Hiya
I need to let this out and hopefully someone will be able to help me!
We have hell at bedtime! My sons co-sleep with us, but not by choice! Its just gradually happened, I don't know how.
Anyways we take them to bed at about 7pm - one of us goes up and we all (whoever is taking them to bed that night and DS1 (2.5) and DS2 (11 months) ) and we all get into bed and they have their bottles.
Then they start getting up, screaming, crying ect ect and it takes on average 2 hours to get them to bed.
Its ruining mine and DPs relationship
When we do 'escape' from the bed once they fall asleep i can 100% guarentee that within 1.5 hours one of them will wake up and in turn wake the other up and then I have to go to bed with them.
Theres no room, no space
I love my kids to death but come 7pm they annoy the hell out of me!
This is probably TMI (but it will show whats going on in this house) me and DP have been attemping to be together intimatly for bout 10 days now and we havent been able to because of this!!
we have no 'marital bed' as theres 2 kids in it and one of them is always awake of screaming ect and we cant just go for it down satirs as one of them has usually refused to sleep and has been brought down stairs to prevent them waking the other IYKWIM.
And my 11 month old is sooooo clingy - i honestly cant put him down!!
help me