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Original poster

it is Our wedding anniversary today and i miss him so very much.

41 replies

onlyjoking9329 · 12/07/2009 00:41

Steve where ever you are i love and miss you so very much today and always.
i can't believe it is 13 months since you died since i lay beside you as you took your last breaths, i miss you in so very many ways, i was proud to be your wife and the mum of out three lovely children.
be at peace.
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AitchTwoOh · 12/07/2009 00:43

peace be with you too, oj.

differentID · 12/07/2009 00:45

peace always OJ.
x

MyDHhasnomemory · 12/07/2009 00:47

RIP Steve. Best wishes to OJ and your DCs.

NotPlayingAnyMore · 12/07/2009 02:15

Peace to you all, OJ xXx

Saucepanman · 12/07/2009 02:31

HUGE hugs OJ, and lots of love and peace xxx

hazygirl · 12/07/2009 05:48

thinking of you ojxx

tribpot · 12/07/2009 06:52

RIP Steve. Peace to you all, OJ.

Bumperslucious · 12/07/2009 09:33

Best wishes to you all OJ.

rubyslippers · 12/07/2009 09:34

much love OJ

xx

Lulumama · 12/07/2009 09:40

((((OJ))))

HecatesTwopenceworth · 12/07/2009 09:41

xxxxxxxxxx

hermykne · 12/07/2009 09:43

hug OJ

hippipotamiHasLost44lbs · 12/07/2009 09:43

Much love you you oj
xx

dizzymare · 12/07/2009 09:43

Peace be with you xxx

hippipotamiHasLost44lbs · 12/07/2009 09:43

argh to you....

Thandeka · 12/07/2009 09:46

Thinking of you today OJ.
xxx

FiveGoMadInDorset · 12/07/2009 09:47

Lots of love for you and yours and thinking of you today OJ xxxxxx

stickyj · 12/07/2009 10:12

OJ, thinking of you and the children too. You know that Steve's watching over you all, don't you, 'cos I followed you through those days and Heaven is lucky to have such a lovely man up there! I hope you can think of all the lovely times and know how many Mn's are thinking of you all today.

corblimeymadam · 12/07/2009 16:36

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BouncingTurtle · 12/07/2009 16:49

God bless you and your lovely family, OJ. May He give you strength for the days ahead.
Take comfort that your beloved Steve is watching over you, and always will be until the day that you and he are together again.

herbietea · 12/07/2009 16:52

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mumoverseas · 12/07/2009 21:06

hugs to you and your children OJ xxxx

Original poster
onlyjoking9329 · 12/07/2009 21:09

Thanks.

we had a peaceful lunch and trifle has been eaten out in the garden, the kids have spent some time blowing bubbles up to heaven. i have had a glass of wine in the garden.

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mumoverseas · 12/07/2009 21:18

oh bless your lovely children OJ.
My DD is only 2.8 and I wasn't sure if she understood when I explained that her nanny is in heaven (lost mum 6 weeks ago) but today we were at mass having DS baptised and she started waving at the ceiling and said that she was waving to nanny in heaven.

I remember your thread from last year and know that Steve would be so proud of you and your children x

missorinoco · 12/07/2009 21:18

oh oj, my thoughts are with you. bubbles up to heaven is a lovely idea.