopper, hope it doesn't get as bad as last time.

Tink do you think he feels a bit overwhelmed/nervous/shocked after your long journey to get here? Perhaps it is coming across as not bothered because he hasn't worked through it all in his head yet?

Have a good day everyone. Smile

BiffleRoo · 05/10/2015 07:43

mrspopper hate to tell you this but I was so much worse with my boy than my 2 girls. Hope you don't feel too bad, I'm struggling with nausea this time and am only 3+4 so looking like a long 3/4 months ahead.

BiffleRoo · 05/10/2015 07:49

I've had a manic weekend and missed so many posts I'm not sure I can catch up! My older 2 had a swim meet all weekend and I spent 10 hours each day in a sweltering hot pool trying not to barf or fall asleep.

I'm in Yeovil, Somerset and baby will be #4. DD1 is 11, DD2 is 10 and DS is 15 months. DH want to know sex again but is away for 20 week scan so will ask sonographer to put it in a sealed envelope to open when he gets home.

Congratulations to all the new bfps!

jbiscuits · 05/10/2015 08:13

Morning everyone!

Just caught up after being away this weekend, so welcome to all the new people.

The nausea wasn't too bad whilst travelling, no worse than it would have been sitting at home anyway.

We're currently undecided whether or not we'll find out the sex. We didn't last time and I really liked that, but we're wondering whether practically it would be easier to know this time. Saying that, I think I'd be so paranoid that they might have got it wrong, it might be easier to not find out. Got a while to decide though.

I'm in the East Midlands.

LittleTink76 · 05/10/2015 08:31

Madrigal Yes maybe that's what it is, he did say he thought it was never going to happen, although he didn't say that while we were trying. I just thought he'd be a bit more excited by now.

Hope everyone has a good day. The weather is rubbish up here raining & windy I'm dreading going out in it to walk to school.

lemonslemonslemons · 05/10/2015 08:44

Hi Everyone! I got my BFP yesterday and my EDD is 12th June! I am in shock. DH and I decided to try for DC2 16 days ago and now I am pregnant! Crazy!!

lemonslemonslemons · 05/10/2015 08:46

Pressed post too soon! I was sick on Weds and feel nauseous most of the time. When I was pregnant with DD I had hyperemesis and am really worried it's happening again!! I didn't get sick until 7/8 weeks with her though!! Waah!