I went to see a friend last week (I have a 20 month old ds) and her 3 year old is really loud and in your face.....are all little boys like this ?? That may sound dim as I appreciate that all children are different but my dh commented and said something like " I hope [ds] doesn't turn out like that at that age, I don't think I'd cope" - lame of dh as you cope with what you've got but just interested.....