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My beloved boy, mummy misses you.

55 replies

AKinderPlace · 14/09/2025 13:37

It's been a year. The sadness tears at mummy's heart still. When is this going to be better? I do not know.

Your silent bed. Your ashes in your room. Everytime I cook a meal, thinking of you.

The dreams I have of you alive. Only to wake up to despair again.

The last time I saw you alive, you were happy. Going off to school. You never return.

Love you forever, my boy. Wait for mummy and daddy, we will find you when our time is up ❤️

We wrote a memorial for you. It's all that we have now, instead of you.

The world prays for you now. Your spirit is with God. Fly free now.

My beloved boy, mummy misses you.
My beloved boy, mummy misses you.
My beloved boy, mummy misses you.
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Riverswims · 14/09/2025 13:50

what a beautiful boy. I believe Yong Le is in a lovely place now and send a hug to you and your family. 🫂

Tiswa · 14/09/2025 13:57

I am so sorry for your loss - your memorial was very moving, he was 3 days younger than my boy

iamnotalemon · 14/09/2025 13:57

I’m really sorry for your loss. Lovely photos x

WateringCans · 14/09/2025 14:03

I’m so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful smile he had, and what a lovely tribute. I’m sure he is missed by everyone xx

JohnBullshit · 14/09/2025 14:10

A year is no time when faced with such a loss. You were blessed with a beautiful boy, and it's too cruel that he's no longer with you.

SpamBeansAndWaffles · 14/09/2025 14:13

I'm so very sorry. Your boy is beautiful.

Fergie51 · 14/09/2025 14:25

Beautiful and heartfelt words for your son. The pain and hurt of losing him must be unbearable but somehow you found the strength to write these words.
I hope you have close family and friends that are able to help you through this dark time. 🌺

CurtainCrisis · 14/09/2025 15:09

I have just read your memorial and it is so so tragic, and heartbreaking. So heartbreaking. I’m lost for words.
Somehow ‘Sorry for your loss’ doesn’t do it justice.

Thinking of you. Now and always.

HateThursdays · 14/09/2025 15:38

I’ve read your memorial and is utterly heartbreaking. The fact you want change for other children in schools is very commendable and your dignity in talking about the events is very admirable.

I am so very sorry for your loss 💐.

MrsPositivity1 · 14/09/2025 20:58

I’m so sorry for your heartbreak. Ong Le is such a beautiful boy and you must miss him terribly

MrsTaytodarling · 14/09/2025 21:03

Deepest sympathies to you all in your loss of beautiful Yong Le. Utterly tragic

lucya66 · 14/09/2025 21:11

Rest in peace Yong Le.

SleepQuest33 · 14/09/2025 21:16

Rest in peace beautiful Yong Le, I am so sorry! I hope this painful outcome and your memorial will help others. ❤️

me24x · 14/09/2025 21:17

I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending you so many hugs and I hope you have close family/friends around you supporting you through this unthinkable time. What a beautiful boy, his smile is so loving and I’m sure he is sending you a massive hug and kiss from the beautiful place he now rests❤️

Usernameunavailableagain12 · 14/09/2025 21:18

sorry for your loss, I can’t imagine what the pain feels like but I’m sure he is still with you. He is a beautiful boy!

Rattyandtoad · 14/09/2025 21:19

Like many mothers across the world right now your post has made me cry. Your love strength and resilience shine through. If you have strength you may find some kindred spirits here.

https://thecanmoretrust.co.uk/

Sending prayers. X

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We work with individuals, communities, practices, workplaces, schools, colleges and universities touched by suicide – suicide postvention.

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supiciousminds · 14/09/2025 21:19

I’m so very sorry, Ong Le is such a beautiful boy

Sosickofarrogance · 14/09/2025 21:21

Such a beautiful smile! The loss you feel must be utterly overwhelming, words can convey so little of how distressed I feel for you.

There is nothing anyone can say that will ease your pain, but the love you feel for him whilst telling his story is evident.

You, Yong Le and the rest of your family are in my thoughts.

HarryBlackberry1 · 14/09/2025 21:23

So very sorry for your loss. He looked absolutely beautiful.

painarr · 14/09/2025 21:24

So sorry for your beautiful boy 💙

MyFavouritePlace · 14/09/2025 21:34

I'm so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy.
Thinking of you and your family xx

NewNameNewMeNow · 14/09/2025 21:37

What a beautiful boy. I’m so very sorry. Praying for you all.

StasisMom · 14/09/2025 21:39

I’m so very sorry 😔.

borage13 · 14/09/2025 21:40

I am so very, very sorry for your loss of beautiful Yong Le. My heart goes out to you. I lost my son 13 years ago and I have so much advice but for now, you and your family will be in my thoughts. X

Nomorecoconutboosts · 14/09/2025 21:46

So sorry that your son, Yong Le has died.

you write in a deeply respectful and moving way on the memorial pages, despite your own deep grief.

So sad for you and your family.

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