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Need help with a girl name!

28 replies

reid88 · 16/09/2026 23:01

Hi all,

My husband and I have been struggling with a name for our baby girl. We like classic names especially those that have a meaning behind them. We’ve shortlisted the folllowing - Emma, Grace, Charlotte, Esther and have likely decided to go with Esther. But we are concerned it may sound a little old!

What do you guys think of Esther! What comes to mind when you hear the name?

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pimhi · 16/09/2026 23:03

Esther is a pretty name and i don't think its too old but my immediate thought is the killer girl from Orphan

Needmorelego · 16/09/2026 23:04

I know an Esther.
She's 20 and very cool in her dress sense (think pink hair, band t-shirt etc) and has the excitement and energy of a puppy.
Definitely not "old".

Madam2Swords · 17/09/2026 00:00

It's far too modern. Have a look here for a name Girl's name.

Shloopie · 17/09/2026 00:02

Madam2Swords · 17/09/2026 00:00

It's far too modern. Have a look here for a name Girl's name.

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Shloopie · 17/09/2026 00:06

I sounds a bit dry and dusty to me for some reason. I can't imagine an Esther being much fun. I picture quite a severe and imperious woman with a pince-nez and a tight bun.

I like Emma best from your list.

TheSandgroper · 17/09/2026 02:51

Madam2Swords · 17/09/2026 00:00

It's far too modern. Have a look here for a name Girl's name.

Edited

It’s 2400 years old! At least!

Am I missing something?

mathanxiety · 17/09/2026 03:36

Agree with @Shloopie

I much prefer Emma too.

Jessbow · 17/09/2026 10:38

The Esther I knew was a pretty wee soul- her sister was called Naiomi

I think Melissa is a pretty name, and not popular
I also like Kate , Aimee and Louisa

Peanutlicious · 17/09/2026 11:00

I think they're all great names, my faves are Grace and Esther.

Madam2Swords · 17/09/2026 11:03

Naiomi that spelling is awful.

Namiemcnameface · 17/09/2026 11:04

I love it. Was in my top 3 for DD who was born this summer.

Met one last year who was super cool and successful. Also came across it in a book, the seven skins of Esther Wilding. It kept cropping up during my pregnancy. Think it's actually got a modern, edgy feel to it despite being a very old/traditional name.

I also like Hester, but think you'd permanently be correcting people who think you've said Esther.

Madam2Swords · 17/09/2026 11:07

TheSandgroper · 17/09/2026 02:51

It’s 2400 years old! At least!

Am I missing something?

Yes. It seems to be a duplicate thread.
OP says "But we are concerned it may sound a little old!" - of course it's old it's from the Old Testament!

AllaMova · 17/09/2026 11:08

I love the name Esther. It is an old name, yes. Though, I think it’s due a revival!

Needmorelego · 17/09/2026 11:10

Madam2Swords · 17/09/2026 11:07

Yes. It seems to be a duplicate thread.
OP says "But we are concerned it may sound a little old!" - of course it's old it's from the Old Testament!

I expect the OP meant "old fashioned".

HorseandHeron · 17/09/2026 11:10

I love Esther as a name. It's elegant, classic and biblical (I love a good bible name) and less commonly used than the others on your list.

Estie or Essie are cute nns.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 17/09/2026 11:11

Esther is a great name. My DD had 4 Emma’s in her class at school. It’s very common. Charlotte is very over used too. Grace - less so. I think names used a long time ago are always classics except maybe avoid Gertrude and possibly Ethel. You could try Emmeline. Much better than Emma.

cupfinalchaos · 17/09/2026 11:11

Not mad on Esther to be honest. Can imagine Grace being Gracie which is cute. How about Sienna?

Pieceofpurplesky · 17/09/2026 11:11

I've taught a few Esther's and currently have 2 in my classes (yr7) so it's not old fashioned - it's a lovely, timeless name.
Esther Grace is lovely.
All the names are lovely. Similar - Anna, Jenny, Eliza

ThatMintMember · 17/09/2026 11:28

Your name list is similar to ours. Husband loves Charlotte, I love Emma, we both love Alice. Grace is one of our middle name options too :)

TrojanDonkey · 17/09/2026 13:34

This is a duplicate thread. Hmm

Madam2Swords · 17/09/2026 13:36

TrojanDonkey · 17/09/2026 13:34

This is a duplicate thread. Hmm

Word for word but different username. I linked the other thread early on in the replies.

Madam2Swords · 17/09/2026 13:41

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Thinkofnewthings · 17/09/2026 13:46

I really like Esther. It’s a known name without being common.

BasilandTom · 17/09/2026 13:54

Love the name Esther. Unlike a lot of names I think it can be the name of a high powered lawyer or a super quirky, creative type. Everyone knows how to read and pronounce it but it isn’t super common.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 17/09/2026 14:05

All ok, except Emma, which I love.