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it is Our wedding anniversary today and i miss him so very much.

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onlyjoking9329 · 12/07/2009 00:41

Steve where ever you are i love and miss you so very much today and always.
i can't believe it is 13 months since you died since i lay beside you as you took your last breaths, i miss you in so very many ways, i was proud to be your wife and the mum of out three lovely children.
be at peace.
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Lilyloo · 15/07/2009 22:33

OJ he would be very proud of you and your 3 lovely dc's i am sure x

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triffictits · 15/07/2009 22:30

OJ just seen this.

Often think about you and your fantastic kids. I don't know how you manage to keep so strong and be such a good mum to them whilst trying to manage your own grief - you really are amazing.

Steve will be looking over you always and he will be proud of you.

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siouxsiesiouxandthebanshees · 13/07/2009 20:16

OJ, love to you and yours.
I often think about you, normally when I make Trifle. I haven't been on in a while, but I do hope the outlaws are behaving them selves (hissss)
all the best.
Triflenorks (my old name)

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onlyjoking9329 · 13/07/2009 20:00

MN has been a huge support to our family throu some very difficult times, i have learnt lots about life death and other stuff too, haapy to try and help if i can just as others have helped me.

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DrNortherner · 12/07/2009 23:17

Oh OJ

It amazes me that you are so very helpful to others on MN who are grieving whilst you are still so much going through it too.

Thinking of you and your lovely kids.

xx

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BecauseImWorthIt · 12/07/2009 22:02

Love to you OJ.

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TheOddOne · 12/07/2009 21:57

Brightest blessings to you and Steve - not just watching over you but with you always. Take care. XXX

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bellavita · 12/07/2009 21:53

Thinking of you and your family too xx

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kormachameleon · 12/07/2009 21:49

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2shoes · 12/07/2009 21:46

senidng you love OJ

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blossomhill · 12/07/2009 21:45

Just wanted you to know you are in my thoughts today OJ xxxxxxxxxx

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Sidge · 12/07/2009 21:44

Wishing you special memories on your wedding anniversary OJ.

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MerlinsBeard · 12/07/2009 21:36

((((OJ and family))))

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LackaDAISYcal · 12/07/2009 21:21

{{{{{{OJ and family}}}}}}}

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wrinklytum · 12/07/2009 21:21

oj xxx

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Poledra · 12/07/2009 21:19

Thinking of you all, OJ.

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missorinoco · 12/07/2009 21:18

oh oj, my thoughts are with you. bubbles up to heaven is a lovely idea.

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mumoverseas · 12/07/2009 21:18

oh bless your lovely children OJ.
My DD is only 2.8 and I wasn't sure if she understood when I explained that her nanny is in heaven (lost mum 6 weeks ago) but today we were at mass having DS baptised and she started waving at the ceiling and said that she was waving to nanny in heaven.

I remember your thread from last year and know that Steve would be so proud of you and your children x

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onlyjoking9329 · 12/07/2009 21:09

Thanks.

we had a peaceful lunch and trifle has been eaten out in the garden, the kids have spent some time blowing bubbles up to heaven. i have had a glass of wine in the garden.

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mumoverseas · 12/07/2009 21:06

hugs to you and your children OJ xxxx

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BouncingTurtle · 12/07/2009 16:49

God bless you and your lovely family, OJ. May He give you strength for the days ahead.
Take comfort that your beloved Steve is watching over you, and always will be until the day that you and he are together again.

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stickyj · 12/07/2009 10:12

OJ, thinking of you and the children too. You know that Steve's watching over you all, don't you, 'cos I followed you through those days and Heaven is lucky to have such a lovely man up there! I hope you can think of all the lovely times and know how many Mn's are thinking of you all today.

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FiveGoMadInDorset · 12/07/2009 09:47

Lots of love for you and yours and thinking of you today OJ xxxxxx

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