Please or to access all these features

Bereavement

Find bereavement help and support from other Mumsnetters. See also your choices after baby loss.

See all MNHQ comments on this thread

Trinityrhinos Unspeakably Shit Stuff part two

954 replies

TrinityRhino · 14/05/2013 20:39

Hi everyone
Thank you for so much help and such kind words x

OP posts:
Mouseface · 20/05/2013 21:59

Blush TripleB

Thank you, what a lovely thing to post when you don't 'know' someone :) xx

Trin - I can only echo what the fab BB&B said to you about what a fantastic and productive day you've had today :)

I'm so glad that the girls managed school today, you know that things may change over the next few days, as the funeral nears.

You know that and I don't mean to point out the bloody obvious, but just make sure that you look after yourself too sweetheart.

Lots of love, be back tomorrow.

Mouse xx

BewitchedBotheredandBewildered · 21/05/2013 00:49

Hope you're snoozing nicely all you Rhinos x

mistlethrush · 21/05/2013 10:30

Thinking of you all again Trin

YoniMatopoeia · 21/05/2013 10:50

Hey Trin. DH is at yours now, but I guess you must be out walking the dog?

He will leave the Wi stuff on the kitchen table.

TrinityRhino · 21/05/2013 11:56

hey yoni. he came and found me. I was having a nap. Lolly pup tried to sit on his chest for a cuddle Grin

thankyou Smile

OP posts:
Thumbwitch · 21/05/2013 13:36

Glad you managed to get a nap, Trin - hope that helps with the overtiredness that is preventing you from sleeping.

Seeing people in the funeral parlour is a strange experience, I have found, but generally a helpful one, in that the person doesn't look like themselves any more. I mean, they do, but they look like a waxwork version. So for me it helps to realise that their soul/vital essence is no longer in that body, it's out there somewhere, free. I liked the way they did it in Cocoon - little bright blue sparks escaping away into the cosmos - that makes me feel comforted, I hope it helps you a little.

(((hugs))) for you all - glad you have people helping you. xx

YoniMatopoeia · 21/05/2013 14:58

Sorry he woke you up :)

Spoke to him after he had left and he did mention that Lolly pup was lovely but not ideally suited to being a guard dog Grin

Hope the girls enjoy the game.

YoniMatopoeia · 21/05/2013 14:58

Oh and I hope he gave you the hug from me.

TrinityRhino · 21/05/2013 18:15

yeah he did give me a hug Grin
he was walking through the house shouting 'hello' and Lolly did nothing Grin

OP posts:
BewitchedBotheredandBewildered · 21/05/2013 18:16

Been driving through the country side today, it's trying so hard to look like Spring, but is damp and chilly.
Just lit the fire [humphycrossface]

How's the hunt for the new bed coming on?

TrinityRhino · 21/05/2013 18:28

new bed ARRIVED today

OP posts:
BewitchedBotheredandBewildered · 21/05/2013 18:34

Ooh exciting! What's it like? Did you have to get new linen too or does yours fit?
Sorry, very nosey, tell me to sod off!

Mouseface · 21/05/2013 19:52

Evening lovely!!

YAYAYAYAYAY for new bed.

Grin

Fab news, I bet you are so looking forward to just all being in one bed, with enough bloomin' room and feeling safe, a little more solid, a little more together again.

I'm glad you got a hug today too, you cannot beat 'Huggles' as Nemo calls them.

So, you have the bed, how is the laptop issue coming along?

IwishIwasmoreorganised · 21/05/2013 22:34

Sleep tight in your new bed Trinity.

Xxxx

BewitchedBotheredandBewildered · 21/05/2013 23:07

Sounds tempting Mouse.
We've taken more notice than usual of the weather up there ^^^^ as we will be siting a house in the autumn, and it's been warmer and drier for a couple of months than down here on the south coast Confused

Trinity, I'm so horrified at your situation, and in awe of how you're dealing with it, I can't not check the thread. It's evolving, and it's not really my style to keep saying Hallo I'm Here.

So I might tell you what I've been doing, but I'm really only interested in supporting you, without giving you any pressure to be here.

TrinityRhino · 22/05/2013 07:42

telling me what you've been doing is great

OP posts:
TrinityRhino · 22/05/2013 07:43

bed is soo comfy
and HUGE Smile

OP posts:
BeerTricksPotter · 22/05/2013 07:48

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

BewitchedBotheredandBewildered · 22/05/2013 08:34

Oh good. I like the thought of you all piled into it with Lollypup.

Trumpton · 22/05/2013 09:51

Mornin Trin. Hope cuddles were good . And that this morning is going well x

Gingerbreadlatte · 22/05/2013 11:56

Hi Trinity,
You don't know me but I'm yet another who knows your story. I've lurked on your threads when your DH died and this one- you are often in my thoughts, in a non stalker ish way of course!!

I wanted to say how amazingly you are handling this. Especially in terms of your mini Rhinos.

I'm happy to share stuff going on here if it helps Smile

Ginger x

Mouseface · 22/05/2013 15:26

Trin -

Great news that your bed is comfy! I'm a huge fan of comfy beds that envelope you with duvets and pillows and of course, children and a dog! Grin

How are you today lovely? I mean really?

Sending you love from a germ filled Mouse and Nemo. xx

MelodyBaker · 22/05/2013 16:58

Glad the bed is comfy trin and there's room for everyone Smile
Melo x

TrinityRhino · 22/05/2013 17:38

we're doing ok. the sheer weight of the responsibilty and the being alone is hitting me

OP posts:
MelodyBaker · 22/05/2013 18:35

Keep posting trin. Your alone only without an adult by your side, you have thousands of people thinking about you and checking the thread. There is always someone thinking about you