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doctor appt friday for DS (sicky, off-balance, bad ears)

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EdgarAleNPie · 23/02/2011 18:15

right - he's had an anti-biotic ear spray for two weeks. he has been particularly sick the past week so its doing bugger all

my plan for friday is to ask

-for heavy oral anti-bs to realy kick the infection (if it is bacterial, as if its in the inner ear an exterior spray won't touch it).
-for a referral to a paediatrician (which i can always cancel if he gets better before it coes through)

  • anti-emetics/ anti nausea pills? he's been keeping very little food down. quite thin.

how does that sound for a plan?

he already saw audiology, they said 'yes, there's fluid in his ear.' is there any point in seeing them again?

He's now been down with this since November. Gone from running and kicking a ball to staggering around the house and falling over. can't manage more than a few yards without support.

ok, any thoughts?

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Macdog · 18/03/2011 22:01

Words cannot express my sadness.

My thought are with you and your family tonight

BogWoppitt · 18/03/2011 22:02

so sorry x

LtEveDallas · 18/03/2011 22:03

So very sorry for your loss Edgar Sad. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Sleep well little one x

BlessedAssurance · 18/03/2011 22:03

Oh my Lord, Edgar there is nothing to say,I am very very sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.

BuckBuckMcFate · 18/03/2011 22:03

So very, very sorry for you and your family, my thoughts are with you x

ReshapeWhileDamp · 18/03/2011 22:05

I'm so, so sorry. How devastating. He sounded such a loving and brave little boy.
xxx

Maryz · 18/03/2011 22:08

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FunnysInTheGarden · 18/03/2011 22:10

so so sorry Edgar can't begin to understand how you must be feeling. It's every parents worst nightmare. Am crying here for you. Chin up my love and all that.......you poor poor thing.

SharonGless · 18/03/2011 22:11

Am so sorry for your loss and am thinking of you and your family tonight.
Sending special hugs to your girls xx

FriggFRIGG · 18/03/2011 22:13

we have lit a candle here for your son.

there are no words.

im crying my eyes out for your son,a boy i never knew.
you must be,i have no idea where you must be...i dont know what to say,im sorry,im so,so sorry.

im holding my son,he will be sleeping in my arms tonight.
when my 2yo DD crawls into my bed in the night,thats where she'll stay.

i will be thinking of you.
all my love to you and your family.x

chicaguapa · 18/03/2011 22:14

Words fail me as I can't think of anything that would possibly make you feel any better. Utterly devastating. Sad Sad Thinking of you and your family.

mylovelymonster · 18/03/2011 22:16

I will pray (& cry) for you all tonight. Especially your brave sweet boy. Words just can't express how truly sorry I am. My heart goes out to you Edgar.

LeninGrad · 18/03/2011 22:16

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JessRabbit · 18/03/2011 22:17

So very shocked, sad and desperately sorry for you.

CloudsOfWitness · 18/03/2011 22:20

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YesPleaseDrChristian · 18/03/2011 22:21

So very sorry to hear of the loss of your lovely boy.

catclarks · 18/03/2011 22:22

So sorry for the loss of your darling boy. My thoughts are with you and your family x

FranticBanana · 18/03/2011 22:26

I have just read your beautiful tribute to your little boy and gone up to hug my two year old so hard I woke him up. Am about to sign off and send an extra donation to Comic Relief, as suggested on the other thread. So very sorry for your loss, praying for comfort and strength for you and your family. x

Sidge · 18/03/2011 22:30

Oh Edgar I'm so very very sorry.

Wishing you peace and strength and loving memories of your darling boy xxx

LauraNorder · 18/03/2011 22:31

Edgar I am without words, just tears Sad. I have no idea what you are going through right now, but I am thinking of you and your beautiful baby boy. xx

mondayschild · 18/03/2011 22:32

So, so sorry for the loss of your amazing little boy. My thoughts are with you and your family.

AbiAbi · 18/03/2011 22:32

No words can express how sorry I am to ready this Edgar.

When you are strong enough, go to the bereaved mums thread, they are wonderful inspirational women.

Keep talking, don't let a thought go un-vocalised. Say what you are thinking, talking saved DH and I.

Be kind to yourself.

I am so so so so sorry.

lockets · 18/03/2011 22:32

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cloudydays · 18/03/2011 22:32

I am so very sorry for you and for your family - the image you put in my mind of your little boy, cuddling his baby sister when no one was watching, will stay with me. He sounds like a beautiful child, and I'm crying real tears for your loss.

Just wanted to add to the thread, and let you know that there's one more person holding you in her heart tonight.

Tamdin · 18/03/2011 22:33

So desperately sorry to hear the tragic news of your little boy. Have donated many times today to comic relief and will continue to do so in memory of your son. Signing off now too. X

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