It should be my dd1's 10th birthday today, she was born at 26 weeks and died at 3 days old. Feeling sad tonight, meant to do something nice but it didn't happen. Anyway just wanted to post here to acknowledge it because nobody has I usually get a call from my mum but I haven't, maybe she just doesn't want to make me sad. Dp hasn't mentioned her either, but I know he will be thinking of her, we just can't get the words out (or don't want to in case we upset ourselves) We have 3 more children now and they know about her to an extent, we have her picture and hospital things in our room....
anyway feeling bit better now I've got it down, have had a little cry, think it was needed. I'm sure all the above is normal..