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My half sister has died before I could meet her.

45 replies

dropinthe · 22/08/2005 20:57

Was so busy talking about it on here-it was too late.I can't see for my tears.

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soapbox · 22/08/2005 20:57

Oh that is hard - so very hard

I'm so sorry

Heathcliffscathy · 22/08/2005 20:58

i'm so sorry.

i didn't see original threads, but your title speaks for itself.

KBear · 22/08/2005 20:58

dropinthe, my condolences. I didn't see your earlier thread so I don't know the circumstances. So sorry for your loss.

Aero · 22/08/2005 20:59

Know nothing about this, but very sorry to read this.

Charlee · 22/08/2005 20:59

Oh no dropinthe, im so sorry, theres nothing we can say to help your pain but im here if you need to offload

puff · 22/08/2005 20:59

I'm sorry dropinthe . I was following your thread, but didn't post as I couldn't think of anything to add to other posts.

hunkermunker · 22/08/2005 21:00

I'm so sorry

dropinthe · 22/08/2005 21:00

Life is just too shit for words.I wanted her so badly!

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Kayleigh · 22/08/2005 21:01

oh dropinthe, I am so sorry. I saw your earlier thread. What terrible news.

Munchkinola · 22/08/2005 21:01

so sorry

winnie · 22/08/2005 21:02

dropinthe, we exchanged emails at the time of your original post. I am so sorry. Please mail me if you need a 'chat' Winnie xx

dropinthe · 22/08/2005 21:03

I remember-Thank you.

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Hulababy · 22/08/2005 21:07

So sorry

dropinthe · 22/08/2005 21:07

I really need some hugs-dh is out with ds1 and ds2 is fast asleep-my Mum didn't care a hoot about her as saw all the "other" family as one big threat and have no one to talk to-dh will be home soon with crap advice and stupid plattitudes that mean nothing.

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charliecat · 22/08/2005 21:08

(((((((hugs))))))))) have a big cry it will make you feel better xx

misdee · 22/08/2005 21:08

i'm so sorry to hear this, can gve you a real hug, but will a virtual one do?

LilacLotus · 22/08/2005 21:09

i'm sorry {{hug}}

dropinthe · 22/08/2005 21:11

I can't stop-she was the one that looked the spitting image of me-I wanted to meet her SO badly.Its always just been mum and me which I have always hated-I wanted sisters so much-the other half sister is in pieces which is why she hasn't rung me-I just hope I can build some bridges when she is ready.Couldnt bear not to meet any of them.

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Hausfrau · 22/08/2005 21:15

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jayzmummy · 22/08/2005 21:17

Sorry for your sad loss.
Given time I hope you can build bridges with the remainder of your family.

dropinthe · 22/08/2005 21:18

Winnie-can you CAT me?-I can't find your original message and would like to talk to someone.I may not respond tonight as dh is due home any minute but I will tommorrow.Thanks for rememebring me.

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winnie · 22/08/2005 21:19

Of course I will x

dropinthe · 22/08/2005 21:23

Life is weird-a few hours ago I was happily posting on that silly I spy thread and now I just feel empty.

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winnie · 22/08/2005 21:24

it is done x

pindy · 22/08/2005 21:27

So sorry - don't know the story but my heart goes out to you. Keep strong.