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Fundraising In loving memory of our son James

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vio · 11/03/2008 18:54

Our son James was born on 28 Apr 2007, he sadly passed away on 11 Sep 2007, in our arms at Robin House ( Children's Hospice).
James was born with a rare genetic condition called Epidermolysis Bullosa, he had the most severe form of EB and was fatal in infancy.
James skin was as fragile as butterfly wings, his skin broke at even the slightest touch, causing painful open blisters and wounds, the blistering was not limited to his skin, but also affected his inner body linings, such as his mouth and oesophagus. James was a very brave wee boy, he was a son we have always been proud of and it has been a privilege to be his parents. In loving memory of our son James Terrence Lynch ( Jim Jim ), we are going to do the Great Scottish Walk on 11 May 2008 in Glasgow, please support us by visiting our fundraising website www.justgiving.com/jim_jim, thank you very much!

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vio · 13/03/2008 20:48

have you got paypal loolop?

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vio · 13/03/2008 20:52

jbadgirl, just want to thank you again. You too are a wonderful mom! Toby must be very proud of you.

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loolop · 13/03/2008 21:05

no paypal - sorry

vio · 13/03/2008 21:14

loolop, no prob, suggested paypal only becos a fellow mumsnetter isnt in the Uk so she gave me money via paypal and I made the donation for her. Maybe you can try using other cards? if you have others, if not, don't worry about it, it's the thought that counts and if you can help sending jim jim's fundraising page to your friends and family and everyone you know, will be a great help. Thank you !!!!

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MegBusset · 14/03/2008 11:22

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vio · 14/03/2008 12:06

thank you Meg!

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vio · 14/03/2008 18:13

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NorthernLurker · 14/03/2008 20:37

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vio · 15/03/2008 10:02

Thank you everyone again!

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oooggs · 15/03/2008 19:51

hi vio - hope the training is going well

vio · 16/03/2008 18:02

Thanks! again, please support us ladies, with your help, we can make EB curable one day!

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Kindersurpise · 17/03/2008 08:44

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allegrageller · 17/03/2008 08:58

morning vio- how is your training going? x

vio · 17/03/2008 10:13

Thanks ladies, hi, training is going well, I think I can walk 12 miles ! I think Jim Jim has made me a better and stronger person, I have also done a few speeches at my Aerobics, many people like you ladies here are very kind. I just want to do something for James, and for children living with EB but then again, I cannot do it on my own, your help means a lot of us and I thank you.

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allegrageller · 17/03/2008 10:22

glad to hear you're doing well Vio. Jim Jim's influence and legacy are truly positive in every way. x

NorthernLurker · 17/03/2008 23:00

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mumemma · 17/03/2008 23:11

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vio · 18/03/2008 21:22

good evening everyone !

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PhDlifeNeedsaNewLife · 18/03/2008 21:50

Vio we went to donate but couldn't make the page work - I'll go back later and try again. Your story is deeply moving. Dh and I blown away by your spirit in doing this walk. Jim Jim is lucky to have such an inspiring mama.

vio · 18/03/2008 22:02

Thanks PhD, honestly, thanks so much for your kindness. I cannot explain my love for James, I love him very very much, he's a special boy. I have to admit that sometimes when I think of him and his short life, he had a lot to put up with as a baby, and I would then become tearful,no words can convey the sadness his condition and his death has brought me, but then again, without James, I would never discover the real me.

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Maveta · 19/03/2008 13:33

You keep going Vio, you are doing great, I hope people keep giving and bring you closer to your goal. x

vio · 19/03/2008 14:09

thanks Maveta, I hope so too.. you are a very kind person, and I think people like you are making a big difference.

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NorthernLurker · 19/03/2008 18:57

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Kindersurpise · 19/03/2008 22:43

Another sneaky bump.

vio · 20/03/2008 13:24

Thank you kindersuprise!

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