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doctor appt friday for DS (sicky, off-balance, bad ears)

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EdgarAleNPie · 23/02/2011 18:15

right - he's had an anti-biotic ear spray for two weeks. he has been particularly sick the past week so its doing bugger all

my plan for friday is to ask

-for heavy oral anti-bs to realy kick the infection (if it is bacterial, as if its in the inner ear an exterior spray won't touch it).
-for a referral to a paediatrician (which i can always cancel if he gets better before it coes through)

  • anti-emetics/ anti nausea pills? he's been keeping very little food down. quite thin.

how does that sound for a plan?

he already saw audiology, they said 'yes, there's fluid in his ear.' is there any point in seeing them again?

He's now been down with this since November. Gone from running and kicking a ball to staggering around the house and falling over. can't manage more than a few yards without support.

ok, any thoughts?

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TheSleepFairy · 18/03/2011 23:00

So so sorry. Will be thinking of you & your family.

Danthe4th · 18/03/2011 23:02

I've been thinking of you and your family all evening, It is just the worst thing possible to happen and you will stay in my thoughts xxx

Salmotrutta · 18/03/2011 23:05

I'm so sorry. Words are useless. XX

orangehead · 18/03/2011 23:07

Edgar, I have only just seen this. Im am so sorry for your loss. Your ds sounds like a lovely little boy

miniwedge · 18/03/2011 23:13

I'm so so sorry to hear of your loss. Sending you and yours love and prayers. X x

Hk13 · 18/03/2011 23:16

I'm so sorry for you Edgar.

Thinking of you and sending angels to look after you all

xx

Hassled · 18/03/2011 23:21

I'm so very very sorry. I can't begin to know what to say - just so sorry.

WafflingOn · 18/03/2011 23:22

I am so very sorry to hear about your tragic loss. You are , and will be, in my thoughts and prayers. X

hairypotter · 18/03/2011 23:23

I am so sorry for your loss. Your darling son sounds like such an amazing little boy. No words will ever be enough. Have hugged dd1 and dd2 extra hard tonight. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers xxx

mavornia · 18/03/2011 23:25

So, so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts too and your beautiful little boy

cory · 18/03/2011 23:26

So very sorry.

DollyBantry · 18/03/2011 23:31

I read this thread earlier tonight and have been in tears ever since. I'm so, so sorry for your loss and I send you much love and hugs.

My little boy has been quite 'hard work' recently, but I have been in to his room and hugged him so tightly tonight.

I will be thinking of you over the next few days and weeks, I do hope this thread brings you some comfort. Thank you for sharing your memories with us.

xxx

Jacksmania · 18/03/2011 23:32

Edgar - you don't know me but I have read a lot of your posts and I just wanted to tell you that thousands of miles away, someone is crying for you and your little boy. DS(Jackbaby, JB) was stressing me out a minute ago and now he's all put out because mummy is squeezing him too tight :(

AmpleBosom · 18/03/2011 23:39

There are no words, much love to you and your family xXx

IBlameThePenguins · 18/03/2011 23:40

There are no words, but I wanted to tell you how very sorry I am.

Your memories of him are beautiful and so moving. Thank You for sharing them. He sounds like an amazing little boy. I held my DD so tight tonight.

I will keep you all in my thoughts.

xxx

simpson · 18/03/2011 23:44

I am so sorry to hear your news Sad

My thoughts are with you and your family xx

RachelHRD · 18/03/2011 23:45

Thinking of you and your family.

Words cannot express my sadness for you all xxxx

ComeAlongPond · 18/03/2011 23:45

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Thinking of you all tonight xx

bran · 18/03/2011 23:49

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sybilfaulty · 18/03/2011 23:55

So very sorry for your terrible loss. Am thinking of you all tonight. God bless X

maristella · 19/03/2011 00:01

Edgar I'm so sorry :(

Have shed a few tears and lit a candle for your DS, and have smiled at the memories you shared with us.
Sleep tight little one xxxxxx

perfumedlife · 19/03/2011 00:10

I'm heartsore for you Edgar.

Your memories sound beautiful, your boy must have been wonderful, all the love and care he showed his sister at such a tender age.

We are in Scotland, candles lit, tears rolling for you all. Tragedy. I can't find the words, god bless you all.x

edam · 19/03/2011 00:16

Oh Edgar, how heart-breaking. I'm so very sorry. Bless your gorgeous ds and your dds too.

EduStudent · 19/03/2011 00:18

So very, very sorry. Thinking of you x

madmouse · 19/03/2011 00:18

Edgar I'm in bits for you tonight - don't even know you but sitting here sobbing

Because I'm mummy of a 3yo ds who nearly didn't make it - you're living my nightmare and I wish I could take it away from you.

God bless you x

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