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What was the name of your school bully/bullies?

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Reviled · 04/05/2026 12:11

What was the name of your school bully/bullies?

Ill go first Caitlyn and Leah

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TheeNotoriousPIG · 04/05/2026 19:30

Heather, Lydia, Rachel, Sam, Shanice, Jasmin, Curtis, Elliot, Jordan, Joanna, Jade x2, Kayleigh, Chloe, and on and on and on... I had a facial difference that I couldn't hide, so I was the target for a lot of bullying by most people who noticed it (including one specific teacher, Miss Whitley, who was probably a bully in her own schooldays). It's no wonder that I'd spend the last night of every school holidays crying and asking not to have to go back to school. People started treating me a bit better when my deformity started to be fixed. By the time I left, I barely spoke to anyone, because I just wanted to be invisible and go unnoticed.

One got slapped and threatened by a sibling's friend. He never came near me after that. Funnily enough, he had a similar deformity, but not as bad... and WTF tries bullying someone because they have a recently deceased parent?! (Fortunately, I wasn't too bothered about the death of an abusive parent...).

One only apologised years later, when my sibling refused to sit with him, and told the mutual friend why. He eventually moved to New Zealand. Good riddance, in my opinion...

I've seen one once, with a ropey-looking boyfriend and a gang of offspring. She knew exactly who I was. I gave her a filthy look and told my dog (then a friendly puppy) in a nice loud voice that we don't associate with such people. Thankfully, my puppy was very obedient in avoiding her!

I suspect that a lot of them don't realise how much damage they cause, but what possesses people to be so unkind? I wouldn't wish their treatment on my own worst enemy. I'm really glad that I moved far enough away that my own DC will never meet theirs, or attend the same schools that I did.

asdbaybeeee · 04/05/2026 19:37

Kelly
Cheryl
Lynsey
emma
shelley
lindsey
denella

fucking cows the lot of them and the boys weren’t much better

steven
stephen
aaron
andrew
andrew

TheBeaTgoeson1 · 04/05/2026 19:38

Sophie, William, Vivian.

MegMortimer · 04/05/2026 19:39

Michelle. She thought she was my friend but I didn't like her at all because she was nasty and violent. I befriended her to stop her punching me.

As usual, I told my mother and she wouldn't help me.

MaryBennetThe2nd · 04/05/2026 19:50

Elaine at primary and Linda at secondary. ☹️

starrynight009 · 04/05/2026 19:52

Joanna, her little gang, and Claire. Although Joanna and her ‘cool girls’ clique bullied some of my friends more than they bullied me. I wish I’d had the confidence back then to stand up to them.

Bamboozle30001 · 04/05/2026 20:02

LameStrangeNameChange · 04/05/2026 19:10

I’m sorry you were bullied, but this is just batshit. How evil can you actually be if you find it funny that someone died from cancer? What is wrong with you?

Bullied all my life and that bitch and her sister were the worst. Thrown into a pond by them for being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Im glad she got her karma and I hope the rest of the trash get it too.

AmericaIsSoBloodyGreat · 04/05/2026 20:02

Carl. Cunt

LameStrangeNameChange · 04/05/2026 20:45

Bamboozle30001 · 04/05/2026 20:02

Bullied all my life and that bitch and her sister were the worst. Thrown into a pond by them for being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Im glad she got her karma and I hope the rest of the trash get it too.

You should get therapy. It’s not normal to find it funny that a woman dies from cancer, and wish it on her sister too. I feel bad for you.

BeMellowAquaSquid · 04/05/2026 20:50

Danielle. She spat on me for a whole term when I walked into assembly. It only stopped because she told me when my younger sister was going to start that she was going to beat her up so I agreed to meet her by the school pond she was going to beat me up all her mates were there but I launched the first punch and she never bothered anyone ever again.

Bamboozle30001 · 04/05/2026 20:52

LameStrangeNameChange · 04/05/2026 20:45

You should get therapy. It’s not normal to find it funny that a woman dies from cancer, and wish it on her sister too. I feel bad for you.

I am in extensive therapy. I have wished I was dead since I was 5.

But I truly believe there are people who deserve cancer and those who get cancer that don't deserve it.

LameStrangeNameChange · 04/05/2026 20:54

Bamboozle30001 · 04/05/2026 20:52

I am in extensive therapy. I have wished I was dead since I was 5.

But I truly believe there are people who deserve cancer and those who get cancer that don't deserve it.

Change therapists.

Bamboozle30001 · 04/05/2026 21:08

LameStrangeNameChange · 04/05/2026 20:54

Change therapists.

Nah my therapist is great and I'm a lot better than I was.

Redhairandhottubs · 04/05/2026 21:09

Rachel and Karen at primary school.
Tricia, Suzy and Elaine at secondary.

ladygindiva · 04/05/2026 21:17

CloudyBayPlease · 04/05/2026 12:57

There were twins in my year named Donna and Debbie! Can’t remember a thing about them apart from their naff names.

Was this Cornwall? I knew twins with those names at that time

Fourkgtogo · 04/05/2026 21:27

Jackie and her vile sidekick Trudy! I hope they are miserable in life.

Mumofgirls2017 · 04/05/2026 21:56

Catherine
marianne
sara
lucie
rebecca
emma
natalie
natasha
louise
stephanie

Giraffehaver · 04/05/2026 22:17

Sara and Sarah. 2 tiny girls who were as threatening as wet socks buy they tried bless them

Firebird83 · 05/05/2026 12:22

I was bullied by an Aimee, moved schools and then bullied by an Amie! Also knew a horrible Amy at the second school.

Vibrantelephant · 06/05/2026 13:02

Anita. She made the last 18 months of high school, and couple of years after I left, hell (following me around town, pubs, night clubs etc). Haven't seen her for 30 years but I still cannot forget what she did to me. She never would tell me why.

Fgfgfg · 06/05/2026 19:49

Another Joanne. What's with all the Joannes? I always let her bullying wash over me because my mum told me things about Joannes mum that would have completely fucked her up if I'd said anything. It gave me a sense of power knowing that, if I chose to, I could destroy her life.

Sandra. Nasty girl who has suffered as an adult. I was very happy when her 16th birthday perm went horribly wrong.

BleakAF · 06/05/2026 20:08

Joanne, her mum was a teacher at the school. She has since tried to befriend me twice on FB over the years. Vile.

My darling niece is currently being bullied by an Arabella. From Wilmslow. Says it all really.

ViciousChicken · 06/05/2026 20:12

Johanna. Always wondered what became of her as she was so awful even as an 8/9/10 year old.

amymel2016 · 06/05/2026 20:16

Matthew at primary school

Amanda at secondary school - vile bitch who really upped the anti when my Dad died

Withthe2Ls · 06/05/2026 20:26

Victoria