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My dear sweet husband ❤️

62 replies

Abcdefghik · 11/06/2023 01:41

He passed away this morning unexpectedly at only 53.

I can't sleep, and I just needed to say it out loud.

Sorry 💐

OP posts:
justanothermanicmonday1 · 11/06/2023 06:02

I’m so sorry for your loss OP 💐

MelonsOnSaleAgain · 11/06/2023 06:04

I am so very very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy. 💐

MrGruber · 11/06/2023 06:08

So very , very sorry and will be thinking of you

TerfIngOnTheBeach · 11/06/2023 06:14

💐

HelpMeUnpickThis · 11/06/2023 06:15

So sorry for your loss 💐

Toomuch2019 · 11/06/2023 06:37

Sending love op xx

TheIoWfairy · 11/06/2023 06:45

I’m so sorry. I’m sending you a big hug

GoodChat · 11/06/2023 07:08

What a horrible shock. I hope you managed to get some sleep. I'm so sorry ❤️

Franticbutterfly · 11/06/2023 07:25

I'm so sorry.

Scoose · 11/06/2023 10:47

I'm so sorry for your loss. My husband passed away suddenly and unexpectedly 12 days ago he had just turned 50 ( I'm 41)
Nothing prepares you for a sudden loss like that I am so sorry you are going through it too. My inbox is open if you need to talk Flowers

HelpMeUnpickThis · 11/06/2023 10:58

Sorry for your loss @Scoose 💐

Scoose · 11/06/2023 11:56

Thank you Helpme

longtompot · 11/06/2023 14:21

So sorry for your loss @Abcdefghik 💐

Misspacorabanne · 11/06/2023 14:26

I’m so sorry op! I’m thinking of you xx

RantyAnty · 11/06/2023 14:37

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Flowers
I lost my DH when he was 57.

Stella123456 · 11/06/2023 15:01

Scoose · 11/06/2023 10:47

I'm so sorry for your loss. My husband passed away suddenly and unexpectedly 12 days ago he had just turned 50 ( I'm 41)
Nothing prepares you for a sudden loss like that I am so sorry you are going through it too. My inbox is open if you need to talk Flowers

I’m so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences. I don’t have the words to express how sorry I am that you are going through this.

Scoose · 11/06/2023 16:04

Thank you stella x

redastherose · 11/06/2023 22:43

I'm so sorry for your loss, I lost my partner in March he was 66 but we thought fit and well. Sadly it tuned out that his heart wasn't. It is an awful time, the shock is the worst when you simply don't expect anything like this to happen. Sending un-mumsnetly hugs.

WtP · 11/06/2023 23:49

OP I wish you the best possible future, I lost my DW in 2019 after 37 years together since we were teenagers.
Its utterly heart breaking and makes you question WTF the world means anymore.
Just cling on to your hopes for the future.

caringcarer · 12/06/2023 00:12

What a terrible shock. It will be difficult over the next few weeks with a funeral to prepare for, but even harder after, once the reality he's gone starts to sink in. I'm so sorry you are both having to go through this @Scoose and @Abcdefghik. Sending kind thoughts and strength to you. Accept any help offered irl.

BaffledOnceAgain · 12/06/2023 00:16

Sending lots of love to you at this time. I lost dh suddenly in April 2013 at the age of 39 and posted on here the same night.

In the coming weeks, look up WAY Widowed and Young if you are younger than 51. The charity helped me a great deal. I'm still here, ticking along, 10 years later and found a way to keep going. You will too. For now, take one moment, one minute, one hour at a time and accept all offers of help.

MrsCatE · 12/06/2023 03:20

Hand hold. I'm so sorry. I understand you have someone to help and please take their offers of food / drink etc even though you don't think you can even consider it at this time. They want to help and you need to keep going xx

MrsCatE · 12/06/2023 03:31

@Scoose I'm so sorry for your loss too Flowers I just can't imagine the absolute shock and then trying to understand that they're no longer 'here'.

SandraTeaspoon · 12/06/2023 03:49

So sorry for your loss Flowers

ExitChasedByAMemory · 12/06/2023 04:33

Sorry for your loss Flowers Hopefully you managed to get some sleep Brew

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