February 2016 Babies - The time for scans is fast approaching!

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Lillian I'm so sorry. It is absolutely heartbreaking. Señor lots of love and hugs. Take care of yourself. I promise things will get better. Xxxxx

lillian I'm so sorry. Sending lots of love your way

So sorry, Lillian!

Oh no, so very sorry Lillian

Thinking of you lillian

Very sorry to hear that Lillian take care of yourself xx

Lillian

I'm so very sorry Lillian, big hugs

Lillian, I'm so sorry to hear that.

I'm so sorry lillian. I hope you have lots of support around you to get through the shock and upset xxx

Can anyone recommend anything other then Epsom salts baths for fluid retention? Mine has gotten so bad in the last few days that I now have one pair of actual shoes that I can get my feet in and flip flops only! I reckon half my weight gain is actually just fluid. My thighs, knees, calves and ankles have just merged into ugly tree trunks!

Lillian I'm so so sorry. Big hugs

For what it's worry. I've had surgical twice and it was absolutely right for me but it's an incredibly personal decision

Lilian I'm so terribly sorry x

Sorry for your loss Lilian :( how many weeks were you?
Sending love and healing x x x

Not sure if you will read this lilian but sorry to hear your news x take care

Lilian

So sorry lilian

Lillian I am so so sorry

I'm so sorry to read this Lillian

And Purdy if you read this, come back! You can't leave your fellow 43ers ;)

Thanks so much everyone for all your support.

DH has been amazing we got out of London to get some fresh air (did a couple of walks in the Ashford Estate) today. Seeing my sister tomorrow as not in the mood for too much company today just yet. Still sinking in but slowly accepting now. Lots of spontaneous crying.

I was meant to be 10+5 but gestational sac was empty. Hoping it will all pass painlessly with nothing too confronting to have to deal with.

Lillian sorry for your loss. Take the time you need to get better and hopefully you'll have a little bean soon

lillian I'm sorry you have to go through this. I don't know if this is your first loss, but really allow yourself to grieve, especially as time moves on. The loss of a baby at any stage is heartbreaking and there is no supposed "expiry date". Look after yourself xxx

rufus I found this: www.home-remedies-for-you.com/articles/2415/women-s-issues/bloating-during-pregnancy.html

It focuses on bloating rather than water retention (which is my problem), but mentions it a couple of times. I don't know if it's any help at all. I went into the chemist the other day to ask about bloating medicines and was fobbed off with 'peppermint tea'. Pissed me off no end. I'm not a child - give me options and I will make a decision that is safe for me and the baby. Don't make the decision for me. Grr.

can i just ask im panicking a bit - ive been getting bad cramps but from the symptoms it fits exactly with round ligament pain although they are daily and frequent.

but i slept on my stomach last night and woke up this morning (15 mins ago) in agony like ive pulled a muscle, cant stand up straight - has anyone else had this? i dont know whether to ring epu and ask for advice im really worried..