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Im so proud of my son Wilfred...............

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lottiejenkins · 03/12/2008 20:20

For those of you who dont know Wilfred and I i'll explain. When Wilfred was two days before his fifth birthday he found his daddy dead in bed....... It has taken a long time and a lot of heartache tears and support from friends family and Winstons Wish to get us where we are today. Wilfred is profoundly deaf and has additional difficulties as well. He attends the Royal School for Deaf Children in Margate.
This evening just as i was going out to watch my friends children in their school play the phone rang. i was slightly alarmed as it was the personal classroom number for his teacher. She told me not to panic when i answered. She told me that See Hear the programme for deaf people had been filming Wilfreds class today to do with signing books for deaf children. The book that was read was The Gruffalo and afterwards the children were asked what they thought of the book.
Wilfred was asked if it was a book he would read with his Daddy and Mummy. He replied that he didnt have a Daddy, that his Daddy had died but that he would read it with his Mummy.

His teacher said he was brilliant didnt get upset and flustered. I of course burst into tears when she told me and ended up crying on my neighbours shoulder at school. She was lovely and said that Wilfred did have a Daddy just that he wasnt with him and was watching him from nearby. I am so very proud of him tonight................

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lottiejenkins · 03/12/2008 21:28

Thanks for all your messages xx

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mylittlemousie · 04/12/2008 18:10

I will watch Wilfred too, I am sure he is a very great credit to his mum.

rosbif · 04/12/2008 18:17

What an amazing little boy, I am sure his Daddy is so proud of him and of how you have coped without him. Cherish him, he sounds wonderful (as do you)

lottiejenkins · 04/12/2008 21:55

I will try and remind everyone when the programme is on..... i hope Wilfred will be on on his own if you see what i mean if not he will be in the group part! I had his half brother round this evening.....he lives about 300 miles away and we havent seen him for about 3 years Its a shame that Wilf wasnt here to see him. My stepson is lovely.........he is Wilfs guardian as well. I am very lucky to have him in my family.

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LedodgyChristmasjumper · 04/12/2008 21:59

What a fab little boy no wonder you are so proud of him.

hazygirl · 05/12/2008 12:51

wilf what an lovely young man, big hugs to you and your mumxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Tclanger · 05/12/2008 15:47

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WingsofaChristmasTreefairy · 05/12/2008 15:58

How very proud you must be of Wilfred, that brought a tear to my eye.

Well done Wilfred on being a brave boy x

lottiejenkins · 06/12/2008 19:16

He's been telling everyone all weekend, im on telly next wednesday make sure you watch me bbc2 1 o clock... very excited boy !!!

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Califraukincense · 06/12/2008 19:32

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mashedbanana · 06/12/2008 21:15

i've got a lump in my throat.what a gorgeous son you have.i'm going to put the programme in my planner now.

lottiejenkins · 06/12/2008 21:16

I just hope they show his bit now!! If not you should be able to see him in other shots... his pics are on my profile!!

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lottiejenkins · 06/12/2008 21:18

Have just seen your link Cali!!! Thanks xxx

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meandjoe · 07/12/2008 08:13

Just made me cry. You must be so proud of him, what a brave and clever little boy. I still burst into tears if asked about my mum now and she dies when I was 9!

RaggedRobin · 07/12/2008 21:36

what a brave pair. you have a very lovely son.

lottiejenkins · 09/12/2008 16:41

Just to remind everyone that Wilfred should be on TV tomorrow at 1 o clock on BBC2. If he isnt on being interviewed then she should be visible hopefully in the classroom scene!

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lottiejenkins · 10/12/2008 14:18

Wilf was on twice ! They didnt metion his Daddy dieing though. In a way im glad as it would have really upset me again.

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lottiejenkins · 12/12/2008 19:36

www.bbc.co.uk/blogs/seehear/

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PenelopePitstops · 12/12/2008 19:37

thats beautiful, he sounds like a real star, you should be so proud

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