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Sudden loss of our 2 year old

78 replies

Gonetoosoon · 27/08/2023 10:57

We just lost our beautiful 2year old daughter on the 22nd August 2023. She fell ill so quickly and passed before we even knew what was really happening. The doctors tried to save her for over an hour but we knew it was too late. I feel broken. The guilt of thinking if there was more i couldve done to help her is killing me and I feel completely lost without her. I have another older daughter and trying to be there for her is difficult. My partner is being amazing and looking after us both but I know he is struggling too. I dont know how I can go on without her. She was an amazing little girl, truly one of a kind. I miss her so much.

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Pinchelada · 27/08/2023 13:21

I cannot imagine what you are going through. I just can't! You poor, poor woman. I'm so, so desperately sorry. What about absolutely stunning child. I'm sorry.

Teisenau · 27/08/2023 13:28

Hannah was a very beautiful little girl. I am so sorry for your loss and I hope you get some answers. X

loverofpants · 27/08/2023 13:33

I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Hannah ❤️

caringcarer · 27/08/2023 13:39

Gonetoosoon · 27/08/2023 11:21

Her name is Hannah

What a beautiful happy life oking little girl. So sorry for your tragic loss.

octoberfarm · 27/08/2023 13:46

Oh @Gonetoosoon, she's beautiful. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss Flowers

WeeOrcadian · 27/08/2023 14:17

A beautiful name and a beautiful girl

Would you like to tell us about Hannah? What's her favourite animal? What's her favourite colour? Favourite food?

smashburger · 27/08/2023 14:27

I am so so very sorry xx

HelpMebeok · 27/08/2023 14:30

Beautiful little girl. I am so sorry for your loss.

Absolutelynotfor2019 · 27/08/2023 14:34

Dear OP I genuinely cannot imagine the absolute horror you ,your partner and other daughter are going through. How devastating and I cannot think of any wise words . Am so so so sorry ❤️

Spirallingdownwards · 27/08/2023 14:35

So sorry for your loss of Hannah. She looks adorable.

LemonLimeWater · 27/08/2023 14:38

I am so sorry for your loss of beautiful Hannah.

purpledaisy60 · 27/08/2023 14:40

I am so so sorry for your loss, your daughter is beautiful and looks so sweet.

Buildingthefuture · 27/08/2023 14:40

I am so, so sorry. I cannot even begin to imagine what you are suffering. Life can be so desperately unfair 💔💔

mommybear1 · 27/08/2023 14:42

I'm so so sorry for your loss ❤️

Jk987 · 27/08/2023 14:43

Life can be so cruel. I'm so sad for you and the family. It must be so raw. I bet Hannah had a wonderful life and no one can take the memories away.

Fooksticks · 27/08/2023 14:46

I'm so sorry @Gonetoosoon. RIP Hannah.

somethingischasingme · 27/08/2023 14:58

Your lovely daughter. Thank you for showing us your precious girl. So sorry she has gone. Xx

ZeldaWillTellYourFortune · 27/08/2023 15:00

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JudyEdithPerry · 27/08/2023 15:07

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gogomoto · 27/08/2023 15:19

She's beautiful, so sorry.

I know it's overwhelming now but please hang in there, talk to others who can truly understand what you are going through (i can't despite have bereavement counselling training, I fully admit that) and don't be afraid to ask for help for your dd too.

Words like sorry don't really convey enough emotion but remember people out there, here on Mumsnet are here for you, 3am, 6 months down the line.., hugs to you all Flowers

Trusttheprocess1 · 27/08/2023 15:23

How devastating for you and your family. Hannah looks like a beautiful little girl. I can’t imagine the loss you feel. Sending you all the love in the world.

uncomfortablydumb53 · 27/08/2023 15:25

I'm so very sorry for your heartbreaking loss
My thoughts are with you

Phillipa12 · 27/08/2023 15:44

I am so very sorry to read that your beautiful daughter Hannah has died. Words cannot describe the pain that I know you will be feeling, but please know that you are not alone on this horrid journey. I lost my dd, Pippa, very suddenly when she was 3, this was 9.5 years ago. Mumsnet was a lifeline for me back then, people who didn't know me but cared when I needed them, whether that was at 9pm or 3am. They helped hold the sky up for me when I honestly thought I couldn't go on, and still do, even now, when I'm having a wobble. Sending lots of love to you and all your family. Xx

TheRosesAreInBloom · 27/08/2023 17:59

Hi OP, thank you for sharing your gorgeous daughter’s name and her photo, what a beautiful and bonny girl .

There are no words that will come anywhere close to helping you but please try to be kind to yourself.

Sending much love and strength to you and your family 💕💕

Rockandrollfangirl · 27/08/2023 19:02

I'm so sorry. My heart breaks for you.
Hannah is absolutely gorgeous. She looks so happy. Sending you my thoughts

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