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Nov 2011: aches, pains and waddling, soon to be cuddles and swaddling

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PamSco · 06/11/2011 18:11

Thanks Moosey for the title :)

I thought I'd go for it as there are only 4 or 5 posts left to go on the old thread.

Two other threads to be aware of:

Stats - you can update announcements here
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/antenatal_clubs/1157973-Nov11-Stats-only

Post Natal - for those of you already cuddling :)
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/postnatal_clubs/1326836-November-2011-early-birds-just-in-time-and-late-to-the-party-all-welcome

Hope this thread sees all our nests full.

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mrsgt · 21/11/2011 15:49

Congrats voodoo i had a feeling your little one had arrived when you weren't here yesterday! lovely name and am glad that all worked out well.
just wanted to share my frustrations in case it makes anyone feel better. can't remember if i felt this down last time when dd was 2 wks overdue but am really getting teary and frustrated at the moment. i think last time was over xmas so dh was home making the days easier but this time it seems to be dragging. i know it's all totally irrational and am only 40+6 and that the baby will be here this time next week but just so wanted a spontaneous labour this time and hoped with having so many more twinges, bh etc that it would happen. anyway rant over and clearly need to focus on getting energy together and eventually pushing out a healthy baby.
hope everyone else is ok and all the new babies are thriving

Katiebeau · 21/11/2011 17:05

Congratulations Voodoo. Lovely name, welcome to the world Sophie. X

mashpot · 21/11/2011 17:34

Great job Voodoo, sounds like it was hard work.

Second sweep and things are looking more favourable than on Friday and Bishops Score is now 5. Please can I go into labour now!!

They were fine about me delaying induction until Friday so long as everything is ok at the scan and monitoring I have to have on Wednesday and Thursday. I hope I don't even make those appointments of course.

Thinking of all you other ladies who are on the bench waiting with me. I'm glad I have you to check in with.

hadak · 21/11/2011 18:38

Wow Voodoo Huge congratulations and well done to you after what must have been a really difficult time But as you say it is all worth it.
Sending lots of labour vibes especially to you ladies who are over due dates.
Good luck

TerrysNo2 · 21/11/2011 19:30

Great news voodoo - welcome to the world Sophie Martha (about time Wink) - I love the name, so pretty.

mashpot I am keeping everything crossed for you that this baby starts shifting before Friday although I am confident it will play ball, eventually!

Staceroo · 21/11/2011 21:40

Hello all! And well done to the new mummies! I've been absent for a few days so no name checks I'm sorry! (Except a well deserved one for Voodoo... just had a mammoth cath up on the posts and seemed like a long haul!)

Thanks to those who were wondering where I was... as you no doubt imagine I've been at home too busy snuggling with my DH and our baby girl!

Here's the details...

After going to bed at 10:30 on Tuesday night, I was awoken at 11:50pm with what I assumed was another braxton hicks contraction combined with a some pretty bad pain in the tops of my legs, though this settled quite quickly and I fell asleep again, only to wake up 20 mins later with another (and a desperate feeling that I needed the loo!). By this time I had woken DH up and said that I thought something might be happening, but I'd wait and see if there was another in 20 mins again. The next one actually came 15 minutes later, and (again feeling the urge to go to the loo) my waters started to go whilst I was on the loo. Though I still wasn't convinced that I was in labour!!!!

5 minutes later another pain in my legs and the rest of my waters came away, by this time DH was on the phone to the midwife, who said she'd be out within the hour.

By this time my contractions were coming thick and fast, and despite getting dressed ready for the midwife to come, when she arrived I was stripped off and in the bath having contractions every couple of minutes!!! She was very impressed to find me coping very well with the contractions (on my knees in the bath doing my golden thread yoga breathing). She was very surprised at how quickly the contractions were coming having only been in labour for about an hour. We never got round to timing them as by this time they were pretty much non stop! Concentrating on the breathing was the only thing going through my mind after the first few contractions and I was incredibly calm despite the pace of things!

Midwife tried to examine me in between these contractions, which was not easy as they were so close together, and I couldn't do anything but laugh when she told me I was 8cm already!!

At this point I finally got on the gas and air. A couple of transactions later I felt the need to push and she told me to just go with it! The gas and air combined with the breathing helped focus my mind during this stage and I just kept thinking "this could be it - if I push hard enough my baby girl will be here!!"

Tilly Alexandra Bxxxx was born on 16 November at 3:43am weighing 8lbs 7oz - after only 3:50mins in labour!

I did have to go into the hospital for some stitches, but the breathing and gas and air saw me through that nicely too! Poor DH was terrified having to follow me in the car with Tilly by himself! And he had to dress her himself!

The three of us are doing so well and having so much fun being a little family! Tilly is so so pretty and doing super well with breast feeding. I even had 8 hours sleep last night! (DH had 9 - lazy bugger!)

Good luck to those still waiting!

H007 · 21/11/2011 22:25

Congratulations staceroo and voodoo :) no news here :( How many are there of us left now?

alicat10 · 22/11/2011 08:38

Yay! Congratulations Voodoo Grin

MrsArchchancellorRidcully · 22/11/2011 09:15

Congrats staceroo!!

I'm still here. 'Officially' (per the NHS) I am 39+6 today, though by my own dates I think I'm 40+ a few days. I keep reminding myself i will not be 'officially' overdue until 2 weeks tomorrow but hoping beyond hope to have this baby this week.
DP insisting on taking DD to nursery AND picking her up as I clearly can't be trusted to drive 10mins down the road, so i am bored stiff here. Have persuaded him to go out for lunch today, so i get out of the house (he's working from home this week). Shouldn't complain really, he is very good.

This morning hormones went into overdrive. DD was hassling the 14 yr old cat who eventually lashed out at her (to be fair to him, he has one eye and quickly learnt not to claw her face but always goes for her arm). She cried. I would normally be sympathetic but tell her she shouldn't have teased him. Today, well, my baby had been attacked! I picked her up and started ranting about taking the cat to the vets to be put down Shock

What is pissing me off is that I am having consistent background period pains which always come to nothing. This has been happening for about 4 weeks now, so I keep getting my hopes up. Last night I slept through more or less, so feeling better today. Just want the pain of labour now!!!!!

juststarting · 22/11/2011 10:08

Congratulations voodoo and staceroo! Well done.
Shattered here. Still got a cold and managed all of four hrs sleep last night. Lots of bh i began to think might be going somewhere but they abated about 7am. Just want to spend the day under a blanket watching tv. I dont know whose idea it was to have a second child. One seems more than enough to look after.

pandia · 22/11/2011 10:09

I'm still here at 40+6. Reflexologist was so positive that it was going to happen after my session yesterday, even saying I think you'll be in labour by 6.30pm that I feel really disappointed that there is nothing, not even feeling bh or anything.

MrsA and Mrsgt sorry you are both feeling down and frustrated. I think we all know how it all feels - god I am so frustrated now and I'm sure the waiting around is making me more anxious about everything too. At the moment I just feel that it's never going to happen.

Mash glad things looked more positive yesterday, and good news about holding off induction a bit. Any progress over night?

Hang in there ladies, can't be much longer for any of us - and so glad that we are waiting together. I think I'd actually go mad without this group as I am totally over picking up the phone and getting texts/emails from people wanting to know what's happening. I know their concern comes from a good place, but it's this group of ladies that I think understands best how I feel right now.

TerrysNo2 · 22/11/2011 10:27

Oh MrsA I had a good nights sleep the night before DD arrived - I think its your body's way of preparing you!!

neverinamillionyears · 22/11/2011 10:32

Morning all. Still here too 39+3

I'm still working as it keeps me from the boredom of home. I only do 4 hours and its just a ten minute drive so it keeps me sane. The one problem I have is that we have moved stations and I'm now at one that has a lovely high st with coffee and cake shops and a fab waitrose also with a bakery. Ah well it fills the day.
I tried extending my work for another few days but they won't let me work past my due date so after Friday ill be bored as anything. Maybe I should start online Christmas shopping.

Sending labour vibes to all. Isn't it odd that once again we find ourselves knicker checking for a show. I was doing that early pregnancy and not hoping for one!

Dp is at a gig tonight so you never know things might happen as dp isn't with me. Ah wishful thinking.

mashpot · 22/11/2011 13:44

Hi all, things have started for me at last! I hope it doesn't tail off but started having pains last night at around 8pm, went on all night so I haven't had much sleep and now having contractions around every 9 minutes. I'm waiting for a callback from the MW on call (as I've planned for homebirth) but don't think they will come and see me till I get further on. Hopefully this is it, waters haven't broken yet though. I think the second sweep is to thank.

Hang in there ladies, my fingers are crossed for all of us.

Congratulations Stace what a story! I can't believe how quickly it happened for you, sounds like you coped brilliantly.

Truffkin · 22/11/2011 13:52

I'm still here too! Lots more show this morning and consultant did a sweep, saying cervix is medium to soft and 1cm dilated. They've agreed for me to go in for monitoring on Monday if nothing before then, rather than book an induction. Am happy for that for now!

H hope things progress for you. Am hoping the sweep is effective, was over quite quickly but there were a couple of sharp intakes of breath from me Grin

juststarting · 22/11/2011 17:07

GOod luck Mashpot, hope things going well.
I'm feeling thoroughly sorry for myself. Feel horrid. Throat like gravel, back of the mouth full of phlegm, sinuses hurt, head hurt, feel sick, desperate for sleep but between my body and my son, it aint happening, lots of braxton hicks making me scared its all going to kick off thisevening when I feel so rubbish already. Also decided to hire a cleaner while I was pregnant - had one who was just completely rubbish, then one who failed to turn up two out of the three weeks he was employed by us, which was a shame cause the week he came he did a damn good job, and then an aquaintence said she'd like to do it for a bit of extra money and she just never shows up. Was due to come friday, heard nothing till Sunday when she rang up to see if DP had fixed her bike and said sh'd come tuesday, nothing today apart from a facebook message saying she's off to the gym. I KNOW I could just ring her, but its not my job to remind her to do her job and this happens every bloody week with her. Anyway, ended up at least doing the bathrooms myself an the chemicals got right on my already crappy throat. Sorry, its all a bit petty but I am feeling murderous towards SOMEONE. And I need to eat something and can find nothing to eat. And none of this would be as bothersome if I wasnt, as many of us are, sat here going "argh, braxton hicks HURT. Are things getting started?" every ten minutes. I'd like to just relax and go "ok, well, I'm tired, thats fine, I can get some rest tonight, tomorrow is another day".

H007 · 22/11/2011 19:05

mrsA you sound exactly like I did on Friday the kitten knocked over a glass of water and I was in too much pain to clean it up so phoned the OH in tears as I wanted to kill the kitten haha he ended up coming home from work as he was worried about the safety of the cat :)

Well tomorrow is induction day and fingers crossed for me! We've decided not to tell any friends or family so as still to keep it a surprise for them, and still a bit magical. Plus to reduce any hassle that they may give us haha.

neverinamillionyears · 22/11/2011 19:44

h007 hope it all goes smoothly for you. I'm sure you can't wait to meet little one.

I've made sure my cat doesn't read this thread, I don't want her to keep looking at me out of the corner of her eye.

Poppet I had meant to mention way back when you posted an update especially the bit about carrying her close on her due date (bloody hell I'm filling up again) that yet again a little lump appeared in my throat. Wonderful times ahead for you I'm sure.

I've taken my first epo tablet, not sure whether to put one in a crevice too, iykwim. Eugh

In bed already, watching heir hunters, I sure know how to live!

hadak · 22/11/2011 19:50

Congrats to Staceroo sounds like all is going well with your little one.
good luckMashpot. You may well have your little one as I am typing.
Really sorry for all of you that are still waiting I can't imagine the frustration of going overdue- I was already demented by my due date!!
All ok here but baby not at all settled probabaly 20-30 mins maximum sleep at a time last night as he just can't seem to stay asleep with wind, which he doesn't give up easily!!
He has just finally gone to sleep where i have been able to put him down, fingers crossed we get a little while before he is up again.
Thinking of you all.

pandia · 22/11/2011 22:49

H007 thinking of you night before induction. Hope you get some sleep.

Just sounds like you're having rotten time, poor you. Cold on top of everything else not fair. I also think I have one starting as v sore throat but praying it doesn't take hold.

pandia · 22/11/2011 22:52

Sorry hit send too soon.

Mash you may have your baby by now!! Looking fw to hearing.

Truff fingers crossed for progress from sweep today.

Nothing here again. So disappointed I could cry!!

Never you'll have to let us know if the epo works, wherever you decided to put it Grin

Sleep well all

voodoomunkee · 22/11/2011 23:30

Congrats Stace!
Mash fingers crossed this is it lovey!
H007 induction tomorrow? Sorry of I've made that up/read it incorrectly. Good luck though.
Everyone else as well, I am sending you massive labour vibes. Come on babies!!!!!
We are doing ok. Mucousy baby so a bit of a sickies thing going on. However my milks just come in and hopefully hopefully it may lead to her not feeding every hour!
Managed to get her to settle in her cot, sure it's not lasting as she's twisting whilst am writing this..... Will keep persevering!
Did I mention..... Come on babies!!!
Am lurking even if not posting, so eagerly awaiting next arrival. x

hadak · 23/11/2011 11:02

Good luck to H007 for your induction today.
Just hope your cold os fast disapearing
Pandia any more news? is the reflexology helping?
Mash I guess your baby may be here now. Hope all went well and you are enjoying lovely cuddles.
Hurry up other babies your mummies are really looking forward to meeting you.
Hope you all have a good day

Staceroo · 23/11/2011 11:18

Good luck mash and H007! Hopefully you will both be snuggling with babies now!!

Just cleaning the bathroom might not be a bad thing to do! Typically I spent monday last week sleeping, then Tuesday I cleaned the bathroom, did the hoovering, went shopping and for a really long walk, so was absolutely shattered! Then it was typically tues night that I went into labour!

Thinking of you ladies still waiting! Can't wait till we are all on the post natal thread snuggling our babies xxxx

neverinamillionyears · 23/11/2011 12:32

pandia well I put it there but nothing has happened! Having a sweep a week today so let's see if baby decides to arrive before.

I'm also lurking for new baby news :)