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Message from Amanda1

71 replies

Rhubarb · 17/10/2005 21:22

I really wish I didn't have to post this. I received an email this evening from Amanda, here it is:

"I went into labour last Thursday evening and Rebecca Alice was born at 825pm. I had to have an emergency caesarian because of my placenta problem. I came home this afternoon.

There will be no birth or death certificate as she didn't live outside of me. Because I was less than 24 weeks it counts as an early miscarriage and not a stillbirth. No record of her life.

I wondered if you could post something on the Feb 06 antental thread for me please. Or start a thread in the antenatal section just to let them know. I probably won't be on mumsnet for a while until I get my head and life back together."

Any messages of condolence will be passed onto her.

OP posts:
hunkerpumpkin · 17/10/2005 21:23

Oh, no! I'm so very sorry to read this, Rhubarb - please send my deepest sympathy to Amanda.

My thoughts will be with her - if there is anything I can do, just ask

DelGirl · 17/10/2005 21:24

gosh, so sorry to read this . You've had one hell of a time of it Amanda Take good care of yourself and hope to 'see' you back on MN soon.

Miaou · 17/10/2005 21:26

Oh no oh no oh no .... oh I'm so sorry Amanda. I'm so very sad for you.

RnBlood · 17/10/2005 21:28

so sorru

Yorkiegirl · 17/10/2005 21:29

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dramaqueen72 · 17/10/2005 21:31

so very sad, I'm really sorry. please pass that on.

dejags · 17/10/2005 21:38

I am so very sorry for your loss Amanda.

WigWamBam · 17/10/2005 22:00

Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear this. My deepest sympathies and thoughts are with you.

spookyserenity · 17/10/2005 22:01

my thoughts are with you.

blueteddy · 17/10/2005 22:11

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teeavee · 17/10/2005 22:15

i'm very sorry to hear this - all my sympathies.

bonkerz · 17/10/2005 22:17

am so sorry, life really isnt fair sometimes.

hewlettsdaughter · 17/10/2005 22:30

Sorry to hear this. Rebecca Alice is a lovely name.

milward · 17/10/2005 22:32

thoughts are with you xxx

rickman · 17/10/2005 22:35

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motherinferior · 17/10/2005 22:36

Oh no. Oh no. No.
xxxxxxxxxxxx

marthamoo · 17/10/2005 22:40

Oh God I'm so sorry - how bloody unfair.

bosscat · 17/10/2005 22:42

I'm so sorry for your loss Amanda. Take care of yourself x

puff · 17/10/2005 22:46

I'm so sorry Amanda .

Dior · 17/10/2005 22:47

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jacobsmummy · 17/10/2005 22:55

Amanda, I am so sorry xxxx
I am thinking of you and your family, how very sad.

Pixiefish · 17/10/2005 22:55

sorry to hear this amanda xxx

Mum2OneAndBump · 17/10/2005 23:04

I am so very sorry to hear about your tragic news my thoughts are with you

Kayleigh · 17/10/2005 23:13

So sorry to hear your sad news Amanda1.
Thinking of you.

Milge · 17/10/2005 23:16

I am very sorry for your loss.

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